When did you realize that you have changed?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yesterday was a beautiful, sunny day. I was walking in the park and thinking "Life is beautiful", I passed by the field of daisy and I had an urge to pick one like in my teens, pick the flower petals and play "Loves me... Loves me not..."

I leaned over to pick on but stopped and thought "You have a right to live and enjoy this beautiful day too, I will not pick you, don't worry, I don't care if he loves me or loves me not. "

That evening as I was scrolling my Instagram, I came across a photo of mine taken at 17, picking Daisy flower petals and looking happy because the answer was "Loves me..."

And I realized how much I've changed... Maybe I am not as good as of a person as I could be, but It feels strangely nice to realize that I've changed to the better at least tiny bit.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I've definitely had some developmental growth. Once was mentally 12 and now, I'm somehow mentally 18. I had helped a whole lot more around the house last year up to now than I did a few years ago (more responsibilities). And I'm feeling more like an adult and seen as one (I'll still have someone have the mistake that I'm 12). Today, I had found some employment places and several other things to help me. These are specifically for people who have any type of disabilities, so at some point I'll finally get to have the joys of trying out jobs and see what I want to do. I just need to write down what I'm interested in and see what jobs there are from there. And I can't wait to give my mom her gifts tomorrow for Mother's Day. I bought all of them myself as well as the gift bag to the card. I'm going places. 💖💖💖

[bobalife]

Maturity levels: mindset, choices, thinking, accomplishments, development in relationships, and reactions.
I choose my peace & surround myself with people who wanna celebrate me for me and to be the best me.
I’m usually a “yes” girl to do everything and anything for others, but I’m also slowly learning to say “no” for healthy boundaries.
I don’t have energy for low/bad energy and do my own thing, then react to it.

[sawno]

Wasn't just a "Damm I changed" moment. I'm very in tune with myself so for me the change was completely natural and confronts me frequently because I observe how different my look at the world is compared to others. I see the world trough two eyes, my analytical mind who sees deeper, and my more normal mind that can enjoy the simple things in life knowing full well that another person would only have seen one of those views.

[exitseven]

I had a hip replacement a couple of years ago.

Hip Hip Hooray!

I cannot run anymore and do not have the same range of motion. There is a sandwich shop across the street and before I had the surgery i would think nothing of running across the busy street, Now I take my truck to get there.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[AviatorTom]

I don't think I've ever changed from who I was at a very young age... I have evolved though, in some of my actions, thoughts and beliefs.

[Drewtate]

Years ago talking to a girl I was pals with in middle school. She had always been taller than me and she teased me about it. Met her last year for the first time again in ten years after her family moved and I'm a good foot taller than her, looks good too, years ago you might have mistaken her for a little boy, no mistaking her now.

[Bricealan]

I suppose when I see someone that legitimately needs help of some kind and I can help them and it dawned on me that it takes little effort to help someone.

[sage2021]

When I talk to people that knew me when I was in highschool or my ex-husband and all these years have passed, they always say "Gee, you sound the same".

So, I guess I am still young at ❤️😎.

[MemeSupreme]

i feel like i changed when i kinda just accepted my problems for what they are and stopped self pitying

it's like my brain got tired of it

[talka20]

i realised in maybe 2021... and anhther change I've been realising lately for some months now

[ProbablyClueless]

When I visited old friends and realized that I had nothing in common with them anymore.

[Abdullah_Adhi]

I've changed ever since I stopped giving a cent about what people thought about me. Don't know if that's a fully good thing though.

[Anonymous]

The most significant transformation happened to me after I became a believer.

[OfDeath]

lol you actually did the “he loves me, he loves me not” with a flower?

[Bigantdog69]

No ot even a question... if you say o.. then your probably some kind of far then

[Bigantdog69]

I meant fag

[laly520]

being more peaceful n doing more good

[Anonymous]

I haven't, I'm still the same sorry drunk bastard I've been for the past 5 months

[Maomaomaomao]

When everyone who knew me started telling me I had changed.

[NathanDavis]

when I was six years old...

[eagle1951]

far as i know i have not changed

[DJB72]

Daily for the last few years.

[ryancg]

When I woke up from a coma after nearly dying.

[Lessthanaveragr]

I've been becoming cold for years now.

[Bklynbadboy12]

When I no longer had the desire to do stupid shit

[justabuddy]

It seems every day.