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Even if you did or didn’t care to interracially date, would your parents care if you did?

My mom, dad and grandma have dated some of every race. As have I. However, I see no interest in dating someone who’s constantly jokes about stereotypical things and makes racially insensitive comments on the daily. For example, my grandpa loves to flirt with women of all races yet he doesn’t feel the different races should officially mix in terms of dating/marriage. And he only comments negatively on women dating outside of their race yet praises the men getting laid by different races. I’ve had to call him out several times about his double standards and slick comments in order for him to respect my history in dating a rainbow of men. But at the same time, no one in my family has ever been able to stop me from dating who I want. And I just personally refuse to continue showing interest in someone who allows their family to dictate who they date. Of course, I still find many men attractive but i lost interest in dating outside my race a good while back. Its just too much drama with the cultural differences and clearly not who I see myself building a future with in the long run. But i do have moments where i consider making an exception to the rule, only to end up regret that decision. Like I’ve really gotta stick to my stance.
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I was introduced to someone (they) that either has low self of esteem or is a narc. I believe the mutual friend knew this somehow because it slipped that they liked and wanted to be with the mutual first!! I was never interested in getting with anyone but the mutual would not stop hyping me up about potentially finding a partner before an event where they'd be there. They were very needy/touchy with me from the jump I feel for it, thought I'd take them under my wing but dating and gifts and ily's were pushed on me way to fast. Before that though the mutual, they, and I would be hanging out and the mutual would push they to get my number. Meanwhile there were times where the mutual would get annoyed that they would be texting too much and would tell me to tell they not to text or they'd be blocked. Either way I knew they still liked the mutual and the mutual would flirt back knowing we were 'dating'. Like make up your mind do you hate them or want to be with him. They and the mutual have hung out together while we were dating but certain events would slip out that seemed minor but they reacted as if they weren't supposed to say anything and would change the subject. Meanwhile the mutual would not text me to ask about they as much as other relationships, say what happened when hanging out, and wouldn't seem surprised or would seem dismissive over anything I brought up about they in person saying "they did that to me too". Either way I believe that they was bothering the mutual so much that the bone was throne to me so she could be left alone but once she saw the outward things they'd do for me the mutual became jealous or changed mind about throwing the bone and knows that the bone can easily be taken back because they like the mutual first. Both they and the mutual are gone from my life because I don't trust them. I just want to know if that sound right or similar to anybody