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We're madly in love with each other, we're a perfect match, however there's one problem.

Like any healthy couple, we fight sometimes, over dumb or serious things, we start off angry and upset but end up calmly arguing and discussing until we realize who was wrong (she's always ready to admit her mistake, so that isn't an issue, same for me).
When she fucks up and realizes she was in the wrong, she apologizes so much for hurting me, she cries and promises she'd become a better girlfriend (which she always does), and right when she says that I feel so bad and hold her tight telling her it's okay, because I know her apology and feelings are genuine.
BUT whenever I'm the one in the wrong and I apologize and promise to do better, she gives me a cold shoulder for a couple of days, thinks I'm a terrible person and hates me, and if it gets any worse we almost have a small breakup which sometimes gets me really worried cuz we might have actually broken up and I lost her, I always have that fear.
Then I gotta build up her trust and respect for me all over again which is really exhausting and time-consuming, while she doesn't have to do any of that.

So what do I do here? I think it's so unfair and I don't know how to appraoch her with it cuz she'd think I'm being manipulative, her forgiving me easily might prompt me to do worse things behind her back because she'll forgive me anyway, that's what she thinks.

I don't wanna toughen up when she makes a mistake, I don't wanna hurt her like she hurts me when I mess up, I'd hate to see her like that.

What do you think?

First they said don't waste time wearing a mask , it won't stop spread of virus, then they said wear mask. They said millions in America would die in a few months, now they say 200,000 by December. Then they said shut down economy and stay indoors and that will do it, now they say whoops I guess we were wrong. Then they it will vanish when it gets hot outside, now it has come back with 90 degree temperatures.

The media says do what the experts say. Why? What have they gotten right? Now Media blames Trump on the failure of others. They say nothing about China which created the Virus and told no one about it. China could have kept it inside of China , but refused to admit to their mistake.

The media refuses to mention the Democrats also caused the spread of Virus by calling President Trump a racist when he tried to stop travel between China and US , and Europe and US. Then Democrats started rioting spreading the virus even more. They also called the burning of buildings, and looting peaceful.

How could anyone with any sense still believe anything the media says? They lied about Russia and Trump, about Ukraine pro quo, and Trump and prostitutes that pee on beds. All proven lies by the media and Democratic leaders.

So , we know Biden doesn't have much of a lead, if any, because media says he does. Remember Hillary? Another lie by media. If Trump has lied a million times , then the media has lied 2 million times. Schiff has lied even more. He said he had actual evidence proving all allegations against Trump , but could not provide any in Senate Impeachment.

Disgusting !