I got period blood on my guy friend's bed sheets?

[smokahontas]

I have never spent the night at a guys house before and I rekindled my friendship with this guy after three years of not talking because I moved away... and yeah. I always have had a big crush on him ever since I was a freshman ( I still do). He knew I was really embarrassed, he rub my back and said "Tessa, tell me whats wrong" Anyways, after I told him that I got blood on his bed sheets, he said "I've had girlfriends before and they have gotten blood on my sheets, so it is not big deal, you can't help it" he smiled and gave me a big hug and then we ended up cuddling. Do you think he actually cared? he is a pretty cool guy and then he said "I am probably going to drool on your head when I'm sleeping" i cracked a joke and said "That's okay, we would be even then because I got blood on your sheets" he laughed and gave me a kiss on the head. so what is your opinion?

He didn't care

Eww gross, he lied and did care

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He was totally cool with it

[Iron_Man]

When I was a teen I went Christmas shopping with another teen girl 1 year older then me she was a friend and the first time we went out was to the mall for Christmas shopping we took a break and ate at McDonalds she got up all of a sudden and went to the bathroom, she had bright red blood all over the back of her Jeans and I started to say something like excuse me you have ketchup all over the back of your Jeans. she came out 10 min later and had some kind of jacket wrapped around her waste to cover it all up it worked, I had figured it out pretty fast though but I never said a word after and the same with her it was never brought up but I always remembered it.

[smokahontas]

He is probably never gonna forget about what happened that night, huh :)?

[Iron_Man]

I was in a relationship with a girl that lived with me she never not even once had any period blood issues or mistakes so your going to have to never let this happen again, a guy can be nice but once you spill blood on a sheet its now going into the trash can

[Iron_Man]

Yeah but at least he's nice just try to never let it happen again things happen but always be ready

[smokahontas]

I don't know, he said he knows how to clean it out :p

[Iron_Man]

The best thing to do is to let it go and move on if not this is goig to play on your mind everytime you see him put it behind you no big deal.

[smokahontas]

No, I'm totally okay with being his friend and I don't take it personally.

[Iron_Man]

OK good. I wish you would have made me MH I put a lot of time in here the other guy made a joke out of it

[smokahontas]

I am sorry, but thank you for your advice. I am more of a jokester :p I got a laugh out of his answer.

[Bluemax]

I somehow knew this question was about more than dirty linen.

[smokahontas]

Yeah I have unrequited love for this guy for four years now but I'm never going to tell him because I know he doesn't feel the same way as of right now, Maybe along the road. He knows I have or had a crush on him but nothing more than that.

[Bluemax]

A) How do you know he knows?
B) How do you know he doesn't feel the same way?

[smokahontas]

A) Because I told him I liked him and we basically hang out with the same group of friends
B) Because he straight up told me that he does not want to lead me on and that he is not ready to be in a relationship with anyone until he knows what he wants to do with his life.

[smokahontas]

The town that I met him in and stayed in for 4 years on and off is really hard to get out of and it's in the desert. Not much opportunity there and you can easily get lost on what to do. I know he likes me but it is mostly bad timing. In a weird way, I agree with him.

[Bluemax]

Ah well, that's conclusive now, isn't it? Perhaps you should cast a wary eye for someone who could return your affections.

[smokahontas]

Nah, I don't really want to be in a relationship, he is the only exception right now.

[Bluemax]

Best of luck to you. I have little doubt when you decide otherwise, it won't be long before you are with someone.

[smokahontas]

I meant to say I don't want to be in a relationship right now (which means for like a whole year)

[vanessa18209]

He sounds like he didn't care and was understanding about it. It's natural and everyone starts and he's right you couldn't help it. Everyone should understand especially guys cause they have sisters, and moms, etc. It's a part of life. I would have felt a little embarrassed about it too but it's not really a big deal. I think peeing, pooping, or throwing up on someone's bed is worse cause you can prevent that from happening but having your period you couldn't help it. Girls have their unexpected monthly periods a month. :\ sucky.. Anyways he sounds like a nice guy lol

[xHoneyxBeex]

Aww well it sounds like he was very understanding and sincere. It doesn't seem like he cared and if he did care, he wouldn't have been that sweet about it. I'm sure you were very embarrassed, I know I would have been, but it's great that he was so calm and understanding about it. Don't worry, I'm sure that's not something he would have lied about:)

[bdeakol]

I'm gonna cry. He sounds so sweet! Go for it or I will :P
(Don't think he cared about the blood).

[smokahontas]

He is a gentleman but we are such bullies to each other, but people say we click very well,

[bdeakol]

I think it's a good thing.

[Paulbunon]

I think the answer that your male friend gave is a pretty good one and you should stick to it because frankly that's the same answer I would give because it's not a big deal. And in my opinion if the guy makes a big deal about it then you definitely should be around.

