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Met a guy on Hinge a while ago. Because of my schedule, I wasn’t able to meet him until about 2 weeks ago. He was super accommodating to my schedule.

Date 1 (Friday night): I suggest drinks since he’s new to my area. We do that and take a nice stroll around the city. He was a gentleman the entire time which I loved. He was also super eager to see me again and probably asked me ~3 times during the course of the night when he’d get to see me again. He dropped me off at my apartment and we kissed.

”2”: The following night, Saturday. Again because of my schedule, couldn’t do anything until late so we decided on a chill night. We made dinner together and I slept with him and slept over. When he took me home, he asked again when he’d get to see me again. We made loose plans for the coming week. I should also mention, at some point we were chatting (we were talking about dating) and he said he generally doesn’t like the texting every second every single thing you do (like I just drank water, I just ate a cookie etc). Which was fine with me, I also mentioned that I hate small talk. We’d text every other day. He hit me up a day or two later asking if I had a few free minutes for lunch (he was close to my area). Made plans for the end of the week.

“3”: this past Friday night. We went to a lounge/bar area I suggested, went back to his place, hooked up again. (Almost forgot, he’s been dropping me off and picking me up since date 1 which is about an hour drive each way). Drove me home the next morning but this time, didn’t ask when he’d see me again. I knew it was a busy weekend for him (he was visiting family for the weekend and had a soccer game he was playing in right after dropping me off). I haven’t heard from him since.

I don’t know if it’s me overthinking this especially because we did kinda establish that we don’t like the small talk texting, but does it sound like losing interest? Should I text him?

In a situation where I'm Torn between wanting to make a friend, but not knowing if they like me or I'm being annoying? Can't decide if I should reach out and make plans, or wait for her to?

It's a girl from my town I'd never spoken to but knew of. Two months ago I messaged her to ask about something. It wasn't my goal to make friends, but she ended up being super friendly and talkative, she carried the conversation on all evening, to the point we weren't even talking about the thing I initially asked. She also followed me on TikTok and Insta and I followed back.
The next day, she popped up to me, and once again we spoke for most of the evening. The conversation even got quite deep when she started sharing some personal things.

After that point, we continued chatting here and there, and liking and commenting on eachother's posts. During one of our chats she suggested we meet up once restrictions are lifted.
Eventually restrictions did start lifting, so I reached out and asked if she wanted to make plans like we'd spoken about. She said sure, so I began asking about which day would be best. She didn't even open the message all night, then when she finally did, she left me on read. I Was pretty dismayed and confused, as she'd been the one to suggest this in the first place, so didn't know why she seemed reluctant now. She finally did reply that evening, and said she was out of town but would be back from 4th-7th May

It is now the 4th May, and I haven't heard from her. I'm Not sure what to do next.
I Can't tell if she actually wants to meet anymore or not, and even if she does I'm not sure if I should message her or wait for her to message me.
Something is telling me to leave her alone, but I don't know it's that just paranoia/anxiety getting in the way if me making a friend.
She's apparently only back until Friday, then I'll soon be starting a new job so won't have as much free time, so I don't want to miss out on our chance to meet.