Polls: Guy's Behavior

I have never spent the night at a guys house before and I rekindled my friendship with this guy after three years of not talking because I moved away... and yeah. I always have had a big crush on him ever since I was a freshman ( I still do). He knew I was really embarrassed, he rub my back and said "Tessa, tell me whats wrong" Anyways, after I told him that I got blood on his bed sheets, he said "I've had girlfriends before and they have gotten blood on my sheets, so it is not big deal, you can't help it" he smiled and gave me a big hug and then we ended up cuddling. Do you think he actually cared? he is a pretty cool guy and then he said "I am probably going to drool on your head when I'm sleeping" i cracked a joke and said "That's okay, we would be even then because I got blood on your sheets" he laughed and gave me a kiss on the head. so what is your opinion?

My crush knows I startle easily and he loves to sneak up behind me and give my shoulders a quick squeeze, like "gotcha!". He also used to give me hugs from the back where he'd drape himself over me and my chair like a blanket and slump his whole weight on me. Now when we hug it's a really long, tight front hug that he doesn't seem to want let go of. We have never made out or had the chance to kiss yet but he did kiss my cheek once in school.

We see each other before and sometimes after school. He knows my schedule and likes to surprise me between classes. In the one class we share he stares at me with goofy eyes or last week he was taking my pen and playing mumblepeg with my hand, like the pen was a knife. He did this for a long time while our friend watched. I think our friends know we have some undefined something because my crush gets really mad if any other guy tries to sit next to me or talk to me if he's talking to me. Not like raging mad, but pretending to be raging, and yells things like " how dare you try to talk to her!" and marks me as his territory.

We texted a ton all summer but that stopped some the first week of school but he texted and messaged me on FB at nine on Saturday morning to ask me for a mutual guy friend's number. I didn't have it and he could've asked any other of our friends for it. So then we talked a while and later he jumped on FB to message me the second I was online.

He suggested that all of our friends go together to a street fair that's a month away. Is this a date of some kind? He's been even flirtier than usual since school started. He used to be sort of like vaguely sexual and just talk about sex acts in general or sing "pussy, pussy, marijuana" in front of me, but now he is more direct and the sex stuff is about me. He asked me to sit on his lap. I just blushed. Last week I got caught in a rainstorm walking to school and my clothes were drenched so I was (stupidly) said "I'm SO wet!" and he says it's bc of him!

Why do guys like to slap my butt? It hurts (it's sensitive okay?)
And sometimes I worry that it will leave a red mark and I won't be able to go swimming :/
The butt has nerve endings and it should be rubbed during sex, not slapped :(

Asian like Korean, Vietnamese, Indonesian,...

And Arab like Lebanese, Turkish, etc.

My crush and I have been message all summer, almost all day long almost every day, like nine hours of back and forth about everything. Yesterday he told me to also text him so we could keep talking while he was out. We are both in relationships. He's been talking with me a lot about how he's bored and unsatisfied with his gf but he would stay with her, even if he doesn't want to, bc he doesn't want her to suffer from being dumped like he did with his last gf. I asked him if he was in love with her and he said not as much as she is with him. She has a guy in another state she sexts with, but my friend says she has no desire to break up. They've been together 18 mos.

He's told me that I'm his other fave person besides gf and have been for 2 yrs. I just found this out in June. He says he loves me, not romantically, but he shows every sign on every list except asking me out bc we've never been free since we've known each other. Every time we are together he is glued to my side unless it's in class then he's giving me this goofy smile, winking and staring at me for minutes on end. I look away because I feel like he's xraying me! He's always lightly touching, rubbing my arm, shoulder, lower back, etc. He talks to me a lot about sex and what things I might want to do. He says he's jk or curious, not seriously inquiring (?) He's made several jokes about us being bf/gf too.

Last night around 3, he was divulging his deepest "pandora's box" secrets, his darkest thoughts, he said, when his laptop died, so we went to sleep. He told me how angry and hurt he still is about his first break up and how he really wants to be free his last year of school to explore the "lovely ladies" he's known for yrs. Then he says there's this girl I don't know that he would like to kiss! Not me! He also said he could never bear the shame of kissing another girl while he has a gf. He said he wanted to start new flames.

Okay so this guy asked me for my number awhile back so we could go out sometime, and we did... But besides that he ended up after about a month & a half of dating he told me he didn't want to date me because I'm not a virgin. ( lost it not by choice js) and so we stopped talking and its been I don't know almost 2 months and now he is texting me again and flirting with me. I don't know like is he trying to play me? Or? Comment opinion below please :)

My guy friend and I message on and off all day, almost every day. He does and says almost every one of the "signs a guy is into you" from the Internet but of course he won't make it easy by just saying, "I want you." He tells me stuff like that he's a nudist and has condoms and lube in his room. He's told me that girls approach him for hookups (and one 3way) but he said no bc he wasn't into any of them. He asks me about stuff I would be into, 3ways, hook ups with friends and period sex are recent examples.

I know he's not trying to use me because he was super excited when I admitted that I like him and he kept telling everyone that I reciprocated! He keeps joking around about me sounding like his gf or that we sound like gf/bf... but that would be ridiculous! ( his words), so I just say OBviously and want to die. I know joking and teasing are signs but it makes me crazy! I just want to scream just tell me what you want!
We've said we love each other ( as friends), he's pecked my cheek, laid his head on me and nuzzled, sits glued to my side, stares into my eyes ( it feels like we're doing it), pats my upper arm, shoulders, lower back and gives me giant hugs from behind. He always tells everyone how awesome I am.

Sooo... I may be crazy but are we just friends? I don't think so but that's what he says. Could he be afraid to make a move on me? I know he respects me and cares about me a lot.

However... I'm not worried about ruining our friendship by adding sex. How can I make that clear without sending him Rihanna lyrics? ;) I don't want to freak him out by letting him know how much I want him. Do guys want to hear that?

Today just to tease him I said I was going to work out, get all sweaty and jump in the pool. His response: yum. That was it. Is that guy talk for let's get naked? He teases me so much that I asked him if he was always sarcastic and he said no. I said good and I'll keep that in mind ;)

What do I do now?

I'm pretty surprise that in my college, some guys (especially white) will only go for Asian girls, and it's not like a few of them. It's like a lot of them have Asian fetish. How many guys on here have that Asian fetish?

PS: I'm not racist I'm an Asian myself. I'm just curious.