I am talking to this lady online and I have invited her to my racial/cultural discussions group. She is an attractive older woman.
I thought it would be good to have more trump supporters in these groups and she seemed open to discussions. What startled me was that she dates "Black" guys. . . exclusively. I mean, I knew the common deal was that if "Black" people held certain political views, they were okay to date, but that's different.
She told me there are a lot of women like this and introduced me to several. These women are unique in that, a "White" guy. .. or any non-"Black" guy can be a perfect match in terms of political views, culture, temperament, etc. . . but they would still reject them. I of course, tried to drill down and get an understanding of this. I guess I kind of offended a couple of them. And they just sent me memes saying they don't have to explain themselves or their choices.
Which is kind of a liberal way of addressing things, if you ask me.
So I have to ask the trump supporting community that is GaG, are these women racist? Confused? Good Make America Great examples?
I mean, I have met "White" women who talk about a love for African-American Culture. Or a love for how African-American men are culturally. Like for instance, most "Black" guys are not very strict when it comes to traditional beauty standards. Like myself, I generally dated heavy set "Black" women pretty much my entire life. But I just thought they were really cute. But that is not what the women appear to be conveying in their choices. They don't seem to be really aware of African-American Culture. And I don't get it since most Trump supporters are pretty firm in their belief that even if "Black" folks are not inferior from a genetic/racial standpoint, they are from a cultural standpoint. And it is through the rejection of "Black" culture, they become better human beings. That's the ideology boiled down to its bare essence.
Is there a such thing as a "White" woman who supports Trump. . . but only dates "Black" guys?
You know Trump is the first person to build a country club that allowed blacks in it. Trump always cared about the black community. Even in songs like Nelly's "Country Grammar"..."Now I'm knocking like Jehovah; let me in now, let me in now Bill Gates, Donald Trump, let me in now"
... In 1991, Scarface bragged on “Money and the Power” about “stacking paper like Trump.”
...“I need a suite with the flowers complimentary at Trump Towers.” That was Nas in 1996, rhyming alongside Mobb Deep on “Give It Up Fast,”
Trump’s name was in sings by: Chingy, little Wayne, Mystikal, Lil’ Kim, Diddy, Rick Ross and others. A new wave of “black Trumps” arrived, too. On Young Jeezy’s 2005 cut “Thug Motivation 101,” he roared, “I’m Donald Trump in a white tee.” On his hallmark 2006 hit, “It’s Goin’ Down,” Yung Joc echoed that vintage Bun B line: “Boys from the hood call me black Donald Trump.”
As KingFace (RIP) would say, "Donald Trump is the blackest president we ever had. Orange is the new black"
It is like none of you possess the ability to respond to my question. Do I look like a man who listens to Scarface? Do I know anything out there by little' Wayne? Diddy or Rick Ross?
WTF?
"Black" culture is way more than your little exposure to Hip-Hop. It is R&B, Jazz, Dance, Soul music, etc.
Don't lecture me on the insane racist freakshow. He tried to get four innocent "Black" men executed for a crime they did not commit.
Onto the actual question. . . IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A WHITE WOMAN TO DATE "BLACK" MAN. . AND "BLACK" MEN ONLY. . . BUT STILL BE A TRUMP SUPPORTER?
HOW CAN YOUR TRUMP SUPPORTING BELIEF SYSTEM SUPPORT SUCH NONSENSE?
Hmm are you sure they're really white? Maybe they're just white-passing, but come from a mixed background and grew up in a multicultural environment?
I happens to be mixed (Spanish, Navajo, Jewish and Zacateco) and sometimes some people think I'm white (especially in the winter without a tan), but usually most people consider me a person of color. I'm mostly find attractive other people of color Black, Polynesian, Native American and Middle-Eastern guys. Nothing personal against white guys, I just don't find them attractive physically (it's just a preference) and most of the time they tend to be too conservative I'm not a Trump supporter through, I'm a social democrat/socialist
Well seeing that we are all friends on Facebook. . . yes, they are "White". And this one in particular is extremely attractive. I mean that is the startling part. And now the conversation has expanded, because they think I am making fun of them. But I was only trying to be logical.
