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I am from the suburban but I met this country girl back in college and now we are getting married soon. I love living in the country surrounded by nature with our fur babies!!

Plus you can't keep horses in the city or the suburbs. Plus city people hate guns

Started dating a girl. We live in America. Her brother and his fiance live in Mexico City. she's really into me. She travels a lot. But now she is saying that she would like to come back to Mexico City during the summer and work on her Spanish. Should I date a girl who wants to spend an entire summer outside the country? isn't it likely she has a boyfriend in Mexico and then me in America?

Now, she says she wants me to get a passport and travel with her. But she knows im a man with a career. I can't just take off an entire summer.

Is this a red flag or am i just being insecure.

Please note we live in different countries.

She 'likes' me first on this dating/make friends app and i 'like' her back. I initiate contact. Quick replies, a lot of 'lol' 'hahaha' and emojis. A bit of playful flirting/compliments from me which she laughs at. I tell her i never visited her country and ask her where does she recommend. She says her own city because she is there. Just a very smooth conversation overall.

She then ask for my instagram and i give it.
She ask me to send her a voice message so i do and we continued on for a bit before I decided to end the conversation early as i had something to do.

Next day, i reach out again and things don't seem as smooth and she seems less responsive. Less questions asked and slower replies. However, each message is still quite long and detailed and she ask me to send a recent photo of myself.

Next day, similar. Some flirting on my side, she laughs and sends emojis back. I ask her to send me a photo and she sends me several. Her messages are still quite long and detailed and we cover some more meaningful topics where she shares more about the difficulties in her life (she's lonely, bored etc).

So what im struggling with is whether she sees us as something possible or just friends. On one hand, she seems interested with long messages, photos and opening up her difficulties. On the other hand, she replies slow and leaves messages unread. Is she playing hard to get and doesn't want to seem desperate?

So is this worth pursuing or not? If so, what should i do next, voice call, video call? I know texting only won't work long term. I dont think i have it in me to invest my heart into it only to be disappointed in the end.

Extra notes.
- Conversations can end abruptly as it gets late. She leaves msgs unread but i see her online. She replies in the morning but i also reply hours later as im asleep.
- Her voice sounds higher pitched in her voice msgs to me compared to her voice in her posts.

Girls do you like city guys or country guys? City guys that like the city and want to be out on the town. Go to bars or go shopping and go dinner and the movies on dates. Or country guys that wear boots and drive a truck and like to fish and things. And going on dates sitting in the back of his truck at night.

In a lot countries father's don't have equal rights as Mothers... hence the child often times get kept from the father and the child grows up without a father in his/her life.

Why do women blame men saying He was never there when she never allowed him to be?

I know a guy who dated a girl and she ran off with his kid to another city.
Let me be fair to both parties here he did make an effort but she never allowed him to even visit her son her son is 15 and wants nothing to do with his s dad because she black poisoned his mind against his father (who fought the court and lost)
Those years when she took his kid she told him the following. He made a voice recording and Copied it onto his old computer... he has made from dozens of copies and voice recordings As evidence to his Kid to show his kid d that he was interested in being part of his last few (if his kid ever wants to talk to his dad)
This was what Told The Dad
Her words: "you can't tell me XYZ about "my"(like it's her child alone) for you the kid is a luxury for me he is "my" (again like it's her kid alone) responsibility.
Years later she tells everyone that he was never around but he called and she never picked up her phone.
Truth is he still has reciepys of court costs of lawyers bills
Of father's rights attorney bills

The kid hates His dad...(refusing to hear both sides of the story)