Girls, Did she like me? If she liked me can I still win her back and if so how?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl that I had been best friends with for years, we would text day and night and talk about each other to our families and friends. Until one day I stopped talking to her one day because I thought it was for the best. After a few month I started texting her again but she just leaves me on seen. Months later I started texting her again and apologized for ignoring her. We fought over text and continued texting even when we were fighting, later she blocked me. A few months later we started texting each other again and everything finally seemed normal. But I messed up again one day after triggering her, then spamming her apologies. She responded saying that she's not going to forgive me unless I start changing and I did, until I triggered her again after a few days and then she blocked me. We stopped talking for a few months but after a few months we started talking again then stopped again. After a few months we started texting again but I made the same mistake a few months later but fixed it right away because I knew that it hurts her. From that day on whenever I had a problem I would tell her. However, a few week ago I had a problem and didn't tell her and made the same mistake. She would not accept my apologies and would start leaving me on seen but we would still talk I could tell that she was hurting. Two days ago she talked to me and said that the reason she was leaving me on seen was because she wanted me to block her like how I block my friends when I get mad, she said that she didn't want any special treatments. She told me that the time that she blocked me and left me on seen back then was because she wanted me to admit that I liked her. Yesterday, I asked her if I was to tell her that I liked her she would reject me right and she said right. Up until this week she has started texting this guy everyday and started talking to him. After I confessed that I loved her yesterday she hasn't talked to me ever since and has acted cold and ignoring me.

[btbc92]

Buddy, I'm sorry but it's over she loves you as a friend or at least she did. But the way how you treat her you don't treat her right. You don't treat him with love, you don't treat her with respect, you take her for granted. You're so selfish you're only thinking about yourself. You need to really really evaluate everything that you're riding and actually read it. If somebody did that to you would you like it? I don't think you would. She already sees what kind of person you are, and whether it's in maturity or not, she don't want any more pain. She's done man she's just done. It's time for you to move on. You didn't just blow it once, you didn't blow it twice, heck, you didn't even just blew it the third time. You did this nearly 10 times from what I'm gathering. And I'm just exaggerating the number. I wouldn't be shocked if it's actually true. She gave you more than enough chances. And every time you blew it. These were simple mistakes you could easily fix. But your pride and ego LED you to this mess. She did the right thing in dropping you. And you need to respect that.

[btbc92]

Immaturity or not*
You don't treat her with love*

[Anonymous]

You need to leave her alone. I'm so sorry to say that but my god you cannot put a girl through that much hurt. She deserves better, she needs someone that isn't going to question her worth. She needs to know that the person she is talking to/dating/in a relationship with thinks she is the best woman in the world and will never do anything to hurt her or upset her. You have broken all trust, if you message her you will be prolonged the pain you've out her though. You both need to move on.

[hellohruu]

She has mixed feelings for you. I suggest that you find someone else because this girl looks like someone who will hurt you badly and won’t blink.