How guys turn into a "beta simp white knight" (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

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How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

You must be wondering with a burning sensation... How does one become a simp or a white knight or be labeled as blue pilled? How do you achieve being called such names by the strangest users, that you've never met (and never will meet) of the internet? You don't even know their names and yet such judgmental calls might linger for a bit longer than you would have expected.

Respect women

That's about it. Respect women as much as you respect men and the others.

They don't owe you anything. You don't owe them anything. SIMP-Le as that. Any acts of kindness are coming out of your own voluntary courtesy.

But perhaps you need an explanation how to do that. I got you covered.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

It will be the easiest that I bring up examples to get across the general idea and then the take-away of it. You will notice the pattern. In none of these examples you expect the girl(s) to be romantically or s e xually interested in you.

Example 1: A lady (coworker, customer, stranger, librarian, guest, whatever) accidentally dropped her pen and you happen to be near the dropped pen. You pick up the pen and hand it to her. She looks into your eyes and thanks you.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 2: You were assigned homework from the university. You are good at the subject but one of your female classmates struggles with the subject. The teacher isn't the nicest nor that helpful because the teacher cares more about making a living. So she asks you to help her complete the assignment, which doesn't require you spending hours on it. You help her complete the assignment and she thanks you kindly with those puppy eyes.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 3: You decide to compliment a woman, that you know and fancy. Nothing over the top, just a genuine compliment. You like her new hairstyle you told her. Or her unique outfit or dress or jewelry or her new perfume caught your attention. You just made her day better.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 4: A lady you know for a while is taken and recently confesses to you about her getting tired of her boyfriend, who increasingly gets more and more abusive. You know better not to tell her "just dump him" but you just listen to her and be there for her and give her some hugs.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 5: You work with customers and fortunately for you your usual customers are nice people. Especially some ladies come by more often and you know them. You can have chit chats with them ladies, catch up on what's been happening since last time and cheer them up and wish them a fantastic time in this beautiful and sunny day. They giggle and you enjoy doing that and practicing being charming with the ladies.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 6: Nothing special. You know it's basic social etiquette to hold doors open. You hold open the door for the guy behind you, he thanks you and all is good. You hold open the door for a girl behind you, she thanks you and... guess what? Somehow you broke an unspoken rule for someone on the internet

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 7: You happen to share an interest with a girl. For example you can cook and you decide she can try out your meal and get her feedback. Or you go shopping for new clothes (for yourself or herself) and asked her to come with you to do the shopping together and she can help you pick something nice looking.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 8: Your female coworker, classmate or friend got hospitalized and you are not far away from her to give her a visit and maybe bring a few things she might need from the outside to her to support her just because.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 9: You absolutely abhor the oppressive ideas, that many guys keep saying: "women shouldn't work", "women shouldn't drive", "women shouldn't study", "women belong chained to the kitchen and make me sammiches and bring beer", "she must suck my c o c k, have big b o o b s, be a virgin and experienced in bed". You shake your head and do not approve of putting women down to what appears to be the underprivileged 2.nd class citizen category. You speak up your mind about it and be banished from their "friendships". You might even take it a step further and encourage women to become financially independent.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

Example 10: A woman you know is invited to a free dancing event but she has nobody to go there with. She asks you to go dancing with her (you might not even know how to dance). You accept.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)

That should be enough examples. The general overall idea here is that the weird internet users will look down on you and brand you as a simp white knight for not seeing women as possessions, slaves, subhuman, whatever. If you treat women with basic human decency, you are good to go to be a blue pilled simp white knight.

Here's a tip: Own it. Take pride in being called a simp white knight and be at peace with it. You do not need their approval or respect. If you don't smoke nicotine, you do not enter into friendships powered by peer pressure of smokers. Decades ago society used to shame homosexuals but nowadays it's nothing out of the ordinary. You can think of "simp white knight" as the new and modern "Ew, that's gay. Are you gay?" cliche. Be in complete harmony in yourself and the world around you. You do not give a damn who calls you what and why.

But hold on a second! Women can't be simps. Or can they? I argue women too can be simps and white knighting for men. It's just not that often heard of. Bad news usually are reported more often than good news. And you know what? Misery loves company.

How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)
How guys turn into a beta simp white knight (or as MGTOW calls it: blue pilled)
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  • AdithyaR

    Wow that was beautiful!
    I read the title and expected some some weird alpha male sexism but man you wrote an amazing piece of work here. Really awesome sir!
    I'm happy knowing I've followed all of the examples you've mentioned, except 10 cause I'm scared of dancing with other people around.

