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Some people claim I'm racist, others say I have double standards since I like Asian women and dated plenty of them.
I don't know why people make a fuss out of it!
White women call me hypocritical for doing the same thing they do. 😆
So, let me get this straight...
Suppose Mary, a woman you are interested in, dated 3 men.
Each of those men was of a different ethnicity.
1. Yaan is a Zorkian-American whose ancestors came from Zorkland.
2. Vorel is an Elbonian-American whose ancestors came from Elbonia.
3. Dwalok is an Iliumic-Ameican whose ancestors came from Illium.
She tells you that she's only dated these 3 men but doesn't tell you their ethnicity at first.
If you have no problem at this point in time and would date her, then fine.
Later, you two get to be talking about her past.
She says Yaan was a Zorkian. You have no problem.
She says Dwalok was Illiumic. You have no problem.
She mistakenly says Vorel was also Zorkian. You have no problem.
But then she says she was mistaken and that Vorel was actually Elbonian.
You break-up.
That would be indicative of "having issues" with Elbonians. I won't say "bigot" right out of the gate, but it is bigotted. So, to not be called a bigot, you better have a good reason for not liking Elbonians.
If your reason is "Well, I just don't like Elbonians and I don't want to date a woman who'd date an Elbonian", then that's pure bigotry.
Really, the only legitimate excuse you could have - and it's still a form of stereotypical generalization - is that you would want to date a woman who dated a black guy because, let's face it, you're white so you aren't going to "measure up" to the black guy where its important.
I'm in the same boat- I'd never date ANY girl who dated a black guy, especially a white or Asian girl (why the hell would they slum like that?).
Now is this racist? sure, but it's also racist for women to choose guys because they think their have attributes specific to their race.
I'd also caution you against dating any Asian girl if you think they have certain attributes- many are conservative, some are not; many are tight, some are not; many are attentive, good girlfriends, some are not; and of course just because they act a certain way to you (or a potential boyfriend) doesn't mean they haven't been run through (including by black guys).
So are you saying you'd date a white woman but not one that specifically has been with a black guy?
If that's the case, is their any reason why?
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It's probably a smart strategy to be honest. White women who had a preference for black guys low key probably still do.
I'm naturally attracted to Asian women as well, and I have been since before I got married, or it was even that common where I live. I wouldn't suggest for most white women to date me these days because I do have a strong preference for Asian women. i would never cheat, but I'm not gonna be truly satisfied until I marry another cute brown or Asian woman.
My guy, it’s a preference, if that’s racist all gays are sexist. Too man ist’s and isms in this world. It’s a preference, tell them to sod off and go be with who you want.
I don't see it as an issue. Most White girls that date Black guys (every single one I have met) have mental health issues. They're often mad at their parents, have low self-esteem, are attention seeking, drama queens, etc. They generally have some sort of personality disorder. It has nothing to do with the actual Black guy. He's just the pawn in the game. The crazy girl just uses the Black guy for the drama.
No, it's just a preference. No one is required to date anyone else, and it's understandable if you don't want to date someone who appears to be uninterested in you because of the group (s) you belong to.
1) we’re all a bit bigoted in some way. Skin color, gender, gays, etc. We have illogical notions buried in our brains. The best of us fix those issues when we discover them.
2) Whats the ultimate reason for not liking those chicks? You think blacks are dirty?
No. Racism is when you oppress or systemically target people based on ethnicity and race to socially holding them out of progress i. e. education, careers etc though they qualify.
The reason you won't date a white girl who likes blacks is because you think she's stupid and beneath her race. It's because you can't stand the thought of possibly fucking a girl who's had a black dick inside of her. It's because you think blacks are nasty and inferior, and any white girl who wants that is a loser. Does that sound racist to you?
If she happened to have a black boyfriend in the past, especially if she's also dated various other races, I don't see that as being a reasonable problem and would consider it racist. If she has consistently dated only black men, and now she's looking to settle down with a white guy, then I don't necessarily see it a being racist, but a reasonable question of why you'd get involved with a woman when you're clearly not her type.
Eh... It's not, not racist. Let me put it like this; you probably shouldn't brag about that at most cocktail parties.
You quit school too early.
May I suggest to join the U. S. armed forces?
I'd say the same about black women who date white guys. No racial tho
Yeah, sounds pretty much so racist
No, that's called, choice.
Who cares? do you consider them sluts?
It is a very racist attitude.
@ChrisBlue2120 Are you married currently?
yes may be? who gives a shit.
... i- wha?
Nah.
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