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I'm dating a girl. We doesn't call ourself girlfriend and boyfriend It's too early for that.

We have been on several dates. But she already thinks I'm too fat. Well she doesn't say the word fat. But she gives me hints she think i'm too fat. Like "I think you eat too much food.", "You would be a great santa claus.", "Maybe you should have one or two days per week when you don't eat any food."

This girl is skinny and yes I am a little bit overweight. I am trying to loose weight but it's not easy. And the eval words from her mouth are not helping.

We started talking to each other on Facebook, before we met each other for the first time She had (and still have) many pictures with great texts. Like "age and height and weight are just numbers."
She already knew when we met I was not skinny. She was fine with that. But it's easy saying that on internet.

All of her ex boyfriends are skinny.

She said I'm the most adorable and wonderful guy in the world, really funny guy who makes her laugh. When we are not together she said she miss me a lot. But we are only seeing each other one day per week. I don't think she miss me as much she saying. We living in the same city and can see each other anytime we wants.

I want to have sex with her, but she doesn't want that now. She wants to wait until we are official boyfriend and girlfriend. I think she only saying that because I doesn't turn her on.

Yes I can keep loosing weight but it's not easy. And I don't want to be skinny as her old boyfriends. But she like skinny guys. I actually don't know why she wants to be with me. Sure she likes my personality. But I wants to turn her on.

She always had skinny boyfriends. I am the first guy she's with who is a little bit overweight. But she doesn't want to have sex with me. And I don't like how she talking to me about my weight.

One side of me is saying "date another girl who likes you as you are." and one side is saying "date her and see if I can turn her on."

Imagine the following bill:

People over the age of 18 and under the age of 60, whose weight exceeds the normal limit in regards to their height and are considered overweight (unless the cause of being overweight is genetic-related, duration/result of pregnancy or other health issues that affect the weight) must pay a bonus tax if they want to continue to be fat.
Gym sessions for such people are state-funded in their nearest gym, until their weight is back to normal and/or specific amount of months will pass, after which the funding will be cut. Should they get fat a second time, a state will not fund their gym again, yet will force to pay "fat tax".

Funding a gym membership for a fatty is significantly cheaper than crazy healthcare spendings that deal with health issues that are related to being overweight, while it shouldn't affect the poor like failed taxes on fatty foods as in Denmark, for example. Additionally, a person who went to the gym for a few months in the row _typically_ gets used to it, therefore will attend it even after getting back to shape and pay for the gym out of his own pocket.

Your opinions?