Guys, is it a turn off if a girl is into fashion?

[thegirlfromthething]

I do really care about what I wear and I take pride in finding and putting together the right outfits. I spend a lot of time looking for clothes but I don’t buy new things that often because I’m very particular about how I want to look. I wouldn’t expect my boyfriend to go shopping with me or buy clothes for me, and he doesn’t have to be really into fashion as long as he can dress decently. Sometimes I do like high-end stuff but I don’t get anything just for the name and I also like shopping for vintage, used clothes. I mainly focus on regular clothes, shoes, and handbags but I don’t wear any makeup or get my nails and hair done so I don’t think I come off as high maintenance or too dolled up.

[JKingOff]

Actually no. It's the exact opposite! When I'm looking for a partner I look for things, certain qualities that I lack. I tend to be more practical in my dress sense and don't really focus on how I look. For that reason I sometimes come across looking like someone who doesn't really give to schitts about their appearance. I don't necessarily see close as a way to impress others, no I'm more than aware that they can serve that purpose as well. usually I simply just wear them because I probably get in trouble with local law enforcement if I didn't. Plus I can't really hold down a job if I don't wear clothes either. That doesn't necessarily mean that I don't like to look nice. If someone compliments me on my appearance I'm more than happy to accept the compliment and usually am very grateful to have received one. You probably won't be able tell because I usually have a beard and won't be able to see me blush. I love her if I had a partner that was in the fashion and was honest enough to tell me what looks good on me and what doesn't and was willing to help me pick out outfits then that would go a long way with me since it's not one of my strong suits. Likewise, if she needs help carrying an I-beam, fixing the car, or making a meal for 10,000 people then I would be more than willing to offer my services in return. By the way, I might be embellishing a little bit when I say fixing the car. usually the most I can do is rotate the tires, change the spark plugs, or do an oil change. I'm not a mechanic. That being said I am still very physically active, and have 15 years experience in the food industry. So I'm not really embellishing when I'm saying I can cook for 10,000 people, or move an I-beam.

[Anonymous]

I'll be honest, and I'm a fairly confident guy, but it's a little intimidating. But in a good way.

First of all, I really like it when girls are into fashion. It shows you that they got something going on in their head or that they're just interested in something.

It's attractive but I just think that a lot of those types are a little more intimidating because they generally are a little harder to impress, they know what their looking for more I feel like. At least in my experience.

But yea people like that are cool

[HighHithom]

Not at all. Confidence and thinking about what matches what is pretty cute. I used to enjoy shopping with my ex, from charity shops to designer stores (I'm more a fan of me clothes than seconds tho)... It was fun, maybe it's connect more and was pretty educational!

[slatyb]

I love it! I always notice a woman who dresses well. My wife is a shopping genius. She buys designer shoes and clothes from resale shops and looks great on very little money. She buys most of my clothes too because I hate to shop.

[dcog88gm]

I don't think that you are high maintenance at all. Your not demanding it or spending all your money day in and day out. There is nothing in taking pride in how you dress and look. More people today need to look into the mirror before they step out of their house. Pajama pants and slippers hair everywhere that's just being lazy and a slob.

[abc3643]

Who's not into David Bowie?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-z6u5hFgPk

[DanOh2018]

I think it's cool that you're going for a particular look. I take my girl out for regular sexy librarian makeovers XD

[MaikKohler]

It's good that you care what you wear. Pleasure to see a well-dressed woman on the street than the one in leggings and sweaty T-shirt.

[Geminiheart69]

As long as it doesn't take any priority in the relationship is all good, I love my woman to look good even when I look like a scrub 🤣.

[LeoElias]

You should put pride in your appearance

[Geminiheart69]

@LeoElias I agree

[OddBeMe]

Nope. Confidence is attractive. Fashion could be looking like magazine covers or album covers.

[KrakenAttackin]

Not at all, unless you start getting insane about what the man has to wear.

[Killingmoon]

I myself am Into fashion and art so It's not a turn off
You are probably turned off by the fact that I am into fashion though

[Anonymous]

No I really like the very feminine dressy type ladies. They usually take better care of their selves.

[B2281]

It would have to be some very extreme type of fashion. Otherwise not really.

[Anonymous]

That is expected, duh! Most girls are into clothes.

[Cryptic-Game]

It is only a turn off if she's in to transvestite ways.

[Anonymous]

No, that's not a turn off. Being a high maintenance, narcissistic bitch is a turn off.

[winterfox10]

Why would that ever be a turn off?

[thegirlfromthething]

I’ve heard some guys say it makes her look superficial or materialistic, especially if she likes high-end outfits.

[winterfox10]

superficial is an attitude, not a look. Wear what you want to wear with confidence; you can't be fake if it's really who you are

[Gedaria]

No it would be great, just up my street...

[CharlieDMX]

Only if she loves her clothes more than me

[Fuentes]

A girl being into. girl things? no that's normal

[888theGreat]

Not if she pays for it