[Jonny_]

Most likely didn't care about it, i've had that happen with a girl before... I don't care either, I also don't want to make any fuss over it like 'ooo you shouldn't be doing that, even though it's totally natural'. Anyway guys are on a level of gross far beyond some blood.

[iUnderachieve]

He was probably pretty cool with it. It's happened to multiple guys, I think he handled it well especially to make you still feel comfortable. My question is when is he going to make a move so you can stop referring to him as your "guy friend" :3

[smokahontas]

Not gonna happen, because we were direct with each other and he said he doesn't want to be in any relationship right now until he knows what he is going to do. He is a very very good friend. We cuddled to but I've never had a guy friend zone me, I usually do that and its rather ironic because he is the only guy who I want to be with so bad, for like 3 years already. He just knows that I really like him but he doesn't know that I have had unrequited love for him since I was 15, now I am 19.

[iUnderachieve]

Does he have feelings for you even though he only considers you 2 to be friends? I'm referring to romantic feelings of course.

[smokahontas]

Not sure, didn't ask him.

[iUnderachieve]

I think there might be more to it than you think... but then again I really don't know..

[Anonymous]

It's no big deal, it happens and it must be quite common. All three of my ex's have gotten period blood on my bed. After having sex with two of them on their period (and ejaculating in them) they didn't clean up in time and it immediately leaked out (blood, sperm, sexual juices etc) all over the sheets staining it. The other ex just leaked while she was sleeping and again left a stain. One of my friends told me the same happened to him too.

[ArabianPwincess197]

I don't think he cared and he sounds sweet - lucky you :)

[smokahontas]

he is

[ArabianPwincess197]

Nice

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

He was cool with it trust me that's why he kissed you on the head

[smokahontas]

He is a caring guy :)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I'm very caring towards girls and if girl had her period on my bed sheets
it wouldn't matter to me i really am sensitive type guy, always willing to
pamper a girl , make her feel loved

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

My ex-girlfriend got sick at my house and threw up
i cleaned it up i told her no big deal and i kissed her
didn't matter to me

[smokahontas]

Thats different, that is your girlfriend. I am not in a relationship with this guy :p but that is very sweet of you!

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

He said from other girlfriends it was no big deal the guys cool
i just get that feeling he is good guy, just too many ex-girlfriends
did him wrong but i could be wrong

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

It was my girlfriend (ex is ex for reason) AkA stay away darren

[smokahontas]

he only had two girlfriends after I left.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yea i see i think he is really okay with what happened

[Burgundy]

He sounds cool with it, personally. And he probably likes you :p xx

[smokahontas]

He does but he doesn't want a relationship right now or any time soon because he doesn't know what he want to do with his life right now. He is a really good gentleman and we all hang out with the same people so i know these things. They say behind his bluntness, he is a very loyal friend and gentleman.

[Qwazihomo]

Damn he still wanted to fuck you right after you leeked on his sheets. That man loves you :')

[smokahontas]

pshhh and I only got to hang out with him twice in my entire life. We used to talk a lot when we had a class period together though :P whats how we became friends.

[Anonymous]

How do you get blood on his sheets? Did you not have pants on? It sounds like he didn't care and that you are both into eac other.

[Burgundy]

You clearly have no idea just how heavy/unexpected periods can be, even with underwear and tampons/towels :p

[smokahontas]

I don't wear tampons and it was my second day on my period so when I was laying down, it seeped out from the back. He is a gentleman but we are just friends, he doesn't want to be in any relationship right now but later on when he knows what he wants to do. Do you think he likes me though?

[Opinion Owner]

Yea I think so!

[CreativityKills]

I've had a girl do this before and she was so embarrassed. It really isn't that big a thing though, I'm sure you're worth more to him than a set of sheets.

[smokahontas]

But but his sheets were really nice :) eh you're right, he did seem cool about it.

[adamski24]

It happens don't worry about I don't think you would care as long as your ok and not to upset about I would be cool. i would even takes you out to show how i'm ok with it and still love you my friend etc

[jesseray]

Guys know that this kind of thing happens. We don't think much of it. A minor inconvenience at best.

[Katy16]

He sounds like he was totally ok with it, so I don't think you should worry :)

[THE_Godfather]

Next time clean it with hydrogen peroxide.

[smokahontas]

I told him that I could clean it and he said "no no no, lay down with me and don't worry about, silly" You said next time? we don't live in the same town anymore, I moved 3 years ago. My grandparents just got a house where he lives and all my good friends live there, so I visit it. You think there would be a next time? he did give me a big and long hug after I had to leave.

[THE_Godfather]

Next time something like that happens wherever you are clean it with hydrogen peroxide.

[smokahontas]

This has never happened before except in my bed sheets. He just told me not to worry about it, he will deal with it. I know how to get rid of period stains.

[THE_Godfather]

OK good

[Sam89]

He was totally cool with it.