I wanna know how good you yourself look in the first place Mr confidence.
Why do guys think they have the right to harshly judge women's looks?
I wanna know how good you yourself look in the first place Mr confidence.
Women judge men just as often and just as harshly - in fact, studies have shown that on average, women judge over 80% of men to be "below average looking"! Think about that stat for a minute!
Women also judge men by their job, their car, and the size of their wallet, along with their physical characteristics.
The only difference is that you're more likely to hear guys talking about it out-loud, while women are more likely to just think it or talk about it privately. But the amount of judging is hardly any less.
You're correct, but to be fair, I also rate about 80% of females as unattractive, though not technically "below average" because that's not how numbers work.
@allies097 Well yeah I may call them "below average" along with unattractive but that's technically not right because "average" is in the middle, as in, half. 50%. In terms of statistics, 80% of something physically can't technically be "below average." That's not how basic math works... duh. So it's just a matter of semantics.
Also, get over *your*self. What's your malfunction?
@allies097 Uh... no I don't. "On this site?" How's that? This site is almost entirely anonymous and you barely ever see real photos of users anyway, and even when you do you don't actually know it's them for real, so how would I be able to judge individual users' looks?
And I don't know what ^ that last question is supposed to mean; I think I'm a person with a computer, the same as you. That's... about it.
I don't judge women harshly on here.
I tend to see what's beautiful about her.
I have seen both men and women say some pretty nasty insensitive things about each other just in general on gag though.
I definitely think it goes both ways around here.
because its more socially acceptable to judge a woman on her looks the same way it is more socially acceptable for women to judge a man based on his wallet. It's still set up that men will judge women as they ARE (looks, is her personality good enough, what is she willing to give me now) and that women can judge men for what he CAN produce in the future (stable job, good father, won't cheat on you etc).
im guessing there should be a happy medium between the two but i don't know how to quantify that yet lol
Guys are terrible hypocrites. They only care about a woman's looks. And expect you to look like a model even if they are just average themselves. When they say they care about personality, they mean you have to smile, be obedient, don't threaten their authority and suck d**k.
They also say they don't like women with makeup but all these celebs they like, wear a ton of makeup
So not true. But again you aren't a guy so maybe you dont know what we want. can't blame you.
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First off, a 5 is pretty ugly, average is like 6.5. second, I don't know ow guys who do that anywhere other than here and it's because all women will lie to each other about looks. But if you're asking men on here, they assume it's because you ACTUALLY want to know how you look, so if they think you don't look good, they're gonna say something. if you don't want to know how you actually look, maybe specify in the deets "please lie to me so I feel good even though I know you're lying and I'm ugly" men are straightforward, it's why we've accomplished 95%+ of everything. Instead of bitching and whining around we just call it like we see it and move the fuck on
Because they are free to do so. The women is free to tell the guy to “fuck off” or whatever else she wants to say. It may be rude or mean to say that to somebody’s face but they absolutely have the ‘right’ to do it. This applies to both sexes by the way, you just specified men.
Why?
Simple.
Everyone has a right to their own opinion. It doesn't need to be objective, nice, kind, or based in reality. It can be nasty, harsh, and downright cruel... but it's alright.
Why?
Because not everyone's opinion matters. I know you've been told since you were a child that everyone's opinion matters, it doesn't.
The only thing that matters is if the opinion is based in objective fact, truth, logic, and reality.
You're kinda touching on a few topics. There's obviously a natural selection and we choose what partner we can get that suits our attributes best. ""Why would a guy/girl be rude to someone who doesn't meet their personal standards?"" Overall both sexes are pretty damn° shallow. Anyone who hurts someone else because they feel superior or feel its okay to be judgmental and insulting shouldn't be worthy of any mind.
By using that phrasing you are begging the answer. It is clear that you think men are judging women harshly and do not have the right. However, all humans judge all other humans. In addition, men are visual and we are evolved to judge women visually in order to select a good mate. You may not like their choice or their judgment, but it is biologically wired into us to behave that way. So it sounds like you are really just mad at biology and evolution, not men.
