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Do I matter to my girlfriend more than her best friend does?

So I've been with her for quite a while now, and around 3 months ago, she told me that her best friend (a girl) meant more to her than I did at the time because they'd been friends for around 5 months before she met me. I...

Uberflame

Xper 4 Age: 24

One of my biggest regrets was not experiencing young romance. How can I just move on?

One of my biggest regrets is not experiencing romance when I was a kid/teen. Those memories are often really, really sweet and I wish I would have experienced that. The concept of first love itself is really sweet. And I...

nhagf

Xper 2 Age: 31

What does it mean when a guy says i'm not going to push her into anything at this point?

My friend has a very close guy friend they have know know each other for almost a year now. They text all day everyday, they get really down, like extremely down when ones mad at the other. He always says he wants her to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I like this guy, and he's holding back liking me because I'm depressed. Please help?

Okay so all this started a few months ago. We started off as just friends, we went to a Christian concert together and it was really fun (with other people not just us) and I kinda started liking him then. Well then he...

kelseyhannahh

Xper 2 Age: 24

Fixing (or not) a Relationship With a Damaged Woman That Was Already Rocky?

Hi - I'll do the background fast. Met a woman online, started off great, texting, calling, she saying I should come out to see her, and she even dropped the "I love you" a few weeks in. I felt the same. I think,...

Bookished

Xper 4 Age: 62

Is he so psychologically afraid of getting hurt that he refuses to open up to me emotionally?

I pretty much just ended things with my boyfriend of 2 days. Since the beginning of our dating relationship, which has been about a month before making it official, he's sent me so many mixed signals. At one moment he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Please help me get some clarity, what's his deal?

so my ex and me were in a LDR he was really into me and we were sorta happy but he wouldn't confide in me as much and he would sleep without saying goodnight more often. i got worried that something was up and the more i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

WHY WHY WHY is my boyfriend trying to make me jealous? How do I respond? Am I correct for finding what he said inappropriate?

First let me state he can't stand distrust. Any sign and he gets angry. To a point I can't give any sign at all or its hell. He wants trust and he demands it. I have some trust issues because of a difficult past, but it's...

Goodnightcharlie

Xper 5 Age: 45

Society & Politics

Let's Get to Know People Before Making Rash Judgements

I've been single since New Years (nine month relationship). Since I've on out on the open market again it's time again for me to analyze people and have people analyze myself when it comes to dating. It kind of sucks,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Why does he think this is okay?

I recently found out that an ex from a few months ago is a complete and utter fuckboy. Thats the best way to put it. He swans around messaging countless girls. He did it before we were dating. He did it while we were...

acbbjk

Xper 4 Age: 28

Hey! I've had an intimate friendship with him online for 2 years. We've only been close friends, but I feel we can be so much more... so what now?

So, here are the facts. -we met online while playing a video game. we've both moved on from that particular game and do so much more. -we have long, effortless talks late into the night on a regular basis. It's...

Emilydaisy

Xper 4 Age: 26

What the hell is up with this?

I dated a guy for 4 months, it was very intense, everything went quick, but of course it died quickly too. After reflecting I realize I put in a lot of effort and energy, gave it my all, he literally didn't do shit in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My life is a complete disorder, what the hell can I do to fix it?

I made this best friend long time ago, and she warned me how her personality was of being cold and dry. We have share a lot of good moments together, but I have been feeling very insecure lately. She doesn't show that she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

True Love Can be Really Messy

Ok, so I really need to say this, true love is messy as f*ck!! I thought I found it when I was 18 but he ended up leaving me because his destiny was in a religous kind of life, it hurt like HELL. Almost 2 years later I...

Neverlovedback

Xper 5 Age: 31

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Girls, would you date a guy, even after a homeless man threw a soda at his nuts?

Tonight I went for a date and ended up helping a homeless man fix his shoes with duck tape. As a reward, he wanted to give me one of his Sprites. He chucked the can at me, and hit me hard in the balls. It hurt like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why Being A Virgin Is Hell

The title seems obvious enough, right? Well, after seeing a lot of comments, I had to write this take and really go in detail. There are a lot of people who write shit like "thats fine", "it will happen" or even...

TheInvisibleMan

Xper 6 Age: 28

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Can you hate your ex so much?

I met my boyfriend in August last year. I met him Thur my roommate/ friend which is what she called him her ex. He and a lot of other people says the never really dated including him but she's the one telling that...

AskYou

Xper 6 Age: 31

Your Dating Profile Dissected - Or What NOT To Write About Yourself

This is a real online dating site profile, with each claim dissected - what it really means. I find these types of profiles to be completely delusional. Some of it is so cliched as to be totally worthless. Profile Poster:...

Browneye57

Master Age: 69

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