Search Results: How to get over someone who told you they dont

Why do some girls just not care when they break up with someone?

So I've been in a relationship with this girl and everything has been perfect except for the past week. She was someone I thought who really cared about me, told me she wasn't going anywhere ever, and promised she would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do guys say they dont mind waiting, but they really do mind?

Being a virgin by choice and at age this is very stressful and a big reason why relationships fail with me. Im 19 and Im just over it. One thing I hate is having to explain myself in the beginning and forewarning the guy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Would you care what your ex do with his life?

The case: A lady who has 2 small children with the ex. The second child she got pregnant in her happy times but while still she was pregnant she had arguements with the father and fight all the time and almost got...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

He teases me at school but he has a girlfriend (this is a really interesting story)?

there is this guy i like, and i've liked him for about a year now. when i first noticed him at school, i didn't even know his name, even though he has went to the same school as me. he is 2 years older than me, i'm a...

aestheticjessica

Xper 4 Age: 24

Relationships

What is wrong here? Is this normal?

My boyfriend is 36 and anytime his mom calls he jumps. He won't answer my call when he gets off work but he answers hers. There is not one minute that I am with him and she doesn't call. She calls him so much and nags him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I'm not sure what to do about my current relationship... Should we stay together or break up?

So my boyfriend and I have been together about 3 weeks. He is a nice guy and fun to be around when he actually interacts with me. He has a lot of issues like being open with someone, when we have alone time its not that i...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Should I give a guy a chance if I dont like him?

There's a guy that I think may like me but I don't like him. The reason why I don't like him is that I find him annoying. He's so clingy and we aren't even together. I work with him and we go to the same school. At...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I get over my bf?

I'm in a sticky situation. I dont mean to fall so hard and get so attached to my boyfriend. I have a feeling that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me anymore, he told me that he would rather us be friends....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Does attraction grow over time? How do relationships work?

So i've never had a boyfriend before or have ever been on a date. I really think it's time to reevaluate my life and what exactly im doing wrong. I dont think its me necessarily. I think its my bad habits and fear...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

8 Fitness & Weight Loss Myths Put Bluntly

Firstly im not a personal trainer etc but I know enough from a shit-ton of research on the internet, losing about 10-20kg and talking to my martial arts coaches but lets cut the bullshit and start the list. 1. if you...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Dating

Why Some Guys are Successful With Women and Always Seem to Get What They Want

If you know anything about dating then you know how hard it is to find someone you truly want, someone who has everything you want in a partner. Some guys can't seem to find such a person and settle for less, but others...

Z-Spark

Xper 5 Age: 32

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Relationships

Problem between two girls. What can I do to make sure no one gets hurt?

I have had a crush on a girl for a long time and we flirted a lot, we spent a lot of time alone together, we texted a lot. She told me I look appealing and I am handsome. I ended up asking her out. She said yes at first...

SethLexer

Xper 4 Age: 30

Dating

Should I lower my own quality to get girls?

Iam stuck in a really weird place atm, i take care of myself a lot, work out, smell nice and look my best when i go out, iam stylish smart and funny, basically i thrive to be a good, decent guy who is not boring and has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

If you're in love with your partner, would you need a week break? My boyfriend asked for 1 week break?

Anonymous

(30-35)

first off me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 1 year. he's a joking type of guy.. he likes to joke around a lot with everyone so anyway yesterday we were on the phone and

first off me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 1 year.
he's a joking type of guy.. he likes to joke around a lot with everyone
so anyway yesterday we were on the phone and he said something that kinda offended me and i went full silent mode and got pissed a little.. and then i hanged up on him
he kept trying to call back but i ignored his calls
i think he called about 4 or 5 times until i picked up and told him that ill talk to him the next day
so today he texted "morning" and i didn't reply
he was at work but he still tried to call me and then he sent me messages saying "you always do this to me. I've had enough. i have my limits too. i need to talk to u tonight. ill come over"
and then tonight he drove to my place and we talked for about 10 mins
this is what he said to me:
"look.. im just gonna keep this short. this is getting too much. i told u so many times that i hate being ignored. its so immature. i have my limits and this has reached it. i want a girl who treats me like respect back and that would fight for our relationship. i feel like you dont have the same feelings as i do for you. i feel like you're going to not care if we do break up. you never hold my hands, you never appreciate what i do. i take u to places wherever you wanna go, i take u out, i drive to you and u never appreciate all that. im just confused about you now. i need time to think about us, our relationship. i need 1 week to think if we both benefit each other. i dont care about the good sex that we have. i care about the relationship and if you're wife material. im thinking of the future not fucking around. so please give me 1 week to think and for yourself to think as well. i will see you next week. dont break up with me over the phone"
and then we parted ways.
Thing is, he tells me he loves me everyday and he doesn't want me to leave him.
Yet he might want to leave me
If someone truly loves their partner, would they still need a week break? Does it sound like it may lead to a breakup?

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Health & Fitness

How to Help Someone Who Is Depressed

Depression is by definition is "feelings of severe despondency and dejection" but its more than that you feel trapped, scared and most of the time you won't ask for help so here is what i define depression as. "A state of...

Anonymous

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Society & Politics

Why Feminism is Harmful to Society

This take is inspired by a feminist with whom i was argueing on here, who despite my best efforts would not see the bad side of feminism and just kept demanding for evidence that the cause of those issues was in fact...

lord_chilled

Yoda Age: 30

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Relationships

Am I in the wrong?

I could really use some advice. Yesterday was my boyfriend & i's 11 month anniversary. Unfortunately by the end of the night we got into an argument. The problem was my boyfriend called me, driving & texting at the same...

T2177

Xper 2 Age: 27

Health & Fitness

Whats it like getting help from a psychiatrist?

introduction: i suffer from a general down feeling since i was still at school. i was never abused or bullied or something. it just happened. as i got older the more i struggled with stuff. like going to the store etc......

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Guy left me/stopped dating me, is it normal?

I make it short. I am 26 and he is 28. We started talking a lot after we met us the first time at a hiking trip. We got along really well and i felt head over heels in love with him. He also seemed like he liked me a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do men cheat?

I met a guy in October. We were doing good til late November. Had a fallout about him chosing another woman over me. I caught him he told me to stop talking or i will be blocked. So i did. The chick told me she gets calls...

Anonymous

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