Questions: Girl's Behavior

My closest friend is confused.

This guy says he wants a relationship, future, etc. with her.

However when she asked to meet at his town & go out he said "no, maybe in a few weeks" and the only time he's concretely talked about meeting up is in the distant future - fall season - to do things. He hasn't once mentioned meeting up in his town or at house, etc.

Her two previous - only dated 3 guys - boyfriends were more into meeting. One even offered her his old car, as she was sharing a car with her brother at the time, to travel more easily.

I'm just wondering.

My boyfriend said a few times earlier in the week that hurt & it all came to a T tonight. And in response he initially tried to turn the situation around on me until, later on, he realized he was in the wrong.

And he didn't apologize anyway once realizing this.

Some part of me really wants to believe him & yet the other part is like he's not being entirely honest. If he cared about me he'd have realized what he said was wrong and not added onto it with little comments.