Dating
5 h

Should I confront him about Tinder or just move on from this?

I’m 25 and in July I met a 45 year old on hinge. We went on four dates and texted daily. We also slept together. Then in August we both left for vacation. We still talked a lot every day. When we came back he gave me some thoughtful gifts he had gotten me. I asked him if he’s sleeping with other women. He laughed and said no I’m too old for that. After some other dates he didn’t text me the next day. I said ok he always initiated so I should now. I texted him and we chatted but convo was very dry. Anyway he suggested we go on a trip that Saturday. On the trip he was very very attentive and super sweet. I told him hey I like you a lot and I don’t care about your age. He said good cause I like you too and I don’t care about your age either. He told me to be excited. During the rest of the trip we were very close. Next day he texted me and convo was amazing. Then, shortly before I left for a trip abroad, one of my friends matched with him on Tinder. At first, I did not think much of it, but then my friend showed me that he had actually sent her with a pickup line. I sent him a screenshot of the match and told him that maybe I should not have been so excited after all. First he said so what if I have the app? I don't use it. Then he started talking about how i might be moving fast, the age gap, rethinking things and that he might not be able to have the kind of discussions I might want. He also said that he did not want to hurt me. I clarified that I was not demanding anything and that i was not accusing him. I explained that I had been happy dating him and enjoying what we had, but I needed to understand the situation. The convo ended with him proposing we talk more in person when i return from my trip. While I was away, he stayed warm. He wished me a good flight, continued liking my stories, reacting, asking questions etc. That made me think that we would actually meet and talk. However, when he asked if im back he simply liked my reply and didn’t suggest anything.

Should I confront him about Tinder or just move on from this?
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