I am getting some of the same drivel here. Trump supporters jump to a defense of Trump. They can't answer the question.
But yeah. . . I am trying to understand the trump supporting mind. . . and these women claim they are "accepted" among trump supporting circles, yet at GaG "White" women who refuse to date "White" men are supposedly extremist leftist commie bastards. . .
Just trying to get an understanding.
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So they support a white supremacist party, yet at the same they date exclusively Black guys? It's a probably a fetish then Creepy..
I don't think it is about looking less racist. It is like this is incorporated into their whole view of race and "White" supremacy. I kid you not. .. the woman has a jpeg of a black devil and a white angel. . . with this insane inscription on her profile! It is like the whole fantasy is reliant upon dysfunctional backwards "Black" dudes victimizing and taking sexual advantage of the or some crazed shit like that.
My fiancé was white and she supported trump with me. I am not one of those fucking sheep following the racist democrats, people should of opened their eyes when trump accepted Ice Cube's offer to help the black community but Biden refused until he won. That was just further proof that Biden didn't take Cube seriously.
Oh your one of those people, You insult me with a reply and then bring it back to this. jesus dude 48 years old and still have this much disrespect. :c
The answer is, they date black trump supporters too. They exist you know.
I just know you are very whiny. I insulted you by calling you a joke, if you think anyone believes you care about the "Black" community?
Get over it and if you want me to pity you hold your breath. You called "Black" people sheep, you self-hating piece of shit. If you want respect son, you had better figure out how to respect people who are older than you, and who endured things you cannot even became to understand or conceive of. They are the only reason why you can even post in this trollish dungeon called GaG.
And your answer isn't an answer. How can a "White" woman date "Black" men. . . and only "Black" men? What in trump supporter ideology supports this kind of nonsense? Especially since, in even your opinions. . . this is not about "race"?
Yeah they are and don't call me Son bruh. I only got 1 dad and I fuckin hate him.
Black people are sheep, Look around you dude. BLM was made to fight against police brutality and then suddenly loud white women took over, white people taking over. BLM becoming more violent and attacking OTHER black people and ruining their lives for what? They do what the radicals tell them without question.
You want to tell me black people are not sheep? then tell me why Joe Biden the man who is proven racist against black people putting us down for decades runs for president tells us "We're not black if we vote for trump"? And thats okay? The fucking democrats are racist and always have been, the Republican party is the party made by the black people. Trump has been trying to help the black people the entire fucking time.
The media calls him a racist homophobe with little to no evidence people follow it like gospel, Joe Biden and Obama built the cages for the immigrants in 2014 and pinned it on Trump and people ate that shit up. They are sheep.
I can go up to any black person I see and ask them what biden's gonna do for them that trump wasn't and they will say a bunch of made up bullshit or they are going to say everything trump and ice cube were already working on.
Person who has no wisdom. Person who has no understanding of the culture that birthed him or the culture that is responsible for him even being alive. I will call you what I will and I will dismiss you when I want. I will speak down to you just like you spoke down to the entire "race" of "Black" folks. If you don't like it. Good. "Black" folks don't like being called sheep and being told that somehow they are unable to navigate politics as well as other groups. So you have one thing in common with the members of the culture known as African-American Culture.
And no BLM was not taken over by "White" women. You are uneducated and uninformed. BLM is still lead by the same three "Black" women who started it. They have no control over the "White" women who are loud about it. They never asked for "White" liberals to stop voicing "Black" cartoon characters. They didn't ask for movie executives to diversify their writing staffs. They didn't ask to teach "White" privilege on college campuses.
They asked for police officers to be held accountable for police brutality. And your backwards insane self-hating ass has not answered a simple question. Instead you have done the same thing the "White" women did when I asked them the same thing. You simply are avoiding answering a simple question. You have made this about every single thing it is not.
