Polls: Guy's Behavior

Disclaimer: please don't abuse either women's bodies, I've blurred faces and anything else to keep identities safe.

So, I have wondered often what a man says when they say they fancy someone *curvy*. Both women are more or less curvy, but if you are someone who is into curvy women, who would you be attracted to? Why? The comparison pics are not of same lighting, so apologies for that. Hope that doesn't bias your choice. Also this is only based off of a picture :)

Does it take a lot of skill or does it come naturally? Do you learn your technique from your parents or by watching other guys in public toilets?

I’ve been seeing a med student for ~a month and a half. I completely understand that their schedule is busy- I’m also in school but not as intense as them. I asked a couple of weeks ago what they thought about us, just to get an idea of where he is.

He said that he hadn’t reflected on it much because he’s been busy with school. To clarify, I asked if he wanted to stop things or see where we end up, and he chose the latter. Essentially, I gave him an out but he didn’t take it.

He drunk texted me and brought up s*x for the first time a few days ago (he went to visit his friends in another state and they got hammered). I went along with it because honestly, I thought about it and kinda wanted it too.

Right after that, it’s like he fell off the face of the earth. The next day after (I guess drunkenly asking for booty call), we chatted as usual throughout the day. I then asked him to call me (nothing serious, I just like talking rather than texting). He said he would as soon as he finished up in the hospital. I didn’t hear back from him for a couple of days.

So I finally texted him to see what was going on and he apologized and said that things were getting kinda crazy with school. Which I get with final exams coming.

The thing is, does this sound like a legitimate excuse or is it him kinda ghosting me? I gave him an out literally about a week or two ago which he didn’t take. Do guys act weird like this after bringing up sex? And if he is ghosting, why didn’t he just take the out I offered and why has he always made the effort to initiate talking good morning text almost everyday, except a few days?

Boyfriend wanted to cook for me last night
And he did

He said he's never cooked for any woman before until now

We all know the most domineering woman throughout a mans life is his mother. All through his childhood she was the woman who controlled him. Then when he's a grown man facing a woman with characteristics of his mother he feels like a small helpless child again about to be told off for eating between meals.

Alternatively.

Men are intimidated by women they desperately want to plough there and then but know she's out of his league or unavailable. That woman with the "bend me over and crack my cervix" look, who's way beyond his reach.

They both have nice bodies

A guy told me that he liked my hair colour because it “made my blue eyes stand out even more”.

If a man is noticing your eye colour, does it mean he likes you?

I think it's 🔥🔥🔥 and it's manly. I never understood the claim that it's feminine

By teenager I mean 15 to 17 I see many people saying that guys like them. I only want honest answers

E. g.
- tied up top and leggings that shows my stomach
&
- top that shows my cleavage

He would say to me:
"Why are you wearing this?"
"Who you trying to impress in the mall or street?"
"We are just grocery shopping, so why you dressed up like this? We are not clubbing/partying"
"Please respect yourself"
"I like you better with normal clothes"

Why do i watch everyone?
Im a girl. These guys at ny job who are my pals i guess lol well we joke around but they say i watch them. Lol. They individually say it and also they say u watch everyone 😂

I dont wana annoy them or anyone

So just some background information, I’m 22 now and my dad is around 65-68. He also had stokes around 5 years ago thats left him somewhat dependent on us to take care of him among other health issues. Before the strokes though, when I was a teenager, there were times were he did stare at my body a little too intensely along with a family friend that was there as well. That was partially because I was wearing a tight fitted shirt but I wasn’t expecting them to be there. Growing up as well as now, he comments on my weight and mostly says I’m too fat. Only a couple of times when I did lose some weight, he said I’ve gotten skinner which I didn’t really care for.

Recently though, I noticed that he stares at my chest longer than normal for when I’m trying to help him get up from his wheelchair even though I’m not wearing a low cut/tight shirt. At first I disregarded it but now it’s happening almost every time I help. He also stares at the rest of my body sometimes when I’m walking by but doesn’t say anything. Today though, he was trying to look through the crack of my wardrobe door to stare at me while I was changing. I’m not sure if he knew I was changing then or what (I wasn’t naked then either, I still had my clothes on), but it made me really uncomfortable that he still glanced that way regardless besides keep on walking. I’m not sure who to really talk to about this and afraid that I’m assuming incorrectly about his character once I do tell someone. What do you guys think?

Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years
He has mentioned he wants kids in general

We were just cuddling in bed today
Then he said to me: "I love you so much you know that?"
And I replied "me too"

And then he startled me by saying
"I want you to be the mother of my kids. Im serious. Im 30, Im stable enough to provide for a family now. I will be happy if you get pregnant"

We do groceries shopping together
& we go out to dinner & lunch
Etc...
Most of the time, he pays