Search Results: he doesn''t want me

Okay. So I'm not exactly a big social media person - but I do understand it is a bit of a social convention nowadays, a lot of couples posting pics together, etc. I have social media mostly to market my music, and I am finding that my own boyfriend does not follow my pages or support them on any platform (Facebook, instagram, etc.). He claims that he "doesnt really use those apps" but I always see him scrolling through when we are together. I've also caught him "loving" other girls pictures just not mine. Also looking at inappropriate pics of women on those sites. but again, doesn't show support for me.
Also, recently I had a musical performance and expressed that I wanted him to come. He said he had to stay late at work, and then texted me he's going home. So he didn't seem to really care or want to come to my show which was upsetting. I told him how I felt and he responded with a shallow "Sorry" followed by "whatever" "you're overreacting" and that it was "selfish of me". I dont feel like I was overreacting nor that it was selfish of me to expect my boyfriend to be more supportive of things that matter to me. So what you guys think?

For the men, which of the two do you think is a better catch?

A woman who loves meditation, yoga, socializing. Likes to study a person's personality. Very cheerful. Has a strong personality, knows what she wants. Fit. Vegetarian. But doesn't like to dress up, doesn't wear a bra, doesn't shave (which means au naturale, pits, legs, and all, hairy, if you know what i mean), stopped schooling, no work, travels all the time for free retreats, love to sleep around (only sees sex as a fun activity).

Or

A woman who is a university graduate, has a great paying job, smart, good sense of humor/funny, doesn't take herself too seriously but is able to when needed, very loyal, patient, has a couple of good friends, good hygiene, clean and shaves, loves to eat anything, only has sex with someone she loves/doesnt sleep around, but is very into sex (just with the "right" person), but is shy, a bit more reserved/quiet when with new people, and curvy.

If you have to choose, which one will you go for?

Me and my ex boyfriend dated for over 1 year
We fight a lot
Finally he told me that he's unhappy in the relationship and thinks we are not meant for each other
But he doesn't want to lose me so he still wants to be friends
he's always the one doing the contacting first
And he contacts me to go out to lunch and movies sometimes
I never reach out first
If he loved me, he wouldn't have broken up with me and want to remain friends?
True or false?