You can go up to any "Black" person and they will tell you that high on that list is police brutality towards "Black" folks. And a President who says it is okay for police to rough up citizens is not helping the situation one single bit.
I've talked to a GAG 20 something years back who only dated black males. She sent me pics of them. I don't know her political views and she's long gone from the site. When I dug into this she informed me her family was mixed... she had 2 black brothers, she was raped by a black guy in HS. So was it perception and trauma that drivers her? Or her genetics or something else? Sociologists to figure out...
Of what I know about attraction, it is coming from sub conscious... based upon what we learned as children... at least as a component of attraction. I have seen "opposites attract" including light toned/blonde women to darker toned guys. That include white to chinese. e. g. some Asian girls prefer white males. There's the inverse as well... what if someone has a negative perception of a whole race? That was me... I didn't like German girls... due to negative perceptions formed early.
I know of several mixed couples but doubt I'll get opportunity to ask "how they were attracted".
I don't agree that Trump supporters view black people as lower or lesser, maybe your data shows that. I don't see it in people I talk with. Trump supporters support certain aspects of behavior and character imho. I could explain that more but it's off topic to the question. I don't think there is such a think as "black" culture same as there is no white culture. Some black people are high class and character, some are elsewhere, with variations. But we always try to group by something.. humans.. to be part of something. That be the concept in Christianity to form under a new "vine". Seems there should be better tools, like engineers use, to categorize people... because white/black is so quickly flawed.
This gets into the categorization of "black" guys. I grew up with some, at least around, they are a diverse group. As you've noted before, it gets into parents, culture, which is how that person was raised, in what environment, how did they perceive themselves. Ditto for females. That is what defines the underlying beliefs and would drive, at least somewhat... attractions. Some kids I trusted and respected, some were a basket case. Color not the differentiator... although we humans constantly try to use the simplest criteria to make determinations.
Of course "White" and "Black" are ridiculously flawed. I think the whole race conversation is dishonest. Because it is based upon a flawed premise. Pretty much everyone in America knows that race wasn't not simply a recognition of skin color. Race went far beyond that. Even you used the term "mixed" in your post. Why are people "mixed"? Mixed with what?
Race was this supposedly logical scientific standard that was neither scientific nor logical.
Yet, people believed in it with such conviction, it was coded into our laws.
So I don't understand why so many people pretend to;
1. Pretend that race means nothing.
2. But in the same sentence talk about how it means everything.
It just seems to me that it is hypocritical to the extreme.
But the real question when it comes to dating "Black" guys exclusively is this. . . remember these women do not care about high class or low class, right?
They are looking for "Black" men and "Black" men only. Why would a "White" woman trump supporter do such a thing? We are not talking about hating certain "Black" folks. We are talking about a woman who writes off an entire class of men. . . based upon their skin color alone.
very hard to have this level of depth conversation in writing for every time I do, it goes bad. You ask good questions. Humans are subtle and sly in our thinking. I do it... I ignore race, but it can be the easiest thing to make a judgement as well. Were all complex in how we think... it's not logical.
I think race can be diminished to nothing when the cultures/characters of the people are aligned. In a scenario of judging people, race and sex are the easiest assumptions to jump to conclusions... when they have to be quick. Like safety is #1. e. g. I approached the homeless black man, I did not feel threatened and felt empathy for him, I helped him. Not long before, several young tall black males... you know the kind... they's "black brothers" with attitude. I turned and avoided them... Other black people Id be considerate to. To me... it's energy, not color. That energy is emotional, that's how I try to judge... but old programming can kick in fast.
I'm not sure they don't care about class. I think the assumption of "black" does not mean all. It could, not sure. I think it is emotional energies attracting... that is the inner child of the one drawn to the inner child of the other... color for these people is a strong driver (only these physical attributes), or not relevant.
Make some videos and interview them. I don't equate trump supporter and these women. I don't see the mapping. Trump married some far out East European chick.. ahemm... lady.
