Since ugly and average men aren't allowed to criticize a woman's appearances, does that mean only attractive men can criticize you?

[Chthou95]

This logic is hilarious to me. a lot of women will say that if you're an ugly or average guy you have no room to say anything about a woman's appearance. So does that mean then that only attractive men can say anything they want about your appearence and it all of a sudden becomes okay? Or is it still not okay even though they have room to talk?

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People are fucking dumb and dont understand what's actually being asked here. If a guy is attractive physically does that give him the right to say whatever he wants compared to an ugly and average guy

[noemiii]

Well, what if it was the other way around? Would you let a very unattractive woman say anything about your appearance? By that logic, you only care what an attractive woman has to say about your appearance?

How about not caring either way? It doesn’t have to be one or the other. I feel like a man who is critical of a woman’s appearance is either insecure about her or insecure in himself. It’s a feminine trait to have.. but no, if I’m at a bar and a man who I’m not attracted to calls me ugly vs. a man I’m attracted to calls me ugly, I would not be more receptive to a man who I’m attracted to. I simply wouldn’t care.

[Chthou95]

I wouldn't give a shit to be honest. a lot of women are gassed up by men and other women and think they're hotter than they actually are and so it wouldn't be surprising if an ugly women called me ugly. You can criticize something without being insecure. We all criticize even the people that claim to he holier than thou. a lot just do it subconsciously

[noemiii]

Well “a lot of women” wouldn’t think that way if the men around them weren’t so physical and appearance oriented. And yes, you can criticize something without being insecure but I don’t really see people truly confident in themselves downing women.. but I see a lot of men not confident in themselves downing women.. and this pertains to actual dating not seeing a random person and thinking a thought in your head.

[Chthou95]

Both men and women care about physical appearence a lot and that's fine. That's very normal. But its when people let the compliments they get go to their head. If a person is always criticizing but has valid reasons or brings up good arguments, that doesn't make them insecure. This goes for both genders criticizing eachother

[noemiii]

Then you know, it’s your personal choice not to be around people like that who are self centered and arrogant. I personally don’t know anyone who is like that because I don’t surround myself with people like that.

And no, I do not agree with your logic. If I am at a bar as a man and I see a girl who I find unattractive trying to talk to me and instead of ignore her, I go and criticize her in great detail to make her feel bad about herself, I am deeply unhappy with myself. The saying goes, a person who is hyper critical of others is hyper critical of themselves.. and being hyper critical is a major trait of narcissists, which narcissists are insecure.

[Bricealan]

@noemiii I;m not sure what this guy is fishing for? I'm guessing that he is one of the two either unattractive or 'plain' and wised off to some girl, and she told him to F-off.

[Chthou95]

If im criticizing a video game and bring up valid points, the only conclusion is that i just suck at the game i guess

[Chthou95]

@Bricealan Calm down there Mr white knight im pretty sure she can handle this conversation

[Dinklex3]

I’m guessing someone called you out on your shit?

Imagine someone overweight talking shit and making fun of someone else for being overweight.

Doesn’t make sense, does it?

[Chthou95]

Not really. Its more so just something i notice and the logic behind it is entertaining and it is a valid question. Does a guy being attractive give him the right to say whatever he wants about women's appearences? Its not that complicated to understand sweet heart

[Bricealan]

@Dinklex3 Bingo! You hit the nail on the head, and I guess that is why he is 'fishing"

[Dinklex3]

My response shouldn't have been complicated to understand either, yet it went straight over your head.
Thanks for MHO though ❤

[Bricealan]

Wow, and you dumped on him and he gave you MHO? He must be a masochist? LOLOL

[Chthou95]

@Bricealan I didn't give you anything. It automatically picks if you don't do it yourself after some time. And i read but you really didn't understand what i was talking about apparently

[Bricealan]

I guess the lesson here is 'if you live in a glass house, don't throw stones", don't make comments about some else's 'physical characteristics' if you don't want them to comment on yours, especially if you have no room to make negative comments about others.

[Chthou95]

If you can take what you dish out, then by all means criticize. But it seems you really dont understand the question

[samuluaa]

Would you care what a female you thought was unattractive thought about your physical appearance?

[Asking_for_knowledge]

Nope😂

[samuluaa]

@Asking_for_knowledge I care more about what men I find physically attractive think about my looks and how pretty they think I am. I imagine most females are probably the same as me.

[Asking_for_knowledge]

All people are the same when it comes to this.

[samuluaa]

@Asking_for_knowledge yea but I think some people probably won’t admit it because they don’t want to sound shallow.

[Bricealan]

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