Does it mean anything if a woman talks to you on the phone for 3 hours?

[Jayy123]

Been in straight up in love with this girl for 7 years. Once upon a time we were really close but over the years we had a few argumemts and falling outs but always made up and maintained contact. Even on 2 separate ocassions months apart from eachother 4-5 years ago she drunk dialed me, told me she was in love with me, and then claimed to not remember. She's also rejected me a few times over the years. But little does she realize we're the perfect match for eachother lol. After not talking to her for 4 months after kinda, I texted her just to say hi but then she called me just to talk for 2 and a half hours. Then she had to go for about an hour, then she falled me back again for another half hour! Most of the time its just mushy flirting and picking on eachother and laughter, etc etc.

Does this mean anything or do you ladies like to talk to guy friends this long? This is driving me crazy!! Thanks

[AmandaYVR]

See, this is why you men have it tough. Because if a man did this, it would be open and shut case to say that he is into the girl, romantically. He may be acting as a friend, but he's also available, should she reciprocate interest.
(Exception: unless he's seeking relationship advice, and talking about some current girl in his life. That's totally different. Then they are just friends.)

But with this... oh lord, what is she doing? It could mean either (likes you/wants more, or likes you as a friend and feels comfortable enough to be playful.)

But "mushy flirting"? What about that part?
And what were the circumstances/timing of her rejecting you "a few times"?

Girls can talk a lot. The hours and years means she likes you. But 'how' she likes you is the real question, right.

I guess if she already said 'no' to you, you are reluctant to be direct again.
Are one or both of you worried about losing each other as friends? That's a common reason people don't speak up.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it means she is feeding from your non sexual validation, emotion, time, attention and you are providing her with all kinds of validation that makes her feel great... but without the need to return anything, or to have any responsibility or loyalty towards you. Something else to bear in mind... she will talk to her gfs for hours on the phone.
Therefore... if your not her boyfriend... then you're her girlfriend.

No way in hell I'm wasting my precious time giving a woman free validation, time, and attention. Stop simping!

[WindAtMyBack]

You mention talking on the phone but not in person. Is this strictly an online thing? Have you spent time together in person? If not, you really seriously need to do that.

As for talking on the phone for hours, some people just talk a lot. I do that myself, and not just with someone I have a romantic interest in. As a matter of fact, most of the time that's not the case.