I'd have to talk to the women to try to get a bead on how this came about. The answer lies early in their childhood, I'll bet a bitcoin on that. I would not bet on... I suspect the answer is they for whatever reason established a positive perception of black men. For example, they cherished Bill D williams or flip wilson, or the Jackson 5. And some white man scared and hurt them... so they generalized this to all of that color. Humans try to simplify things, saves energy. Safety being #1. Sadly, it is flawed. People like us get stuck trying to figure out the complexity when I bet, their thinking is very simplistic. I like X because X is safe... based upon the limited data set of what I learned.
I had VERY positive impressions of colored people (how I saw them), when I was young. many positive exmaples. Until I met some my age up close... went down hill, then got confused. Can't judge by color, simple as that. Judge by "energy" better... color can be part of that, culture.
Mixed - to be clear there's variation, Im not responding to race but human need. I'd like to do away with race, I don't use it unless I perceive threat. It kicks in automatically then. or when trying to segment and understand... which to me can be "positive" race. That is grouping people to help determine how to improve the livelihood of specific sub groups.
But you are at GaG. And this forum has plenty of raciologists here. Even as they can't define what race is.
And of course I disagree with you. Race is social. It is just so weird to me to hear folks talk about race as some universal thing, when a simple google search shows you that it is not. I stayed in Russia for a while doing various projects. In Russia, I would hear routinely that marriages between Russians and non-Russians were "mixed" marriages. And the children were "mixed" children. Especially after Russia invaded Ukraine. Talking to Ukrainians and Russians was problematic, because of how they felt about the cultures, the conflicts and intergroup relations. But there, the concern was not with the American standard of race. They didn't know thing about African-American history. They didn't have a clue about the laws of racial segregation. They were concerned about their own history and their own cultures with respect to being Russians and Ukrainians.
I am not here to debunk your personal experience. I would rather not litigate that. But you are a participator here at GaG. You see that race is at the forefront of people's minds.
Well, I haven't spoken to them since I created this thread. I am pretty certain they would never appear on video. I invited them to my racial/cultural discussion group. No one has taken me up of course. I am not certain why they would do so. Obviously they have not though very deeply about race or culture. It is funny how racist imagery dominates their lives. But they claim they don't think about race.
But that's just it. I don't think you have had much exposure to this "lifestyle" for lack of a better term.
THEY HAVE THE SAME NEGATIVE VIEW OF "BLACK" MEN THAT IS COMMON THROUGHOUT American SOCIETY.
Have you done much studying on race? I posted this jpeg from the one I was talking to.
I mean, I have been approached by the type. The type who thinks that my skin color means 'bad boy" and all of the insane crazed negative stereotypes. I am oversexed. I am not faithful. I am lewd, etc., etc.
It always made me feel really dirty.
Why we we keep talking about your experience with race? You don't have anything to prove. If you want to get to know each other, then let's do that. But this is GaG.
Anyway, the pic. I just think this is disgusting and weird. Why do people think that they are not obsessed with race, if they can only date outside of their make-believe group?
I honetly have not studied race, never thought about it. I have my personal experiences and perceptions. I'm really not focused on black but more human. How to improve the human condition which I put that through the lense of Christ/Christianity. even that doesn't work for we'll find peopl arguing about that. I explore broadly. Your example on Russia is fascinating, most people wouldn't' even know. I've only perspective that when I guessed a Ukranian was Russian, I got a few bad response. Those wounds are deep.
I might be willing to explore outside of this. Communication in general is difficult and I'm not sure how to bridge the gap between people. To me, it is best to do that on commonalities, but by understanding others experience and perceptions... with support. That is love and understanding. Anything else in my experience is just logical egos colliding or worse, emotional outbursts.
the value is in "savings" this generation of kids. That meaning... somehow, they have to see through all the chaos to see the good in people. Media promotes the negative, the conflict of humanity. They multiply it. How often do they show the broader view of consideration empathy care.
Well, that is pretty standard right? If you are "White" why would you have to think about it? Of course, I had to deal with it, because I had no idea about African-American History. I was using the same weird race neutral understanding that you are using. It could not help me understand that I was a member of culture. That's why I embarked on that journey of self-discovery. I started to study African-American history, tracing back cultural connections to Africa, etc. Then beyond that, I began to look at American Indian history, Latin American History, Asian-American History, etc.
