There's this guy that always talks about himself, about his appearance, he's into fitness and he has high standards in women. He always talks about dating and profiles and seems to generalize them a lot and he makes me wonder if he's a misogynist or just inexperienced, he's 33 and has never had sex he says and hasn't had a girlfriend he says how he hangs out with girls from time to time, and he talks to plenty of girls online. I know because he shows me screenshots of them, and their conversations and pictures of these women , they all look like models and very high maintenance. He seems to be very attracted to these types and that's ok I'm not judging but what's this mean? I notice he doesn't talk to these girls the same way he talks to me, he seems to have normal conversations with them. With me he constantly talks about himself, his workouts, and other women. Today he was showing me his school ID photos and pictures of himself. He talks a lot sends about 40 messages if I'm offline for a bit, and he messages me everyday. We been talking since like 2014/2015 or so and we went years without talking, we just barely started messaging again (about a week ago) does this mean anything?
and yeah he's always been obsessed over topics and stuff, the last time we talked which was a couple years ago, i remember him being obsessed with zodiac signs/astrology
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He sounds annoying. Maybe he considers you a friend with whom he can vent his frustrations on (such as the lack of sex and his strong desires for these women).
You made an important connection between how he treats you differently. If you're thinking that you might be important to him romantically, I don't think so.