Girls, How do you feel about giving birth?

Question

I, recently, watched a movie that heavily dealt with the concept of women giving birth to children. While I was watching it, I couldn't help but wonder about a woman's point of view. What do they, generally think, about giving birth to children?

There are certain things that only a woman will ever truly understand. Giving birth to a child, is one of them. Women are the only ones who can do it. Do they spend much time thinking about this? Do they feel as if they're making a great sacrifice, when they choose to have a child? After all, the process involves lots of pain and discomfort. Do they view it as unfair, or are they happy to do it?

A long time ago, I heard a woman say that she feels sorry for men, because we'll never know what it's like to give birth. So, I guess that answers how she views it. Is her view common, among women?

Here are a few questions that I have for women.

If you could give birth to children, without them being required to grow inside of you, would you do it, or would you feel as if you'd be missing out on something that's sacred? If your plan is to have children, is giving birth something that you dread, or do you not think about it, so much? For some of you, is it something that you look forward to, despite it being a physically unpleasant experience?

For me, there's something that's very intriguing about knowing that only a woman can answer questions like these.

Finally, I want to thank you, as you go through life, regularly dealing with issues that men never have to struggle with. You endure discomfort on a monthly basis. Yet, you complain so little about it, that I live my life, nearly completely unaware of it.

I guess this makes Mother's Day, one of the most warranted holidays. Thank you for all that you endure, on behalf of the human race.

Taurus_Woman · Accepted Answer

From a very young age, especially in my early twenties, I already knew that I would never give birth or have biological children. It was never connected to infertility, fear, or inability, I have always been a healthy woman. This is simply a conscious decision I made for myself, and over the years my views have only become stronger and more defined. One of the main reasons behind my choice is my antinatalist perspective. To me, human existence is inseparable from suffering and mortality. The moment life begins, it also begins moving toward illness, pain, uncertainty, aging, and eventually death. Because of that, I do not find it logical or ethical to bring someone into existence without their consent, knowing that suffering in some form is unavoidable. In recent years, my perspective has intensified even more as the world continues to face wars, pandemics, environmental destruction, pollution, climate change, disasters, and countless uncertainties about the future. Of course, life contains happiness, beauty, and meaningful moments too, but those moments are temporary, while suffering and loss remain inevitable parts of existence. From the very first breath, a child enters a world filled with risks beyond their control. I also see no reason to put my own body and health through physical risks, hormonal changes, and permanent sacrifices for something I personally do not believe in. For me, it would be unnecessary both for myself and for the child who would be brought into this temporary world. If existence were eternal, peaceful, flawless, and free from suffering, perhaps my perspective would be different, and I would give a birth. But reality is not built that way. Because of this, I choose not to create a life that would eventually face pain, fear, loss, and death. In my view, with this decision I protect two lives: my own, and the one that will never have to suffer existence at all. To me, those who never come into existence are the ones who never have to experience pain, loss, or mortality — and in that sense, they remain untouched by suffering forever. Being a mother is not defined by giving birth. Motherhood is far more than biology — it is love, care, protection, guidance, and emotional presence. There are already countless children in the world who need compassion, support, attention, and a safe person beside them. Real motherhood-parenthood is created through love and actions, not only through childbirth. You can still, from time to time , especially on holidays or special occasions , visit orphanages, spend time with children, and give them kindness, attention, and warmth. Even small moments of care and genuine human connection can mean a lot to children who may not receive enough love or emotional support. Sometimes simply being present, listening to them, or making them feel seen and valued can brighten their day more than people realize.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

I don't feel it at all. That is not the kind of activity I would ever want to have to go through. There are many reasons for that but the most important one is that I don't fornicate and thus, giving birth or even allowing a penis inside any of my openings or anywhere else is never ever going to happen in the first place. By the way, I am not into girls either if that is something that just crossed your mind.

There are enough humans on this planet that destroy it without me having to contribute and produce another human being that is going to accelerate that destruction.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I like children. I just have no interest in having any myself.

Ellieeexo · Answer

im not ready but one of my friends been through it

Agape93 · Answer

I'm glad I can't anymore. I'd rather swallow glass.

Anonymous · Answer

It was brilliant, traumatic, weird, vulnerable, painful, strange. Weird crapping in front of people and having orgasms.

queenofcardio · Answer

I'm leaning towards not having kids

Brittanyroseee · Answer

I will never give birth Haha

Anonymous · Answer

Oh, stop.

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