Polls

Do you think you could distinguish a snowbunnie by what vehicle she drives, maybe like a white SUV, or something?

There are different types of veggie, root veg such as carrots and potatoes, leafy veg such as cabbage and broccoli, and fruit veg such as aubergines and courgettes. I'd say I probably eat more root veg, closely followed by fruit veg.

Do you prefer girls who are more modest in their dress style or not?

I do, I think it makes a room so much more cheerful 🌹🌷🌻

I got my Bachelor’s in Psych back in 2018, since then I’ve worked in higher education. Was in academic advising for a little over 2 years & that job felt like a bad fit across the board. Then I was in career services for about 3 months at another school & combined with mgmt/having to talk in public settings made me quit, I then worked in financial aid at another school for a little less than 2 years. While that felt like kind of a better fit based off mgmt’s feedback & a bit more confidence in my job tasks, I was miserable. I just worked in FA again at another school for a little less than a month & decided working in this new school felt a bit off.

29F and I have never felt like such a failure, I have a bit of a savings after selling my condo a little less than 2 years ago & live with family again so there’s that “cushion” but it’s not ideal obviously. I completed a form to schedule a meeting with alumni career services where I got my degree & waiting to hear back, I’m scared to apply for work bc I really don’t know what I want to do with my life. My mom said maybe higher education isn’t a good fit for me b/c of this pattern I’ve had, thinks I should work temp jobs since there’s no commitment & I can pay my way to go back to school. But I don’t want any more student loans since pell is maxed out & again I DON’T KNOW what I want to do.

I’m kind of stumped in the sense that I don’t know what I want to do, I feel like I enjoy the higher ed field but it may not be the best fit as I keep ending up in a position where I’m back to looking for work again regardless if most of the time it’s been voluntary it seems. Advice appreciated, any resources or suggestions you have from experience leave in the comments.

*I asked for wispy bangs just an FYI. I've had straight across bangs and I don't like how they look on me personally, anymore.*

I'm back with another non-important question.😁

I was at an all girls party recently and one of them started crying about something which made others tear up too. I am not a crier, and I just kind of sat there looking out of place. In that moment, I thought to myself that I could never picture guys doing this. Lol. So I got to ask, does this ever happen with the guys?

I’ve noticed you guys date non metal girls who dress feminine.

Are you a big fan of the amazing sunrise/sunset or do you prefer the warm afternoons, perhaps the cool evenings?

A recent study showed that a person's egg preference indicates a few things about their personality. I'm still thinking about how valid that claim is, but I thought it would be a fun question for a Friday! Don't forget to take the poll!

While book-smarts or street-smarts help a person in specific ways, Emotional Intelligence is what we use most in the real world -- it's the mindfulness, awareness and processing ability we have for both our feelings and the feelings of others.

Current research indicates that those with higher levels of EI draw others towards them... They're people who others genuinely want to be around for the long haul -- at work/school/relationships. Their kindness and compassion towards others shine through their EI, as does their ability to own up to their own decisions (instead of blaming them on others) and to treat others with respect and dignity.

Here 's a quick 20-point quiz for you guys and gals -- the most common signs of EI

(+1 for each point you "sort of understand" and +2 for each point you're really good at):

• Being able to know and accept yourself for who you are (with all your quirks and experiences)...
• Being able to accept responsibility for your actions and decisions...
• Being able to accept change as a standard part of life...
• Being able to control emotions rather than raging and lashing out and flying off the handle with verbal/physical outbursts...
• Being able to forgive yourself -- to show yourself some grace -- by leaving past mistakes in the past...
• Being able to talk through problems and challenges with others...
• Being aware of your own strengths -- and being able to admit to them...
• Being aware of your own weaknesses -- and being able to admit to them...
• Being modestly confident and poised -- and keeping your cool in challenging situations...
• Showing empathy and compassion -- putting yourself in another person’s shoes and seeing things from their perspective...

The scoring goes by 5s (see the poll, which keeps answers anonymous). Don't share your score in comments if you don't want to.

(Those with a low score wondering how to raise EI can search Google for free materials that are very helpful.)

I talked to a new guy on this app, but we ended up not meeting as he’s wanting marriage & babies until 5 years IF it works out. And that’s honestly a waste of time for me. If I was younger & met this guy when I was 18 then I could of been married by now but no. I’m 26 still no husband. So I want marriage & baby in 1-2 years.
A guy I dated that never met my family wasted many years of my life. So I have no time to waste. if it’s 5 years and living together than that’s fine , or else it’s pointless date& have sex 5 years and no ring.

For me it’s clear. Even when the debate was done specifically to Biden rules to favor him, he still was slaughtered.

https://jmp.sh/s/ZptdozRP9CX3b1CtQoOa

It’s not just scary… I truly feel sad democrats wants this man with dementia running our country

https://jmp.sh/s/8cdUVNxGTzTfb8AzyBiy

even with commercials added, this poor man likely went to have a mental breakdown after this. It’s much for him. Maybe it’s karma

however for doing what he did to Ukraine for so many years people dying there.

Is a plate a container?

What’s your view (s)/opinion on this?

I understand they don't like their gfs nagging about wanting kids, being scared of being baby-trapped and feeling pressured into it. Ok let's say we were to play dumb, never baby-trap you and never mention anything about wanting kids, would men naturally want kids too? Would they be capable of bringing up the topic themselves if the woman doesn't even remind them? Do they naturally (free will) want kids or not?

Here is the irony, they don't like being nagged but if some of them were to be suffering infertility (unable to ever impregnant a woman), several wouldn't like that either. One of my good friends is a fertility nurse. Several years ago, one of her patients was a married couple that's been trying to conceive for 3 years. It was discovered (teste 3 times) the guy had no sperm count and he actually left the office in tears.

Many recipes only call for one part of the egg, either the white or the yolk. There are many types of egg separators on the market from jugs to strainers, but a lot of people like me prefer doing it by hand, passing it between shell halves.

So how do you separate your eggs?