Polls: Guy's Behavior

So this random guy did a tbh on me and posted on my pic that I was as cute asf and my smile was cute. Does that mean I'm adorable like a koala bear lol? 👅😐 I was wondering because people call me cute, pretty and adorable a lot.

Basically, we were in a club-type place (I am not a fan of clubbing, but whatever). When we were about to go and queuing at the wardrobe, this drunk dude randomly appears out of nowhere, slaps my ass, and leaves. My boyfriend was holding my hand all along, didn't notice shit and when I told him, horrified, he did look upset but well at that moment it was a bit too late to go after the dude, I didn't even see his face. I felt pretty shocked about him not noticing anything, and it didn't seem like it bothered him that much, he got over him pretty quickly. I agree, logically speaking there was nothing left to do since the guy could not be spotted anymore, but wow I expected him to be bothered by that for a longer time. Also, he's not jealous at all, ever, and it's not like I'm an unattractive woman. I just don't get it.

lol everytime he scans me i feel like a grocery food item getting checked out t at the supermarket. haha there are a bunch of other stuff he does like he'll always stare at me and then quickly look down, and he's rlly shy but one distinctive thing he does extremely slowly scan my body starting at my feet and ending w my face. also does he do this subconsiouslly or consiously? thanks guys in advance!

I used to have a crush on him for a long time. IHe would try to impress me, flirt, got jealous and tried to make me jealous, always was near where I was, and try to make me feel weird and think he was cooler... One day he asked for me and when I looked he blushed and looked away.️I didn't believe anyone would want me so I ignored him. He and his brother went to my mom to find out more about me, where I was going to school, what classes I was taking.. it was weird. Then he left to go to school and now he has a girlfriend and they've been together for months. Oddly enough, he still can't look me in the eyes. Every time i walk into the room he stares at me until i catch him looking. He introduced my dad to his girlfriend and he stood very close to me. Then when he look at me for a reaction I gave him my f* you smile and he turned around and walked away with his girlfriend. Wth? I don't like him anymore, he's crazy. What is this guy thinking?

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Ok so I have this friend who was in a relationship with this guy for a little while and he was so protective of her, he wouldn't even let her go out the front door unless he was there. It seems way to extrem for me and definitely not a relationship I would like to be in. I know was that protective over her because I had asked her if she wanted to out out for a walk and he flat out told her she wasn't allowed to leave the house because he was leaving to go look at a piece of furniture with my mom. Of course we went out anyway, but he was telling her a bunch of horor stories about how he had to fight for his life after just going out for a walk on his own. I myself have gone on 3hr long walks by myself since I was 12. But there's other guys out there who are just a little protective. I guess my questions is, why are guys so protective over their wives/gfs? We aren't as hopeless as you think ya know. But in your opinion, why are you so protective over them and girls why do you think your guy is protective or "overly protective" over you and do you like it? I for one can't stand a guy that is overly protective.

by big hips i dont mean Kim Kardashian bit something a bit less than that. 15 and my hips are getting bigger, and at first i thought i was gaining weight but the rest of me is still skinny. i dont like it but do guys like big hips?

I like this guy, lets call him Jake. So anyways Jakes friends (Jaden and John) are my closest mutual friends with him. Jaden and John always say Jakes name randomly in mid sentence, or just hint about him overall. My friend once said "Jake is an idiot" and John said "arent you gonna defend him, Jess?" And I asked what that was supposed to mean and he laughed and tried to change the subject. I was curious and I said "seriously what did that mean?" And he said "idk idk" he said somethig else but i forget and Jaden slapped him and looked at him with wide eyes as if to say "shut up you said too much."
In geography class Jaden and John called my name while they were with Jake and hit other friends. I said "yea?" And they said "hi" in a mischevious way. I just said "hi? Lol😂" and turned to my gorup again when I heard the other one say "how are you?" And i said "Im good haha" and started to turn again. I remember seeing everyone look at me, his whole group. Then i hear them bursting out "OH JAKE SAYS HI TOO, JAKE SAYS HI" and I said "hey? 😂" and that was that. I hear Jake say "youre all savs" with a red face.
At lunch last year his friends kept asking if Id be his cuddle buddy and i said nahh bc I was too shy then they all kept saying "are you sure? The offer is always on the table!"
On the last day of school Jaden and John call my name for a solid ten minutes to their group and i asked why couldnt they come over and they just said to go over to Jake and the group. Then one says "jaden needs to tell you somehig" "no jak.. I mean John does" "no jeff does" "lol me? Pft noJaden does" then Jaden says "okay fine Ill ask..." Grinning like an idiot. Jakes eyes is glued to his desk. "Do... you... think..." And he pauses for a super log time. I got scared bc i thought he would ask if I like Trevor so I just said lol you're taking too long i gotta study for the exam and left. At lunch Jaden called my name. Jake looked over at me and then (more below)

That's what my boyfriend says. He said it doesn't necessarily mean a guy is lusting after them but that guys just look. I'm always getting mad at him for it, and he always tells me that it just happens. Sometimes I look at guys but not much. It pisses me the hell off though when he looks at girls. He said that it's not because he thinks they're prettier or anything, and reassures me that he wants only me. But it still makes me mad.