Well yeah guys judge just like women judge and don’t say they don’t or I’ll say your full of shit and lying. Just yesterday two women at the bus stop was saying a guy they knew was ugly. So women judge just like men. So don’t bullshit me and say they don’t. Can’t stand hypocrites
I don't think anybody should be rude and nasty to anyone else if it's something you don't want done to you then don't do it to someone else I see a lot of guys do that on here it's almost like they're little kids trying to get attention if you want attention just say hello and hopefully they'll say hello back but to be nasty and rude to get a response that's pretty Adolescent and immature and whoever does that needs to grow up
I know right. Like buddy you aren't a sigh for sore eyes!
I don't do rates. A pretty smile could have me wanna talk to a chick. Long healthy hair... it varies what attracts me to a chick so having a type or rating system could have somebody missin out. I'm not everybody cup of tea I'm sure.
Girls tend to trash out other girl's looks more than guys do and girls also do it plenty to men. It's not just guys who do this.
Nobody has a right to do this to others, they're just being a d*ck.
basicly simple? I dont like some womens and some womens dont like me. Right? I dont lie to someone, if i like him i like him if i dont like him i dont like him. I saw many peoples who are actually very ugly talking on gag that they are super beautiful and other guys want to them them. For example that Kattycat (bitch, dont know her name), she is claming that she is super hot but she looks like dead girl lmao, she is so ugly.
had to break to you but women do that to men all the time it's just socially acceptable to.
Where are you meeting guys who say this? I would not put myself in a position where someone could say that to me.
Women treat men that aren't in the top 2% of men like they're subhuman. They can just fuckin deal with being rated on a 1-10 scale.
I don't mind it just don't do it in front of others loud enough for everyone to hear. Especially in front of that person.
You don't know if someone is going through something or not. They don't need more to break them down.
I don't think it's ever okay to do that to be harsh and rude is a really messed up thing to do I feel like anything you don't want done to you you shouldn't do to anyone else
You should have said I bet your dick is less than five!
Everybody judges everybody else. It's called discernment. Get over yourself.
Lol who? You're talking about typical fuckboys, chick
Well, hey, crazy thought, maybe you are average. Most people are, often the guys who say so also acknowledge their averageness. For instance, if I call a person average, whatever. Fine. I'm average too.
In response to the update : More often than not those girls talk to their friends about it, gossip horribly, and then it gets out to the guy and hurts much more than a passing comment would have.
I don't know why anyone thinks they have they right to judge people so harshly on there looks
Because facts don't care about your feelings. You will get judged on your looks by everyone who sees you. You can't get around that.
@TacoFamine yes everyone gets judged but doesn't mean you have the right to come up into sombodys face to tell them that just keep it to yourself
@nathanp97 ya that's what I was trying to say lol
Lol and if anyone makes a comment or asks about their own or someone elses looks it's free range on them.
@TacoFamine ya but I am talking about when like you don't ask and they just saying it for no reason but to just be a jerk
I have never seen someone get called ugly unprovoked.
@TacoFamine you should walk around with me at the store then lol
You must sure be a cunt if people are insulting you that much.
@TacoFamine um wow ok no I am not I don't understand why they do it but they do so I am actually very modest and id ont do anything but people at consatanly bullying me
Yeah people don't randomly attack people unless you do something worth attacking
@TacoFamine ok I am not gonna fight about this but they do because it legit ALWAYS happens to me
And I'm just saying you legit, must always be a cunt for that to happen.
@TacoFamine well I am not a cunt I haven't even worn a bikini before I don't show my skin and don't hook up with every attractive guy I know I don't cake my face with make up or anything like that I don't know why people do it and so ya but I know your being an asshole right now and trying to get me mad and I am not looking for that so byeee
You are being a cunt lul. You just don't know or want to know how much of a cunt you are.
