Search Results: feelings for the person you once loved

GUYS, Would you want a girlfriend like this?

Do you mind if I share a story? Ever since I was 11 I always heard comments from my closest family members about being bottom heavy and having smaller breasts. I was always on the shorter side in height. I was insecure...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Here's What I Like About Men, Part II

I like when you are... So there's a lot of negativity in the world, a lot of things to feel negative about. It's legit, I know. There are some topics I want to tackle, and eventually will; I've got half-written...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Break Up & Divorce

Was leaving him the right choice?

We were together for about 9 months. We met at the beginning of last summer on the beach, when he asked me what book I was reading. We hit it off right away and began the best summer of our lives. We went on adventures...

Ashleystanza

Xper 3 Age: 26

Relationships

I've repeatedly expressed being hurt but he doesn't see the issue. what do I do now?

my boyfriend makes me feel invisible. he doesn't text me much. in person at the program we go to, he rarely speaks to me there too. but he talks to other people. and he says it's because he comes to the program to get...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Listening to others, the best skill you can have

Listening? The sense of hearing, alongside the senses of sight, smell, touch and taste, it's one of the five senses of our body. Those senses let us interact with the outside world and let the world interact with us....

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

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Relationships

What to do if I love someone but she loves someone else?

What to do if I love someone but she loves someone else? I am with her from more than 4 years. Once I proposed her but she declined my proposal but after a month she came to me and said I need you because I am the only...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What to do if I love someone but she loves someone else? I am with her from more than 4 years. Once I proposed her but she declined my proposal but after a month she came to me and

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Society & Politics

Why people become more conservative/libertarian through life's experiences and getting older (CAUTION: LONG READ)

Some people hate that title, but this is true (for the most part). To give you some background I think back to my late teens and early 20's, a time when you are exposed to more politics because of your age and because you...

bellybuttonlint

Yoda Age: 42

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Society & Politics

We're All Just a Submarine: A Journey Through the Mechanics of Social Media

As I was lying in bed this morning, thinking about various things, something occurred to me. You know what we are, here, on the internet, on social media, or with any type of virtual, digital communication today? We're...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Dating

If I get in really good shape and look very attractive, you think I can find a woman 18+ without a romantic past?

When I mean "no romantic past", I seek a woman 18+ who has never had a boyfriend or even a male friend whom she had feelings for, especially if these bonds occurred at traditional college age (22) or younger. She will...

Lighthouse21

Xper 2 Age: 31

When I mean "no romantic past", I seek a woman 18+ who has never had a boyfriend or even a male friend whom she had feelings for, especially if these bonds occurred at traditional

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Guy's Behavior

If he likes or loves me?

A guy friend is nice to other his female friends and is kind to them. With me he is very flirty in our group of friends, jokes about sex with me but when we are just two , which happens rarely he is very nervous even by...

Deimy

Xper 7 Age: 27

Break Up & Divorce

How do you get over the pain of being ghosted?

I knew this day was going to eventually come, and like an idiot, I still went down this path, forgiving this man despite the pain he’d caused me. I don’t feel anger towards this man nor do I think he’s a bad human being....

MoonNieve

Xper 6 Age: 37

Society & Politics

Why I supported and still support Donald Trump

This is a random essay I had in my head right now. As a writer, I decided to transfer from brain to fingers to G@G. In 2016, I wasn't a Trump supporter. I voted for him in the way you'd choose a punch in he face over a...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Relationships

Can I regain a guys trust? How can I support him if he has serious trust issues and never opens up about his emotions? Can he love me despite this?

This is really long but I’ve been wanting some advice on everything... So I was really close friends with this guy for several years but we had a falling out mainly due to my mental health problems and we didn’t speak...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

How to I go about getting rid of hatred?

I once loved this person. I still live with them. It started with her hatred of Trump and half of america. This person says all Trump supporters are racist and the only reason Biden's dislikes on YouTube are so high are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is my boyfriend over his ex?

It’s been about 4 years since my current boyfriend broke up with his ex girlfriend with whom he was together for 6 years. Sometimes I get a feeling that he might not be over her. She did him dirty at the end of the...

Nordicchick

Xper 3 Age: 25

Relationships

Can you ever get the attraction back once you start seeing your boyfriend as your lazy teenaged son?

Here are the main issues: - He put off graduating university until a year after me so we couldn't move back home when we'd agreed we would. - He is very attached to his pizza delivery job even though his car...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why did he ghost me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

He sent me this: “Hey sorry the last few days were rough. I know you’re feeling distanced I can feel it too... I don’t want to pressure you and I was kind of feeling like I made

He sent me this:

“Hey sorry the last few days were rough. I know you’re feeling distanced I can feel it too... I don’t want to pressure you and I was kind of feeling like I made things worse. I’ve also been procrastinating telling you because once it’s said it’s said and I can’t bring it back in. Well here goes. I have this deep fear that once I see you that maybe you won’t feel for me how you think you do... or won’t feel how I feel about you. I know with all of me how I feel about you and part of me knows that I’d be lucky to even ever be with you. I don’t want that hope to ever be crushed. Part of me would rather live with the hope that someday I can make you mine then come to the realization that maybe you don’t want that after seeing me. I honestly feel more for you then I’ve even told you. There’s feelings I’ve just waited to say in person because even if I only get too say it one time then at least I’ll be able to look at you and genuinely know how you feel. I can’t lose that hope with you it gives me so much motivation and gets me through a lot of hard times because I know that everything is worth it if you’re there with me in the end❤️” THEN asked something like “What days are you free? I want to take you on a trip. If I wait til my life is perfect then I may never have a chance with you.”

Then he DISAPPEARED, but still viewed my social media stories.
I sent him a message after a week of silence and he stopped viewing my stories.

WTF is even happening?
He finally responded after 2 weeks. Wishing me a Merry Christmas saying he was in a dark place because a loved one passed, and that he doesn’t have any doubts about me, and he wish I knew how he “felt.”

We’ve talked/connected all day every day for 1.5 years straight, but I blocked him because I’m tired of being blatantly ghosted this month, but I can’t help but feel cruel. Why did he ghost me? Was it the right choice for me to walk away for good? My instincts are all over the place. I’m heartbroken:(

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Relationships

Learning That You're the Other Woman

In recent discussions, I've seen people react very harshly toward a person who is the third wheel when someone is cheating on their partner. While yes, some people do know what they're up against, starting something with...

Ozanne

Editor Age: 51

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Relationships

Am I crazy or are my worries valid?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years & about a 8 months into our relationship I found out he was texting his ex, first person he told he loved & took his virginity. (Sharing music, catching up) I’m a fairly...

Mewright

Xper 4 Age: 29

Relationships

Am I being gaslighted or am I just crazy?

Mwright321

Xper 3 Age: 29