When a guy kisses you passionately after a second date what does that say about him in relation to you?

[Anonymous]

We went to the park and at some point the conversation kinda died out and we were looking very intensely at each other so I thought he was going to kiss me right there but he didn’t. It wasn’t until the end of the date, he was gonna get a taxi, we were in the main road close to some traffic lights, he waited to give me a hug and after that just grabbed me by the waist and kissed me passionately. And the kiss went on for a minute or so until I pulled away surprised and we went again even stronger. I grabbed his face, touched his hair, he put his hand behind my head and kept pressing my waist and pull me closer to him. Just right there in the middle of the street!! There were a lot of people passing. I don’t know whether this means something or not but I know he’s kinda private I thought he’d want to do it in a more discreet way but that was completely full on hahahah

[pajamasam]

That first time that you thought he was gonna kiss you? He was definitely considering it, and chickened out.

Then as the date was ending he probably thought something along the lines of.

"I have to do it, my chance is slipping away from me, I'm running out of time I have to be brave and just kiss her"

And thats exactly what he did.

No relationship forum, advice column, mentor, therapy, pills, tricks, strategies, or mind games can get you that result.

Thats human nature, and how love works. Sometimes it grabs you by the waste and forces you to acknowledge it. Sometimes love forces you to be bold and reach out and take what you want.

This is just the nature of human passion. And when people crave love and affection, that is the type of action they crave, men and women alike. It's like the lyric from the song

"You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals so let's do it like they do on the discovery channel"

At some point rational thinking goes out the window and we are I fluency by our more primal desires. You are part of his primal desire. Cherish, return it, and nurture if you want to while you can. Because some people chase that feeling their whole life and never find it.

[Asker]

Oh wow well but I’m not sure whether that is love, I mean I don’t think he loves me yet at this point...

[pajamasam]

Love may be the wrong word. But passion... I think passion hits the nail on the head.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes you say to yourself "I gotta do it" And then "nah, what am I thinking" And then "what if we never see each other? " And then "no we're gonna meet again" And so on
But at the end one side is stronger than the other and you either forget everything and get what you want or wish you did what you wanted
He just went for it at the end and I'm happy that he did and you supported him