@TacoFamine no I am not a cunt your an egotistical asshole who is the exact person I was talking about in my orginal comment please go get a better life then bullying people on the internet because you have nothing else to do with your pathetic life thanks by bitch
No u
@TacoFamine really mature what are you 7 your not in preschool idiot that is legit what you say to that kid who called you a dummy on the playground "no you are" seriously
You got mad over "no u" you lost the argument.
@TacoFamine awhhhh and he is dumb I got mad when you called me a cunt with no excuse
Well I guess it's my dumb self who can't lie as that takes too much brain effort. I'm so stupid I must tell the truth.
@TacoFamine bye I am not talking with you anymore asshole I don't really care about you opinions because you don't listen to logic and belive what you want to byeeee
Did you just change your name?
@TacoFamine um no leave me alone please or I am gonna block you thanks
What if you can't take criticism?
@TacoFamine I can take critism I have been taking critism my whole lif ebut I don't need critisim from a crazy person behind a screen who want to pretend they know who I am and literally has no clue who I am so thanks for what you consider "critisim" but you can go somewhere else with it bye
But you are the one going crazy over someone taking the shit.
@TacoFamine ok well I guess I don't like being called cunt by a person who doesn't know me what I do who I am how I dress how I act act my personality my story my heritage my fucking NOTHING... you know absolutely nothing about me and you have no right to tell me what I am and am not espiecally if I am a cunt
But you are tho.
@TacoFamine explain to me how a person you don't know haven't meet seen or anything explain to me how you know I am a cunt go I want to hear it
@TacoFamine oh really I think your the cunt you started tossing out words so I played your game with you you don't want to get insulted then don't insult others it is as simple as that I wouldn't have ever called you an asshole and you gave me a reason to by calling me a cunt when I was being completely hostile with you
I mean If you can't think that maybe it's you that causes people to insult you, that's kind of an trademark cunt move. I'm fine with insults but it seems as if you can't understand why your cunty attitude gets you called a cunt.
@TacoFamine dude I legit always mind my own business in real life I leave everyone alone so no I don't have an attitude but I know you have a fucking awfull attitude and what makes you calling me a cunt feel good about your self like honestly you need a life
@TacoFamine ya and all you responses are calling somebdy a cunt that you don't know so what makes you beter
Bro. Stop trying to get gold diggers. I know you like that and that's the only thing you can talk about in you history on this site. But you are the cuck. It won't work.
And I didn't call him a cunt I called him a hobag you dumb cunt. Can you not read?
@TacoFamine I don't have to testify to you.. But that wasn't a question it was a data analysis survey.. That help me sort out many answers like.
Read the entire question! Mr. Illiteratefamine
Men's : Average Cost of Maintaining a top quality Gold Digger, on Girlfriend Status annually? ↗
It clearly states data analysis!.. I am a researcher and researches always require getting hands dirty..
And I was looking for primary data.. Untampered with..
Hoebag. Wash yo dirty dick. Gonna get a yeast infection.
@TacoFamine I am talking about me you fucking bitch
You are dumb. You said I only know how to call someone a cunt right after I called someone a hoebag.
god I love how he thinks he is better then me when the truth is he is a nasty ass low life bottom feeder that obviously is a narrisistic assjole who is deeply confused about life and needs a a conciler for his weak mind because he probably has parents telling him how amazing he was and when daddy cut of the money and he failed at life he just couldn't take it and broke down
@TacoFamine what makes you smart? I have learning problems and I can spell and talk better then you can idiot
I like how I say you may be a cunt and that's why people insult you and you prove you are a cunt. I'm surprised you don't auto block everybody with that kind of egg shell ego.
@TacoFamine I never said I may be a cunt I said you ARE an asshole and it is true so fuck of run back to daddy and go get a life so nobody has to ever meet your pathetic ass anymore bye
@TacoFamine
Can you not read?
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