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Last time, I created a question poll about which gender group hurts women the most, with 72% of them saying that women hurt women the most over 28% of those who said it was men.

And, to be honest, I'm not surprised, because as much as modern society likes talks about how evil men are for oppressing women for over centuries, women are actually as responsible for women's oppression as men are since the Dawn of time, from Ancient Egypt to even the 21st century. And I'm not just talking about straight white women, I'm talking about women of all races and sexualities, including women who claim to be feminist and all about sisterhood, yet they criticised and shame women for harmless choices whether it's about their careers, looks, hobbies etc.
And there are a few examples I can say such as:

1) Men (of any sexual orientation) who are into comics, manga, anime and video games won't complain about fictional male characters being "too sexy, too muscular, too masculine etc." while women (especially SJW feminists) would complain about fictional female characters being "too sexy, too feminine, her boobs & butt being too big etc." because they think it's all about the "male gaze", even though lesbians and bisexual women can also be attracted to those types of women and not just men, plus there are plenty women who naturally look like this and aren't straight neither are trying to attract or impress men nor because society says that this is what women are supposed to "look like".

2) And it's not just women having a problem with fictional women who are physically attractive, in shape and very "feminine & girly" but also with women in real life who look, dress and act like that, more so than men do.

This why I believe women are as responsible for patriarchy existing as men are. Regardless, I would love for all of you to share your opinions whether or not you believe that women are their worst enemies, regardless of your gender and sexual orientation.

I remember getting in my first big age gap relationship at 28. I was dating a 20 year old. It was a weird combination of excitement, fear of judgment, concern about maturity and yet youthful fun and vigor. I was also the oldest guy she ever dated too. That one didn’t work out. She was very immature and a freeloader. I also sometimes acted purposely immature out of fear of looking too boring/old. There is a playful way to do that but you need to switch it off fast in when you are expected to be an adult. Not always easy to switch.

I’ve been in 3 other age gap relationships. Biggest gap was 34 and 21. That was doomed to fail from the start but we had a ton of fun while it lasted. She ghosted me after 9 months and I was surprised it lasted that long. The ghosting still hurt and was complete bullshit. But I knew that risk came with the territory.

I’m not opposed to dating women my age. As long their relatively attractive and have a positive attitude I’ll give it a shot. But here are the challenges:

- They are far fewer single women my age.
- They are usually divorced and/or have kids. Not a dealbreaker but it definitely complicates things.
- I also noticed single women my age forget how to be fun. I briefly dated a woman a year older than me and I was shocked/pissed off that she thinks it still okay to shit test men on sexual stuff. She lead me on and changed her mind at the last second. A grown ass woman should know better than that.
- If I want to get serious with one than having kids could be a bigger challenge.
- Some older single women are just mentally unstable. I know that same standard could be applied to me. But as a man nobody is taking a knee to propose to me in marriage. Being single at my age has much different ramifications (and bad stereotypes) as a man vs. a woman.