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So I have a best friend of over 10 years
Since high school

she's really independent
She lives by herself.. pays her own bills, etc

She travels every year.
But she doesn't have a car
she's still on her learners license too.. for over 4 years

She could have gotten her full license by now if she tells her dad to teach her how to drive

She doesn't want to own a car
So she can pay her rent, bills, go travelling every year
So she relies on public transport

I still live with my family
But I pay my own bills
I have a family car so I have to share the car with my dad and brother
I can drive the car 2 or 3 days a week
And I pay for the petrol sometimes
And maintenance
We all share the payments if my parents need help

Then she ask me:
"Are u saving up for a car yet? You should get your own car, be more independent"

I told her:
"Owning a car is expensive here.. we have to pay registration, insurance, maintenance & servicing, car loans, petrol.. every year"

Why would she ask me that?
So I can drive her around and be her uber driver?

honestly I see so many men say they hate women who wear makeup, dress up, or get their nails done etc, Only like natural beauties, I get liking natural girls I get it wanting a natural beauty, but it’s strange to me why so many guys would hate a woman who puts effort into her appearance rather than just wakes up gets out of bed then chucks anything on with zero effort, why do you think so many men say this? I’m not talking about “high maintenance” I’m talking just a woman who takes care of herself and makes a effort what is unattractive about making a effort? Like I notice men don’t seem to have a problem about women going to the gym or taking care of her body or weight but I don’t see why a woman dressing up or making herself look nice is a bad thing because it shows they care about themselves in the same way if they work out or put effort into their bodies, surely it’s a good thing. opinions? (I know this isn't all men by the way, it’s why I put “some”)