I got blood on my boyfriends bed?

[Anonymous]

I came on quite a heavy when I went for a nap unfortunately bled onto his sheet. He's very immature sometimes and is 3 months into the relationship. Doesn't like when I'm on my period anyway. i feel so bad because I've ruined hos
covers! I don't know what to say to him! I'm very shy with him still and it's embarrassing. He will think I'm not normal for bleeding on his bed!
What do I do?

[Anonymous]

That's happened to me before but it was literally like a drop and you could barely see it. It was so weird. My ex was always in two different moods. When he wanted some action i would tell him I'm in my period and he's like I don't even care that means nothing to me I just want you right now. If I have to clean it up its fine. And then when it happened one time he was like all upset. He tried not to show it, but I still felt embarrassed. Anyway, maybe you can wash the sheets before he sees?

As soon as you can, soak the sheets in cold water. If the sheets are white you can mix a little bleach in the water. You can soak as long as you need but when the water starts getting really dark, change the water.

[Darkfairie17]

I'm so sorry that you are going through this! Is there any way you can quickly clean it up?

If not, try this. Get some food, like a snack. But then spill it on that spot. Get something that will for sure hide the blood. Then he'll have to clean the sheets and just make sure to offer to help him then you can make sure the blood is off.

He shouldn't be upset with you. What happened is completely natural and if he gives you a hard time it's then time to find a new boyfriend. A boyfriend should be understanding and kind towards his girlfriend, especially during that time.

[Darkfairie17]

Thank you and good luck!

[Chirinéonmä]

I doubt your boyfriend will care, If he was sleeping with you while on your period.

Try and clean it, If it won't come off, tell him you would gift him new sheets.

If he loves you he will understand. You two will experience more grosser things down the road. It's something to laugh about together down the road.

Wishing you the best of luck.

[TadCurious]

He needs to be more understanding. Periods happen and he should accept that and get over some blood on his sheets. Sheets wash. And if he thinks you're "not normal" for unexpectedly getting your period he is --- like you say --- very immature.

[madhatters4]

did you soak them quickly? there are a lot of products that can get blood out of fabric if done quickly

otherwise i'd just buy him new sheets

[mrfoox]

Tell him, if he can't even handle you being on your period, which is natural and normal, he's honestly really immature and not really worth your time

[LaVilaine]

Start by washing the sheets. The longer you let the stain set, the harder it will be to get out. There are tons of hacks online for getting bloodstains out of fabric. I think that baking soda and water works, but don't quote me. Relax. This is not the end of the world. If he's going to act like a little baby, you can replace the sheets.

[jesshkah]

Wash them. You can get blood out pretty easily by scrubbing or with a vinegar solution and a bunch of other home stuff you can get easily (Google is your friend) or just buy him new sheets. Periods are normal. If he gets upset over a natural bodily function (which means you're not pregnant) he's a dumbass lol.

[Amanda2]

Hey if you have Febreze, yes the deodorizing spray for fabric. Spray it unto the fabric and rub it off with a piece of cloth. Febreze is great at removing blood stains on materials. I know because I bleed heavy due to uterine fibroid and that's my go to

[xHoneyxBeex]

It wasn't your fault, it was an accident. Women have periods, there's nothing "wrong" or "abnormal" about that. If he's really THAT immature about periods and a little bit of blood on his sheets then he has a LOT of growing up to do and probably shouldn't even be in an adult relationship.

[natralblack]

He needs a reality check if its really that big a deal most every female gets a period and accidents happen its one thing to be immature and when it boils down to it he's your boyfriend and shouldn't mind the fact that whoop your a woman who is not pregnate or on metapause or some shi.. I mean if you really feel so horrible about it get him a new sheet..

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Wash them, try a stain remover before you throw em in the wash (I suggest Resolve). Tell him. If he freaks, dump him, he's too immature to be with a chick.

[Intraluminal]

Just tell him you'll wash the sheets. Honestly, if he gets bent out of shape about it, tell him to start dating men, they don't get periods

[noisette91]

Umm wash the sheets!! Cold water is good for this kind of problem. Also, the cleaning needs to be done as fast as possible and not too long after the accident.

[Cmasterson]

You don't really ruin them you just have to rinse them under cold cold water and the blood should come out, your a girl and you get periods you're only human.

[AzureGirl]

Take the sheet off and wash it with soap and warm water. And calm down, I'm sure your boyfriend can handle a little accident from a normal human function girls go through.

[helloimcrazy]

Dump him. If he's immature, he shouldn't be in a relationship tbvh. Come on, every girl has their period. he shouldn't date girls if he can't stand it.

[JuanShisuko]

Wow, he sounds like an asshole. You didn't mean to do it, it just happened.

[jacquesvol]

Accidents happen. If he isn't a virgin he'll understand.

[rgb008]

Does he not know how to use a washing machine and bleach?
Lmfao stop dating such an incapable little boy.

[RedRobin]

Put his sheets in the wash, tell him they smell bad and he should be washing them more often haha.

[Fearless_banana]

Stop being so selfish and bleeding all over your mans bed.

[akadatank44]

Jesus christ get a new boyfriend who understands what a fucking period is. Lmao

[Phoenix98]

Just clean the sheets and wash the blood off, simple.

[Waffles731]

Wash the sheets and if he cannot deal then he it WAY too immature to be in a relationship and you leave