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for instance if only one if you is ready to date. what should the other do.

I've liked this guy a long time , we are very attracted but i can't tell if he's interested in dating. he was interested but i was not ready for anyone not just him. and we stayed friends, he sort of casually dated but broke up and always came back to me as a special person. i have never dated hed be the first and only person i liked.

he does not talk to other girls, and if one comes up to him he will look only at me, he shares things with me, stares all the time, smiles real big when he sees me -esp when he does not know im looking, tells me when he's free , gives me gifts he makes, competes for attention over other guys im not even into- even my gay friends, asks for advice... BUT when i ask him if he wants to hang out he gets fidgety and avoids answering.

i can't go on this way. i like him so much and i realize I've missed out on many people just thinking of him. i feel idiotic if he isn't actually interested. its not even im in a rush for action i just want to know IF there's a possibility. i think i will just ask if he's interested in dating. if he says no -i move o. is that too harsh? i just dk if i can be friends and not want him.

i avoided asking him on an actual date bc i thought itd ruin our friendship. but i think im wasting time... like we could date without dating. just hang out and let liking each other be enough. but, why can't we be friends and date. of we like each other, dating should not ruin that. if it does we prob just had lust or crush--right?

OKAY !
So my girl is having issues with her boyfriend.
(They've known each other three months and been together two months)

- She's never met his family, but his meet hers
- Refuses to go to family dinners/special occasions
- Never meet his friends
- Doesn't socialise with her parents much
- Pinches her smokes
- Didn't add her on Facebook or Snapchat after beinging together for two months and that was with her asking
- Doesn't soclialise with her friends
- only been on two dates with being prompted by her
- Tries to always use her car

AS TO:
- he is a very nice guy
- shows affection in the bedroom (non-sexual) cuddly/wants to hold her hand
- worries that he bugs her/annoys her if he texts he first
- always willing to help when asked
- he is quite shy and says the reason she hasn't meet her family is due to his mum being very noisy, dad an alcoholic and he doesn't socialise with his friends hardly as he claims they are always busy with work

NEED TO KNOW:

is he just really dumb and clueless to how girls should be treated or relationships in general OR is she just wasting her time?