It helped me to create a more well-rounded view and perspective on American society.
As for Russia, of course the wounds are deep. Russia is still invading Ukraine to this day. People are still dying. Have you seen the before and after photos of Donetsk? I have friends in Russia, Ukraine, Latvia, Poland, etc. Everyone is concern. Some more than others.
I think the introduction of religion is problematic when there are literally Christians who will blow your head off for trespassing on their property. Then go to Church on Sunday and thank God for that.
Yeah, I am done blaming the media. The blame is on the foot of folks who adopt and accept extremism.
voting for trump has nothing to do with racism... maybe they want a good economy... under biden the economy will hit a depression... i've given head to black men and voted for trump.
Some white woman fetishes black men, thats why they date them even though the person they are supporting has no problem telling racist groups to go after black people.
They have a lot of money, and they only support trump due to his new tax decrease for the wealthy.
They are just southern and ignorant and they grew up only voting republican.
They want to be edgy and vote for Trump.
They ARE racist, but the guys they date are the exception.
Hmmm. . . it reminds me of "Dirty Dancing". You know Patrick Swayze was this "hot" young dance instructor. And all the older women in the community were paying him for dance instructions. But all they really were doing was using him and trying to sleep with him. He felt so used because of that.
But you are right. Most of them are well-established. They are looking to provide a home. She has some really troubling imagery on her page. Stuff like;
Probably I don't know that's a thinker. Their are black trump fans and whites who are racist against whites so I have no clue honestly nothing surprise's me anymore.
Haha! That surprised the crap out of me. I have met "White" women who were "Conservative" who only dated "Black" guys. But that is a totally different kind of person.
This whole jpeg messed me up. I asked her about this. . . she refused to answer me.
I suppose. I was in America a few years ago. I was surprised how many black people and Hispanics support trump. I just assumed they wouldn't based on their race which was pretty racist of me.
This has nothing to do with "Blacks" supporting trump. I expect to see "Black" trump supporters among the men she has dated. The hilarious thing about our increasingly political society is this startling fact.
Most "White" women who dating "Black" men exclusively, are looking for "Black" men who are culturally "Black". They want to be in the "cookout" so to speak. They are looking for African American history, culture, music, etc.
Most "Black" men who date "White" women exclusively are exactly the opposite. They are running away from African-American Culture, history, etc.
So politically, you find a lot of "White" women who are wearing BLM swag, tshirts with "Black" heroes on them, etc. And you find "Black" men with trump supporting gear, etc.
But they seem to forgive each other for their political views because their relationship is about race and race only.
I began a race conversation at my meetup site and on facebook. I ran into a bunch of "White" women who are trump supporters. They were trying to dispel this notion that they dislike "Black" culture or whatever. So I began to ask questions about their relationships and I couldn't help but be curious.
How could a "White" woman decide to ignore any political or cultural common ground with another man. . simply because he was not "Black" if her primary goal or drive was not based upon the mythology of race? Especially when politics is supposedly so important to them. . . .
The conversation kind of goes sideways in the same way it does here. Not many want to directly address this weirdness.
WTF is this anyway. . . a meme on her facebook profile.
You seem to assume that just because a person is a certain race if their politics are different than yours they must be racist. I think that's racial profiling.
You apparently did not read a word I wrote. And this is nonsense seeing that I was a "Black" Republican pre-trump. Support for trump has nothing to do with actual political beliefs anyway. It is about faith and love for one human being.
Besides, I have no idea what their political views are before I ask.
I only know they date "Black" men exclusively. People who are driven by race nonsense normally have strange, weird, nonsensical ideas. Like thinking they can see "good in satan".
As she apparently likens "Black" men to satan and herself to being an angel.
"Ginni Thomas is an avid backer of President Donald Trump and an influential conservative activist who posts pictures of Trump supporters campaigning in Virginia."
