Women judge men by the way they look how is that controversial?

[JamieRobinson1994]

When I was growing up, it was common to hear girls say "looks don't matter, it's all about personality." However, their actions often told a different story, especially online or in social settings with male counterparts.

Women do value a man's personality and behavior, but it's undeniable that they also judge based on looks. Whether a woman's goal is a casual hookup or a serious relationship, physical attraction is essential. It’s not controversial to state this is it? If a woman isn't physically attracted to a guy, she'll likely just see him as a friend and nothing more. On dating apps, 80% of women swipe right on the top 20% of men, leaving the bottom 80% of men either invisible or receiving minimal attention. If you speak to a woman for the first time on Snapchat and she asks you send a pic of you, she’s very likely to unfriend you if she doesn’t find you attractive. This suggests that women can be more superficial than men. In the 2010s, men who discussed these topics were often ridiculed as incels or women haters. If we're not allowed to talk about or question these issues, it might indicate there's some truth to them. Fortunately, since the 2020s, podcasts and YouTube channels have made these discussions more mainstream.

[uniquelyshy]

I can say what you've said is all very true. Men should be able to talk about it but men these days take their comments and opinions way to far so yes there shut down sometimes. Most woman aren't afraid of men finding this out there afraid of all the harsh and unnecessary comments and opinions most men now a days make especially some men who hold grudges about such facts. So while I think men should be able to talk about this and question this there should be a limit, ya know.

[jahaims]

Everyone judges everyone on the way they look