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  • zagor

    Anyone who uses terms like beta, simp and cuck is just defining themselves.

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  • btbc92

    That is not a simp. That is a gentleman. A simp is basically a man who doesn't have boundaries or backbone and just tolerates bad behavior from others, particularly a woman. That doesn't make all of them like that. They just need boundaries and be with women who equally appreciate them. I really hope that this is satire. Because if not, this mytake is toxic.

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    • Anonymous

      Point is that the internet blues call these guys simps and white knights. Nothing wrong with being either. At least simps and white knights actually interact with women 🤣

    • And, a doormat reacts with your shoes from time to time, as well.

      What they both have in common is, both get walked all over. Though, only one gets laughed at, constantly.

    • "Simp" and "gentleman" are basically equivalent words but the former arose in today's non-chivalrous society as a derogatory or humorous way of describing the same thing. What constitutes a "simp" or a "gentleman" is down to one's own boundaries so they are essentially the same thing, a man who shows what would be considered a high level of courtesy to a woman.

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  • Azura_88

    If according these blue trolls being a normal human or a gentleman equals being a simp, then the ones with unnecessary ego, conceit and superiority complex are dick less cunts who keep on judging you.
    They're not men but cunts because deep down they're jealous of women and can't stand if one woman gets treated with respect.

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    • Anonymous

      You got it 😊

    • Azura_88

      Thanks for writing this mytake. You expressed my exact thoughts.

  • lightbulb27

    Very well written. I've lived this and I've paid the price for it as well as I did it wrong for the wrong reasons.

    There are some fine lines here. People will try to label you, it's a way to define and control you, to say "you are hurting yourself doing that".. be forewarned... or to put you down. who knows their motives? Thus, don't listen to people other than those you know and trust.

    Being true to yourself seems healthy, live it sounds right.. until it isn't.

    There is a "simp" that seems good to society, nice to people, connect with them and be their shoulder to cry on... and they will treat you like a girlfriend, be the side freak show as I ended up more than once. Is that ok? I've been that person and it feels good to care for others and make human connections and feel important, but got me nowhere but friendzoned by women for long time. No family of my own.

    They won't value you, that's the point others are making. So you have to check within yourself, why are you doing something, own it as you said, and is that what you want. I think that's the key question..."What do you really want and why"? What is your goal, be true to yourself. Then re-check if that's what you really want and is good for you.

    Had I spent more time reflecting what I was doing, my motive, healing, I'd have changed courses and held to a different line.

    Life can be a real challenge as we learn about ourselves, navigate society, learn about love, life, who we are, and the meaning of our lives... while having a finite clock ticking.

    Thanks for sharing.
    Should we have a national "simps" pride month?

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    • Anonymous

      You are most welcome.
      We simps don't need a pride month. Be pride ourselves basically all the time. When others call us simps and white knights (for not hating women), that's all the pride we need. Others do it for us. In the end it shows more about them than it does about us. Needless to say half of the blues here have either completely missed the points or did not comment anything of value at all.

  • NightHawk99

    Any brothers that read this... none of these examples are real simps.

    A REAL simp always sides with women even when they're in the wrong. Because... Well... They have vaginas. If a girl falsely accuses a guy of rape, a simp would buy her story without a second thought, and will put just as much effort into demonizing the accused as the accuser. He would even let women physically assault him regardless of their intentions because "you just don't hit women."

    A REAL simp does LITERALLY EVERYTHING for a woman just so he gets between her legs every night. There's many other terms for that specific kind of simp - pervert, fuckboy, etc. While it's never wrong to make sacrifices for the well being of a significant other, it would be absolutely ridiculous if you bought her makeup every time she ran out, or bought her expensive ass clothing every time she asked. There's a difference between that and a nice gift.

    And worst of all... If a simp isn't already with a woman, he's desperately trying to be. Sometimes, their constant failure triggers anger inside them, and they start behaving in more nasty ways. A lovely GAG user asked about how to confront these losers, because one kept making new accounts to harass her after she condemned him for unsolicited pictures. Yes... Some simps like to just send nasty pics right off the bat. And some really don't care who they're sending them to as long as they suit whatever preferences.

