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Pure curiosity, and I'm just looking for your personal opinion.

So really the woman would do all the cooking, cleaning raising the kids, and the household chores. The man works and brings home the money but is still the 'protector' of the family. That also means men would have to pay for dates and pay for their wives upkeep like hair, nails, clothes, etc. since she wouldn't work or, if she did, it would be a more "feminine" job with no authority like a secretary or something and she wouldn't have a lot of money. If you want to lump teacher and nurse in there, you can.

I know financially it would be difficult in 2018, but I'm only talking in terms of being with someone, not necessarily being able to afford a luxurious lifestyle. Being honest, most families with traditional gender roles in the 40's and 50's didn't live a luxurious lifestyle, either, so that's not really anything new.

But do you think dating would easier?

He's 39 years old. He's 5'8.5" with black hair and brown eyes. He's an Orthodox Jew from Iraq. He immigrated to America as a teenager. He's open to having a relationship with a gentile and keeping it a secret. He raises and slaughters his own cows and chickens, and then butchers them. He believes that some criminals, such as Nazi War criminals and Islamic terrorists, deserve to be stoned to death. He hates feminists and liberals because he think that they are trying to destroy family life, gender roles and religious traditions. He tolerates people that are different from him to some degree, but he does draw lines for them that they can't pass. However, his liberal/secular jewish acquaintance describes him as transphobic, homophobic, and ultra-orthodox, but he tells her he's okay that his beliefs make him intolerant and ultra-orthodox.

He becomes friends with the most strangest and questionable men in his neighborhood, which mostly consist of Jews. Some of his friends are religious Muslims and Sikhs. One of his closest, Orthodox friends is the most intolerant troublemaker in his apartment and neighborhood. They both complain about how feminism is cancer, how women these days aren't traditional and submissive enough, how there is nothing wrong with having more than one wife according to pure Jewish law, and how women are becoming terrible moms and wives. If any of his friends' complain to him about their kids misbehaving, then he would scold their kids and his friends are okay with that.

He has a hereditary disease that can be deadly if he doesn't take proper care of it. He's an introvert. He's a family man and both of his parents are dead. He regularly takes care of his younger siblings and his single, crazy aunt. But he's a virgin with no kids.

Personally I wouldn't actually mind obeying/submitting to a man.

However, for most people in general, I don't think it's fair that in traditionalist relationships, the women are expected to obey the men. Especially in cases where the woman is a mother, she contributes as much to the family as the man does: https://www.wwaytv3.com/2018/03/19/study-motherhood-is-equivalent-of-2-5-full-time-jobs/

To me conservative men since they are traditional and believe in gender roles.