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I'm bad at picking up signals so I don't automatically think of flirting and also I have a boyfriend so that wasn't in my mindset.

I was in the free weight section doing some bench pressing on the smith machine and was recording my progress as I didn't have my regular gym buddy to spot me.
This one dude who was a personal trainer and had been there for a while smiled at me whilst I was working out and was going around cleaning the equipment.
He noticed I was recording and tried to go round my phone so he wasn't in the shot. I made a little joke and said I was done. Then he ended up having a conversation with me for a good hour.
I noticed when we talking about good posture and form that he looked at me up and down then said "yeah... you definitely got form"

After he said if I ever want any advice on any "excerises he would be happy to help."

I told my boyfriend after my session at the gym and said that yeah he was definitely flirting with you.

Do you think this is true or was the trainer just being friendly? 🤔

by the way this was my outfit...

I'm in love, no need to sugar coat it. It's unrequited (to the best of my knowledge) and it's so hard. It's not the first time this has happened.. I liked a guy for five years that I didn't know well. We were close as kids but I liked the idea of him rather than truly him because I didn't truly know him as we grew older and apart. I moved on, and it took confirmation of nothing ever happening, but it did eventually pass. I now like this other guy and at the beginning I was so aware of everything so I decided to approach every step of this as prayerfully and as honestly as possible. I want to Glorify God with everything I do, and although marriage and that guy seem like a shiny jewel, it's nothing compared to the love I have for God. That doesn't make this painless though. He's in my Bible study group, I see him at church, I serve in kids programs alongside him, and any time I'm hanging with my friend group, he's there. I can't ignore him. I don't want to either, because I know that God is in charge and that he will resolve my feelings and my circumstances. I know that we go through trials in life that grow our faith, and I know I must choose one or the other, but I guess due to a lot of circumstances (which I don't have time or space to get into), right now is just a very difficult and pressing time for me in life. I like him for the right reasons, but I feel so heartbroken and heavy around him. And as I mentioned before, that's very often. I'm considering leaving my group, which would be so hard because it's like family to me, but I don't know what trial would bring God more glory. Leaving and trusting him through the pain in that, or staying and continuing to feel heartbroken and unable to say/do anything. I know that God is ultimately good and I'm so excited to see His plans for me, but right now I feel like I have to make an active choice in either staying or leaving for another group even if both choices are equally difficult for different reasons. Any advice?