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The guy is from a really rich family and only recently started making a lot of money.

The first few dates the the guy paid. Then 50/50 on everything. Is there anything wrong with that?

He would spend hours on the phone everyday and drive to see her a lot straight after work.

Treated her well, caring, emotionally available. Even when broke up he did not insult her. Did gift her but not expensive things.

Girl felt the guy should have contributed more monetarily to make her feel special.

Is it reasonable to interpret that as a soft invitation for intimacy/flirting?

• She was kinda putting them up and it would have been pretty easy to just reach for them
• She just got them done
• She came that night to "play chess" on our phones which was not brought up once when she came here
• Pretty sure she's been trying to find a new guy to get away from her low effort ex
• I myself am not better than that guy 😂 in superficial terms 🤷🏼‍♂️
• This last one is here because I like bullit points

What do you guys think?

If you had to pick, which one would be less worse to lose?

You literally see the best looking, richest and most successful men out there get cheated on and lose their wife. There’s just no way to keep a woman?

No man can get a woman that just like belongs to him only?

Are there many women out there that are more selfless. Being selfless is probably the best quality a girl can have in my view for a marriage to work. Less likely to fold under stress.

When you look at social media content it just programs women to prioritise only themselves over everyone. I see it a lot in women too, slight pressure then they break up.

Or no shaved

What do you think this US MAP shows?

Please vote in the poll.

Hint: The darker the color, the higher the number.

Correct answer will be given in a few days, Friday

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I was thinking the other day about how modern rap has lost its identity because most artists today sound exactly the same. Whether it is female rappers like GloRilla, Megan Thee Stallion, Latto, and Cardi B, or the mainstream male rappers, everyone is using the same repetitive beats and formulas. The content feels so shallow now, mostly focusing on money, jewelry, body parts, and sexual themes, which leaves these newer artists with zero longevity.

I really miss the old-school era where artists were true lyricists and ultimate entertainers. In the 90s and early 2000s, you had heavy hitters like Nas, Tupac, and DMX alongside incredible women like Queen Latifah, MC Lyte, little Kim, and Lady of Rage. They brought high energy, exciting penmanship, clever wordplay, and deep lyricism. Beyond having that hardcore edge, they were multidimensional, highly talented, and had a powerful image. Most importantly, old-school artists had undeniable stage presence and actually knew how to perform and command a crowd live. Every single artist back then had a completely different sound, unique style, and distinct look.

That raw individuality and performance standard are exactly what is missing across the entire industry today. Just look at Queen Latifah hosting the American Music Awards last night—that is the exact level of legend status and ultimate crossover success I want to develop them to achieve.

Do you think that 90s style of music, star power, and performance could actually dominate the charts if it came back right now, or has the music industry changed too much for listeners to appreciate real talent?

What Does Our Modern Economy Offer Men? - https://ifstudies.org/blog/what-does-our-modern-economy-offer-men

This article lays out a sobering reality: millions of young men are completely checking out of higher education, the job market, and family life because society has spent decades mocking their natural instincts.

As the author warns, we cannot 'shame and blame the boy out of boys' for modern economic shifts and not expect severe consequences. When traditional provider roles are devalued, marriages weaken and children grow up watching their fathers question their worth.

We don’t need to force men into a feminine mold; we need a culture that respects masculine strength as a vital asset for stable families.