Polls: Girl's Behavior

You’ve been dating a man for a while. Feelings are mutual. He invites you over, and you notice a strip-club pole in his living room.

When you ask why it’s there, he says:
“That’s for you. Any woman who wants me has to pole dance for me.”

You hesitate and say you don’t know how — or that you’re not a stripper. He replies:
“I’m not a bodybuilder, but I still go to the gym.”

What do you do? Accept the challenge, or walk away?

I saw a bit on YouTube which made me cringe a bit. It was satire but it started with a girl telling her boyfriend she's going on a girls trip, just a few of her friends.

Okay, then she says they're going to a club where there's a lot of guys there, he asks why nobody is bringing their boyfriends, she says all her friends are, but she wanted to just go with them.

I know it's satire, but the second I hear "girls trip", I say pretend to be okay with it, but if the key she has to your apartment still works when she gets back, then shame on you for letting her cheat. Even if she hasn't done it yet, the second she walks in and mentioned a girls trip, she'd already made a conscious decision to cheat, months before the "trip" happens.

I don't know, am I being paranoid and insecure, people? Before ladies start saying it's stupid, flip the script. If I was your boyfriend and I wanted to go to a bar with all of your friends and I said you can't come, what then?

Those locks should be changed while I'm out and you should have thrown all of my personal belongings out of the window, that same night. To do anything else is to allow yourself to be disrespected and spit on by the person who's supposed to love you, so please don't ignore signs.

Before accusations come in, no, I didn't get cheated on in this fashion. It did happen, but not in this way, it was much more of a sudden thing. The only indications one of my 3 relationships gave of infidelity was her acting nervous around me despite me being always supportive. Maybe I supported her wrong, maybe when she was crying and asked me to leave one night after a huge fight with her mom, I shouldn't have held her, anyway, or maybe.

But in the future, if a girl I love cries, you'll have to strangle me to make me stop trying to comfort her and even then, my dead arms will still keep her warm, so judge away, if you like

Was a video that came across my Tik Tok

Seems like a lot of work.

Is she just trying to play the field? Did she break up with some guy and wants to play with the next one? Why does she need to post about being single?

Share things you are afraid to tell,

Confession is often considered a private thing... but why? Would you do so publicly... airing your darkest secrets that are in secret, influencing your present?

Have you as a man ever got fed up of having to shave / trim your facial hair... or as a woman felt irritated during intimacy by stubble/beard or dislike look of male facial hair...

And desired that it would have been better if even men had naturally soft smooth face as women do?

i can't recall there being any or many 5 or 6 years ago that had tattoo's in that location but like now days it seems like just about every other girl 19-30 has one at the gym or bar or beach whenever they would be visible

and for poll purposes can count girls you don't really know well like bartenders , girls at gyms not just people you know personally