Girls, if you' have to live around an unattractive guy, does it make it harder or easier to be around him?

[Anonymous]

Do you feel some low key anger when seeing him?

[petitedollbabee]

Doesn’t make it harder nor easier. Someone’s physical looks don’t impact my life at all, I really don’t care. Definitely wouldn’t get angry about it, that makes no sense. I would only feel as if it’s hard to be around them, or be angry at them, if they were actively harassing me or doing something to effect my life. For instance if it were a neighbour, if they were throwing things onto my property, being ridiculously loud at all hours or late at night, being rude or disrespectful towards me when we cross paths, or destroying my property, then that would make it hard to live near them and it would make me angry towards them.

[Asker]

Because from my experiences a lot of my female neighbors either got very 😡 at me being around or scared/very uncomfortable

I've been called out by them by simply passing by

[petitedollbabee]

Something tells me that it’s got nothing to do with your “looks”, and more so about your behaviour. Maybe have a hard think about what behaviour could be making them so scared or uncomfortable around you.

[Asker]

Making sexual comments about me

Spreading rumors that I liked one of them

Literally trying to get my attention by Beverly aggressive & sarcastic

[inhua]

harder by far

it's a myth that women don't care about looks. they absolutely do

they don't like the sight of a dirty looking car or a dirty looking house much less a dirty looking man

[havingfun2023]

If I was a woman, I'd never have to worry about hitting on him if he's ugly, right? 👀

[Nikki1989]

What difference does it make?