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Let me preface this by saying my involvement in the dating scene is brief and infrequent, so maybe I believe something to be more common than what's real.

Months ago I came into contact with an amazing girl for a brief 2 months. We liked each other a lot. Endless communication between the two of us, endless admiration and attraction for one another, and endless laughs. However, I learned she didn't want to have kids but it's always been my dream to have some. I reasoned with her that there was someone out there for the two of us that'd be perfect, she agreed and we broke it off. Of course it wasn't that fast, (important) it was very tough for both of us to end communication after that convo, but she ultimately ripped the band-aid off and we wished each other a very warm and complement filled fair well and best of luck in life.

Recently I came across her profile on an old site which I haven't used in forever. I still like her a lot. I see she's liked me, but am not sure from when. I'm afraid that my reaching out and wishing her the best could re-kindle a flame that could hurt her, because she and I know we want two different and very important things to us. There is more to the "not wanting a kid", and I won't say more. Just understand no means no in her case.

What should I do? What's the best thing for her? Is it ok to match and wish her well or should I let things be the way they are?

You meet a young adult East European medium. She tells you she'll read your fortune as a thanks for helping her out with something. She does and sees one of these things happening in your future. Which one are you most excited for?

A - The body you've always dreamed of having. This includes things you can't easily change as, such as your desired height, skin tone, and (if applicable) gender, as well as anything else.

B - Your dream career and living and working where that dream career can happen. Your salary/income might not be "ideal," but you'd likely not complain.

C - Your dream woman/guy. Your imagination's perfect partner within reason. They'll have just enough flaws for you to not get bored with them, but still otherwise be a 99% or more compatible match for you.

We're madly in love with each other, we're a perfect match, however there's one problem.

Like any healthy couple, we fight sometimes, over dumb or serious things, we start off angry and upset but end up calmly arguing and discussing until we realize who was wrong (she's always ready to admit her mistake, so that isn't an issue, same for me).
When she fucks up and realizes she was in the wrong, she apologizes so much for hurting me, she cries and promises she'd become a better girlfriend (which she always does), and right when she says that I feel so bad and hold her tight telling her it's okay, because I know her apology and feelings are genuine.
BUT whenever I'm the one in the wrong and I apologize and promise to do better, she gives me a cold shoulder for a couple of days, thinks I'm a terrible person and hates me, and if it gets any worse we almost have a small breakup which sometimes gets me really worried cuz we might have actually broken up and I lost her, I always have that fear.
Then I gotta build up her trust and respect for me all over again which is really exhausting and time-consuming, while she doesn't have to do any of that.

So what do I do here? I think it's so unfair and I don't know how to appraoch her with it cuz she'd think I'm being manipulative, her forgiving me easily might prompt me to do worse things behind her back because she'll forgive me anyway, that's what she thinks.

I don't wanna toughen up when she makes a mistake, I don't wanna hurt her like she hurts me when I mess up, I'd hate to see her like that.

What do you think?