So I found out my bf was on Tinder via his text messages and asked him about it. He doesn't know that's how I found out but in one of his texts he said he was just "window shopping" to a friend. I asked him whether he had one and he told me he did but that he didn't use it. I didn't tell him I knew he had been on it recently. I just asked him to erase it from his phone which he did. Well, I just found out that's not how you get rid of Tinder. You have to delete your account within it. So, should I ask him to completely delete his account or should I test to see if he's using it and make a fake one? I also want to ask to see his profile and messages if I do ask him to just completely delete it. Thoughts?
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Or you can stop being immature and decide if you want to date someone who is looking around for other potential dates. If he's doing that then he isn't content in his relationship with you. You aren't a secret agent, don't waste time and energy trying to "test" him, just dump him and show him you aren't someone who puts up with that crap. If he really values you he will respect you for doing that, otherwise he's just a stupid little boy you don't need.4