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So me and my ex boyfriend broke up a month ago
He broke it off because we were constantly arguing and so he thought we werent compatible and plus he wants to focus on becoming a police (its gonna take about 1 year to finish off the full time course and training)
But we didn't remove each other on social media
A week later he messaged me a long text to apologize about the break up and all
I replied so we are on good terms
He asked me out to movie and dinner on valentines day and even bought me a bouquet of flowers but told me we still can't be together right now and want to be friends
Ever since that day, he has been messaging me more often tho
Last week he called me just to ask how im going , how my work is going , if im going on dates , my weekend plans , etc
But he's usually messaging me about his day , what happened in his day , about his career plans , his course , whats he's doing , etc
He messages me when he's at work , on his lunch break and on weekends
he's always the one initiating contact
I've never reached out to him first since the break up
He send me long texts but i respond with 2 or 3 sentences at most
But i still would hear from him every week
Do you guys think he still has romantic feelings for me or just wants to be friends/being friendly?
Im so confused
I still got strong feelings for him and I dont wanna pretend its fine being friends when I want more
Thats why i stopped replying to his last message today :/
But at the same time I dont wanna lose him

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up a month ago
He broke it off because we were constantly arguing and so he thought we werent compatible and plus he wants to focus on becoming a police (its gonna take about 1 year to finish off the full time course and training)
But we didn't remove each other on social media
A week later he messaged me a long text to apologize about the break up and all
I replied so we are on good terms
He asked me out to movie and dinner on valentines day and even bought me a bouquet of flowers but told me we still can't be together right now and want to be friends
Ever since that day, he has been messaging me more often tho
Last week he called me just to ask how im going , how my work is going , if im going on dates , my weekend plans , etc
But he's usually messaging me about his day , what happened in his day , about his career plans , his course , whats he's doing , etc
He messages me when he's at work , on his lunch break and on weekends
he's always the one initiating contact
I've never reached out to him first since the break up
He send me long texts but i respond with 2 or 3 sentences at most
But i still would hear from him every week
Do you guys think he still has romantic feelings for me or just wants to be friends/being friendly?
Im confused as fck
I still got strong feelings for him and I dont wanna pretend its fine being friends when I want more
Thats why i stopped replying to his last message today :/
But at the same time I dont wanna lose him

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up 3 weeks ago and we were together for 1 and a half years
Its both our longest relationship
He wanted to focus on pursuing his dream job so he can't give me 100% commitment, time and attention anymore so he had to let me go
But he still wants to remain friends
We didn't talk much during the first week of the break up other than him messaging me to apologize to me
He asked me out on valentines day to the movies and for dinner and he also bought me bouquet of flowers that day
Ever since that day, he has been contacting me more often via facebook messaging
Then yesterday night, he asked me if he could call me and I said "yeah" coz I thought he had something important to tell me
So he called me straight away
And then we had a 20 minute conversation
He was asking how Im doing, my job, my weekend plans, what I've been upto
And then he was talking about his job and about the career he's pursuing right now and his future plans about it
And then he kept asking me "have u been on going dates? Tell me. I dont care"
And I would just try to avoid that topic because I have been going on dates but Im not gonna tell him that
And then he kept asking me "tell me how many dates youve been on? Are u going on dates this weekend? Just tell me.. i dont care. And I know how you are. you're not like me. All I do is go to work, come home, eat, sleep and then gym and then home again. I know you go out everyday. But if u are going on dates, good luck. Hope u find a guy that can deal with your craziness"
Like why does he keep asking me if im going on dates?
If he doesn't care, then why keep asking and saying all of this?
And why would he randomly want to call me? He wants to see how im doing?
I still have feelings for him and dont wanna lose him but im just frustrated on what he wants!
Do you guys think he lost romantic feelings for me?
Does he really not care that im dating other guys/going on dates?

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up 3 weeks ago and we were together for 1 and a half years
Its both our longest relationship
He wanted to focus on pursuing his dream job so he can't give me 100% commitment, time and attention anymore so he had to let me go
But he still wants to remain friends
We didn't talk much during the first week of the break up other than him messaging me to apologize to me
He asked me out on valentines day to the movies and for dinner and he also bought me bouquet of flowers that day
Ever since that day, he has been contacting me more often via facebook messaging
Then yesterday night, he asked me if he could call me and I said "yeah" coz I thought he had something important to tell me
So he called me straight away
And then we had a 20 minute conversation
He was asking how Im doing, my job, my weekend plans, what I've been upto
And then he was talking about his job and about the career he's pursuing right now and his future plans about it
And then he kept asking me "have u been on going dates? Tell me. I dont care"
And I would just try to avoid that topic because I have been going on dates but Im not gonna tell him that
And then he kept asking me "tell me how many dates youve been on? Are u going on dates this weekend? Just tell me.. i dont care. And I know how you are. you're not like me. All I do is go to work, come home, eat, sleep and then gym and then home again. I know you go out everyday. But if u are going on dates, good luck. Hope u find a guy that can deal with your craziness"
Like why does he keep asking me if im going on dates?
If he doesn't care, then why keep asking and saying all of this?
And why would he randomly want to call me? He wants to see how im doing?
I still have feelings for him and dont wanna lose him but im just frustrated on what he wants!
Do you guys think he lost romantic feelings for me?

I dated a guy for 2 years and then I found out he had been cheating on me throughout the entire duration of our relationship. I left him in May and then I met a guy in July. I did not expect to be in a relationship so soon after such a devestating breakup.

My current guy is really sweet, loyal and House husband material, but he’s not romantic in any way. I have spoken to him and I’ve told him that I really appreciate all the little things he does such as my ironing, the cooking, cleaning etc but I wish he could be a little bit romantic once in a while. He doesn’t agree with my idea of romance, he thinks that gifting flowers, chocolates, fancy dinners are things that what couples in failing marriages do and there is no trace of me on his socia media. I hate to be the person who keeps tally but I think I’ve been very romantic; I managed to get hold of a rare copy of a book he’s been searching for years, I surprised him with concert tickets for a band he really wants to see and I bought him a pair of £200 earphones he has been eyeing up for months. Valentine’s Day is a silly commercial holiday but I was hoping for at least something but I got nothing! nada!

He lives just over an hour away via train, I travel every week/every couple of weeks to see him but all we ever do is stay at home with his mum, watch tv and occasionally go to the pub next door with his mum. I help babysit his niece and he sometimes leaves me at his home alone so he can go kickboxing for a couple of hours. I’ve been going through depression, I’ve only opened up to him once and he gossiped about my business to his mum so I haven’t been able to trust him with any other secrets.

Despite all of that I still really like him but a part of me feels like we’ve hit dead end because he’s not romantic. Should I dump him? Am I shallow for wanting gifts and fancy dinners once I a while?

If an ex doesn't have romantic feelings for you anymore, would they get you flowers for Valentines day?
And take you out?
E. g. movie or dinner

I see a lot of "it's vday who you going to do? Who have you done it with?" I feel like a lot of girls get pressured into sex on this day. Or worse feel like it's their duty. I don't know maybe I'm talking out of my ass. Thoughts?