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A guy from the past that hurt me so much messaged me. Should I respond to blow off steam telling him all of the bad things he has done to me?

A few hours ago a guy that I used to like many years ago from high school messaged me saying that he knows he never was nice to me and apologizes and wants to catch up with me. This guy caused me so much pain in the past...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Very competitive friend?

My best friend has recently been competing with me. She points out the differences between our bodies and says I’m worse, and anything I achieve she wants to have the same thing. Also, she stalks my social media looking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How should I end it with this guy?

I know this may be a dumb question but I need a good answer. I started talking to this guy and found out a little later that he had just broken up with his ex. He kept telling me he was over her and I didn't want to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Messaging a girl and not sure if I should just move on or what?

So background of the girl - A EX from at least a year ago now mutally agree break-up (hit me harder than her) she had a new boyfriend for a few months and broke up with him (Did not know this originally) I messaged just...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Was my ex using me the whole time?

With him almost 2 years. He's been broke the whole time I pay for everything dinners trips etc. He had faith in a stock and asked that I trust him and put money in and we could split profits. He's extremely emotionally...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I being played or just overthinking?

I met a guy almost a week ago and he made the first move. I spent a few days with him. He left yesterday for Virginia and haven't heard from him in since yesterday morning. He asked me to call him to make sure he was up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does this older man like me? If so, how do I get to make the next move?

Hi everyone! I met this man (looks like in his mid 40s or mid 50s) about a year ago at an event, (keep in mind this event has only men in the organization... I know, it is odd but only men wanted to sign up)! That night...

Thatoneoverthinker

Xper 3 Age: 24

Should I catch up with ex-boyfriend?

Ex and I dated for a year and we broke up almost 6 months ago. When he did, he expressed a lot of doubt and still does to this day. He cried too when we broke up. He was initiating a lot of contact recently, wanting to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

I live alone but my parents follow me can anyone help me I'm 23?

I have a year I moved to studio. My mom doesn’t have stable place to live as she wants buy her home so Living with a friend. Recently I only see mom 1x every 2 wks but each time we meet its misery. I’m crying we r...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Should I just tell him how I feel?

My old, best friend and I have become reacquainted, been messaging back and forth for a few months. He very clearly used to be into me back when we were so close, like probably the the most I've ever been doted on by...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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"Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth

This is the first in a series of articles I'll be writing debunking some commonly-held myths about dating, society and life. Myths are beliefs - widely-held but false and erroneous conclusions. They make sense, they're...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Is it appropriate to message your ex's close friend if you're also friends with them?

We split up over a month ago after being together for nearly 5 years. We aren't on speaking terms anymore, it was a pretty messy breakup. One of his closest friends who he has known for over ten years also became my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do men say they love but still treat their woman like crap?

I was married for 13 years and trust me I’m no saint by all means but I left the toxic relationship at the time and left my children behind to get away from the mental abuse now I did go down the wrong path with drugs but...

Boose01

Xper 3 Age: 36

Unsure regarding him disclosing health issues post-sex with me is a sign of trust or does it say I don't want to see you again. Advice?

Been on a few dates with a guy I'm interested in and he seems into me as well. He's open to a relationship and so am I. We were talking for a few months before we finally caught up. We ended up sleeping together for the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is there anything else I can do other than NC to get my ex back?

So my ex broke up with me in November 2020. He cried a lot and so did I. Said it was the right decision, for now, says he may be some big idiot, all the silly stuff they probably just tell you. Stupidly I stayed in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!"

One of the long-standing debates on this site concerns whether you should try to maintain a friendship with an ex after a breakup. The PC approved answer, if you are into regurgitating answers, is "of course you should....

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Ex texted me I love you after she broke up with me?

So my ex broke up with me recently after constantly questioning her.. I lost my trust for her after she cheated on me and I caught her. Most recently was with a man in jail. She claims it’s not really cheating because...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend isn’t satisfied in bed?

I caught my boyfriend texting his ex girlfriend. They broke up around 3.5 years ago. After begging him to tell me why he was texting her sweet nothings, he told me that she’s better in bed than I am. When I asked him if...

Anonymous

(25-29)