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I'm just wondering.

My boyfriend said a few times earlier in the week that hurt & it all came to a T tonight. And in response he initially tried to turn the situation around on me until, later on, he realized he was in the wrong.

And he didn't apologize anyway once realizing this.

Some part of me really wants to believe him & yet the other part is like he's not being entirely honest. If he cared about me he'd have realized what he said was wrong and not added onto it with little comments.

28F, yes I’m straight or if any other sexuality I’d be asexual. I download tinder 2 weeks ago & have been speaking to someone on it since. I took a chance & decided to not videochat/call him beforehand, lord I should’ve. He didn’t catfish me but I just got the vibe he is gay. He didn’t dress flamboyant, it was just the way he spoke. He seemed nice & after about 15 min I came to the realization that it’s tinder and I don’t owe him anything. The drinks took forever to come, I just told him I had a long day and something felt kinda off, it was nice to meet him & I dipped out. He was about to follow me out, I told him to stay put to make sure the waiter didn’t charge him but truthfully I didn’t want him to follow me to my car/look at my plate. He msged me after saying he wasn’t sure what happened & hoped I got home safe, I just deleted the app. Lesson learnt: moving fwd I’ll ALWAYS do a phone screening before meeting.

This goes for both meeting someone in person AND/OR online. Even though I likely wouldn’t give my number so soon, I find it more attractive when a guy asks for my number. All I have is discord, so asking for any other social media handle is a waste. But gosh it turns me off so much when someone says “You got snap?”. Maybe I’m just old school but I don't know I just always see it as a red flag in terms of what their intentions may be. I just immediately feel they are obsessed with sending attention seeking selfies or wanting nudes/sexxting. You automatically feel like just another “number” that isn’t being taken seriously #FeelFreeToList

Pick your fav. one!

Scottish, British or Irish people?

And I’m trying to not be pessimistic, I know my luck lol. 28F, I find him good looking (based off profile pics) & so far we’ve had good conversations after talking almost 2 weeks. I’m not showing him my pessimism & not putting pressure, I just worry that when we meet tomorrow it’ll be awkward. If not tomorrow, it’ll fizzle out within the first 2-4 meetups. I use the dating apps on and off, I’ve gotten a lot better with taking it as it comes but it’s just kind of at the back of my mind. Anyone else relate?

Over 50 years ago, people would like like 7-8 kids on average... Im South Asian and we were 4 siblings in total however most of my cousins, including my half sister had 7 kids, i even heard of one of my distant cousins and my sister in law's grandparents having 11 kids in total. They do this to increase their family members and said it is also for "protection".

Nowadays as a British born South Asian, we are sticking to maximum 2-3 kids

Also a lot of white people I know are sticking to 1 only or maximum 3

People in this generation especially in Europe and UK are having less kids don't you think?

However people in Asia and Africa with traditional mindset are probs still sticking to upto 10 kids 🤣

Unfortunately, it is quite difficult to find American Muscle style cars in Sweden. But if I had the opportunity, I would give all the money I have for a 78 Pontiac Firebird Trans Am.

Neither are the free thinkers they make themselves to be.