I asked a good friend if he's into anyone and he replies "nope not at the moment". What are the chances that he secretly likes me?

He's been initiating ALL texts to me (cuz he texts a lot of people), and he's complimented me many times. He's asked about my crush but I won't tell him, because I'm not sure if he likes me...

So there is this guy friend I have some history with and who has been dating this other girl for about six months now. I have respected their relationship and cut most all contact with him, even though he didn't understand what the need for that was. In anycase, both times we checked up on each other he said he wanted to meet up to catch up. I stalled him the first time but this time, finally agreed. I figured since it has been three months of no contact and because his relationship with the girl has been six months, catching up wasn't a bad thing. Anyways, it was his idea and plan and he sounded really excited through text, like informal tone and exclamation points. The plans were made last week... and well, two hours before we're supposed to meet up, he sends me this extremely formal text that goes: "Good afternoon. I'm going to need a rain check for today. I've still got a bunch of things that I need to move from my apartment. Can we look at next week"

He told me in an earlier text that he had that whole day off... so why would he text me so formally two hours before we meet up to make up such an unbelievable excuse? He has the whole day to move things... how would a 30minute catch up effect that? Do you think he is just making an excuse not to meet up? And if so, why did he suggest it and wait until last minute to cancel and even suggest next week?

Hello everyone, I currently in high school (age 18) and i'm having issues with the boys - i know it should'nt get to me but they all make me feel so ugly and small, it's why i've never had a boyfriend (is that weird) people call me cute and innocent, i'm kinda awkward, and i like nerdy stuff like astronomy and sci fi- i'm reserved and shy - i dont really say much in class so that may be the reason - a guy liked me abot two years ago but i frecked out and it all went terribly wrong since then no-one guy has talked to me - i dont get it they like the ugly girls, all the skinny blonds - i think i'm average looking - i'm altlectic, and tall but i dont really dress 'girly" i like more natural hoodies and jean tops, i'm 150ibs and 5'8 foot tall - i dont know if its me or if the boys are just shallow, i feel very alone. Does it get better after school?

My boyfriend of just over 4 months has always cared what I eat and when I eat. It's not like I have an eating disorder or anything and I'm not all skin and bones I have a little fat here and there. I'm 5foot 6 and 132 pounds so I'm not small. But he always wants me to eat more than I want or if I say I'm just a bit hungry he tells me to eat or he's going to stop talking to me. This has caused the majority of our arguments and I am starting to wonder if I should just let him have is way or what to do. He also hates it when I work out in any way so I don't know what to do anymore. Please help. Should I let him force me to eat and why does he care so much?

What do guys rather have in a relationship? A girlfriend who offers him a lot, so like she's the one to take direction, gives input or advice, comes up with the ideas, etc OR a girlfriend who praises her boyfriend for being so reliable and being the one who offers the most. I know how guys are the "providers" in general and traditionally so I've heard that guys feel really good when their girlfriend or anyone praises them for being the hero that day. However, sometimes I think guys would appreciate it if their girlfriend is the one to take charge so he doesn't have to feel the need to provide all the time. Of course the ideal situation would be to have a balance of both. But thats not always the case. So as a guy, what do you prefer? Especially if you're a perfectionist and are pretty prideful.

It's weird cause my boyfriend is a perfectionist and pretty prideful, so I would think everytime I show him my appreciation for doing something he likes it right? He doesn't show it but he must be feeling good. But then there are times when I feel kind of useless and he wishes he had someone to take charge and not him all the time. I do input a lot but he also most of the time doesn't take it. So I'm guessing that means he does prefer to be the one to save the day? Then howcome every time I try to do something and fail, he looks at me all disappointed? I can't quite figure it out.

He is very flirty, tries to talk to me, stops what he's doing to listen to what I'm saying.. I said all he and his friends wear are bow ties and he said he'll wear something else next time. I said I liked them and he smiles and told his friends ohh she said she likes them. Sometimes he'll walk up when me and my friend are talking and check me out or flirt. He's not a playa he gets nervous sometimes. I only see home at church. What does this all mean?