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  • Lliam

    That was so funny! LOL
    So basically, any guy who treats women with courtesy, kindness or respect is a simp. Any guy who is a decent human being or acts like a gentleman is a simp.
    A non-simp is a guy who is so insecure about his masculinity that he puts on fake macho airs because he's afraid that people will see him the way he sees himself: a lonely, weak, victim with low self-esteem.

    Given that, I'll wear my simp badge with pride.

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    • Anonymous

      Exactly! 👍👍👍

  • Floppy2112

    I actually didn't know what SIMP meant until very recently. This new fangled lingo comes out so fast one can barely keep up. I feel bad for simps, because at one point when I was young, I guess I was one. I idolized women and thought they could do no wrong. Then I went full MGTOW for a couple of years, though there was no word for it in the 90's and as far as I could tell, I was the only one I knew. I can tell you this, those were the best years of my life. There is such a rich life out there when you are not concerned about chasing tail.
    I did whatever I wanted, when I wanted, because I wanted to. Willfully shutting down your sex drive is possible, it's not easy, but it's possible. And once you do, freedom! Of course, I was young and had no responsibilities, unfortunately I had to grow up and join the human race. But, what a ride! I had so much fun, I traveled, hiked, camped, and saw the world. And a bunch of other things I am not sure the statute of limitations has run out on yet. It was a magical time, but like all good things, it had to end. However, it's the only part of my life I would gladly relive.
    It was a perfect sliver in time, everything worked out, all the traffic lights were green all the time. Then I met a girl... The end.

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  • ChrisMaster69

    Good My Take and actually fairly accurate.

    it was not until I joined GaG, that I had actually heard the word or even thought about the fact guys could actually be arseholes to women.

    I think day 1 or day 2 I realised an entire group of ‘Alpha’ 😂😂😂 guys where pretty much bullying any post by a girl.

    Now I can be and often am a complete twat, so it’s just a natural thing for me to speak out what I believe. This instantly puts you against everyone that hates women, hates anyone not straight etc.

    What I have noticed is a common thread, a number of those calling themselves ‘Alphas’ 😂😂😂 are on the girl bulling questions, also those bullying anyone who is bi , gay or lesbian, on the against abortion, and quiet a few on racist type posts, obviously a bit of a common theme.

    Then of course you have those random Pink Anons that suddenly Wade in against their own sex in support of the Blue Alphas … strange thing is, a lot use the same sentence structure and grammatical mistakes, just saying…

    my view is usually simple,, 3 guys picking on a girl simply because she is a girl,,, do nothing or help her out.

    well for some pink Anons they obviously join their brothers in arms.

    Everyone would obviously help the girl….. yes?

    ..

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  • CallmeTheKnight

    According to these red pill, psuedo-alpha males, and MGTOW, If a man does anything outside of sex with a woman is basically a SIMP these days. I'm so tired of hearing that word from men who probably never talked to a woman or has been rejected many times because he has no skills. I was called a simp for having a girlfriend at one point

    That red pill will destroy the lives of many men if they make that the only way to see the world.

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    • Anonymous

      That is absolutely correct!

    • @callmetheknight

      What happened to your girlfriend?

  • MzAsh

    To a Mgtow, if you’re not a miserable jackass like they are, then you’re not a simp.
    Fuck em. I love simps!

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    • Mgtows usually are happy with their lives. I think you meant Incels. Theyre the ones that hate women. Mgtows just choose not to deal with women in long term relationships

    • MzAsh

      Mgtow can be just as bad though when they can’t get a relationship to work on their terms.

    • Then its the womans fault for staying if its on his terms anyways. Men are the gatekeepers for relationships and women are the gatekeepers for sex.

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  • MysteriousDarkness

    If helping a woman out and or treating her with respect gets you called a sinp or white knight then so be it. It's online where you are most likely to be called a simp or white knight. If anyone cannot handke you be being a decent human being towards women then that's their problem not yours.

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    • Anonymous

      Exactly. The thing is we'd do the same for fellow men but we aren't being called simps for it 🙃

  • VanillaSalt

    If you not only fail to call out a woman’s bad behavior but condone or even encourage it…


    You might be a simp.


    If you white Knight for a woman on the basis of her gender rather than the merit of her argument…


    You might be a simp.


    If you have double standards for women as compared to men…


    You might be a simp.


    If you think she will choose you because you defended her from the “asshole”…


    You are probably a simp.

