Alright, so here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now and it's a long distance relationship. He lives five hours away and we see each other once month for four days. We've known each other since March and our relationship has been strong and great.
I really love him and everything and enjoy being there for him but I'm not that emotional of a person like he is. I have no problem with his emotions, but lately it's been pretty bad. When I met his parents and when we were in his basement, we had sex for the first time where I enjoyed it rather than being in pain. It was nice and we did other things like went on a few dates and ate dinner with his family. When I left he was teary-eyed which was expected and then I left.
On the way home he called me and I talked to him a few hours while driving and then came home around 12pm to get ready for bed to have him call me again later on that night until 3am.
Every day after that he has been calling me, which hasn't been bugging me. It's the fact that he's been calling me twice or more a day for long periods of time. He's been really emotional ever since I left and I don't see him again until Halloween. One of the texts he sent me while donating blood was:
"I realized you mean much more to me than I could have imagined, if that's even possible. Never cried as much as I have the last day or so, or over a person. It's still an odd feeling to me. a few tears dropped during my second class. I was a bit embarrassed though no one saw. Regardless of how much this sucks for me you're always going to be my angel."
He's super sweet and romantic but I'm just worried about him being sad and clinging to me so much. I love him, but I wish he would spend more time with his friends instead of moping in his room when he's not at school or work. So what should I do?
I really love him and everything and enjoy being there for him but I'm not that emotional of a person like he is. I have no problem with his emotions, but lately it's been pretty bad. When I met his parents and when we were in his basement, we had sex for the first time where I enjoyed it rather than being in pain. It was nice and we did other things like went on a few dates and ate dinner with his family. When I left he was teary-eyed which was expected and then I left.
On the way home he called me and I talked to him a few hours while driving and then came home around 12pm to get ready for bed to have him call me again later on that night until 3am.
Every day after that he has been calling me, which hasn't been bugging me. It's the fact that he's been calling me twice or more a day for long periods of time. He's been really emotional ever since I left and I don't see him again until Halloween. One of the texts he sent me while donating blood was:
"I realized you mean much more to me than I could have imagined, if that's even possible. Never cried as much as I have the last day or so, or over a person. It's still an odd feeling to me. a few tears dropped during my second class. I was a bit embarrassed though no one saw. Regardless of how much this sucks for me you're always going to be my angel."
He's super sweet and romantic but I'm just worried about him being sad and clinging to me so much. I love him, but I wish he would spend more time with his friends instead of moping in his room when he's not at school or work. So what should I do?
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