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  • MLGbreezy

    I really hate the terms beta and simp , no one was talking bout this like that till the terms got popular. It feels more like a trend more then an actual way to help guys and have them get done real growth. And the truth is you really don't need to be alpha to get girls or even some high quality girls you just gotta know wtf your doing.

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    • Qdbrown

      There is a definition for everything these days. I think it's interesting and even helpful.

      For starters real alphas don't know their alphas. They don't care. The guys who think they can fake it before the make it are just pathetic. There is no making yourself into anything than a actor for an evening. Most provider beta types show their true selfs once they think they have the girl interested. Once she feels duped, she is going to be gone. Better to just be yourself.

    • dray995

      How does a non-alpha get a girl?

    • @dray995

      Go to youtube and search for pick-up artists videos. That should help you out.

  • Chthou95

    A simp is guy who worships or puts a girl on a pedestal even though he has no chance is aware she has a boyfriend but still wants to make her a top priority and be there for her because he desperately wants her to be with him. That's the true definition of a simp

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    • Anonymous

      Correct idea. However in practice this word is being tossed by the internet blues towards men, that don't hate women.

    • Chthou95

      I don't hate women but i also don't put them on a pedestal. But you'll always have people generalizing eveything and categorizing

    • Anonymous

      True that

  • kespethdude

    These scumbags calling people "simps" are really closet homosexuals. Cash me outside, how about that?

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    • Anonymous

      Woah, chill. That would be insulting towards the homosexuals. As far as I am aware homosexuals are friendlier than whoever uses such words like "simps" or "beta".

    • kespethdude

      That is true.

  • hahahmm

    A "simp" assumes all women are honest/truthful/victims of men. I only respect people to the degree that they earn/deserve respect. That goes for men & women. By default you don't deserve respect based on your genitals. This is holding people accountable for their actions instead of begging them to like you and avoiding all conflicts. The idea that a woman shouldn't be held accountable for her choices/actions is laughable to me.

    That said, if you want to be a "simp", that's your right. Just don't come crying when women dump you for guys who don't act like you.

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  • Mofunfour20

    they do it because their mothers told them to hold the door open, and put the toilet seat down. Simps dont understand their true masculine purpose and value because the emotions they have cloud their judgement. Why dont women hold the door open for men, or leave the toilet seat up for men if they expect us to risk our lives to protect them?

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    • Goatmeal

      So my true masculine purpose is to not hold the door open or put the toilet seat down?

    • @Goatmeal your purpose is what you decide to dedicate your life to. It can't be a person because people can't be controlled. The door and toilet seat were examples of how men should value themselves first

    • I hold the door open for whoever's behind me, despite being a girl. And if I see someone who is having trouble even after I'm far inside I'll go open it. Regardless of gender. It's not a guy thing, people just don't pay attention when a girl does it.

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  • Ilittles

    Mgtow has many points that are valid that every young male should be made aware of. Though a proper mentor will have to teach them to be discriminsting wih their thought,

    Though many young men are unaware of certain behaviours displayed by some women. The key is to mentor them into learning these red flags. There is also something called purple pill which is a male is is aware of the game and is red pilled but also chooses to marry and procreate.

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    • @Ilittles

      If he is a red pill I'm sure he took precautions that a blue piller would not be aware of when getting involved with a female.

    • Ilittles

      @joeblow123 looks like there are a few simps disliking 😆😆
      Being red pill away makes for a man protectin his assets. In no way should a spouse ( malenor female) be entitles to thebothers assets earned/gained before marriage. Though blue pillers and the people seething at my comments need to understand basic statisical facts. One sex is generally shafted across all things related to family law, no one offs, only overalls.

  • StunningANDbrave

    Such a good boy you are on your knees for people that don't care about you, in every one of your points here you failed to mention that women do not at all do any of this shit for men especially strangers. The problem with simps is that they operate on a hidden contract where they think doing all of this shit will make women like them so they can fuck them later, at least players are honest about what they want. Sinps would rather do it covertly and in a way that will turn women off.

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    • Ninjazzed

      Simps think random acts of kindness towards women will grant them free sex vouchers.

      Players are just desensitized shitheads without a conscience or any redeeming qualities.

    • Ninjazzed

      Players also aren’t honest in the slightest, that’s why they’re called players. They string women along and promise them a relationship when they only have intentions for sex.

    • @Ninjazzed

      And yet women will choose players over simps.

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  • Gray-Wisp

    Most people doing the things that you list ARE SIMPING. They're not doing it because they're "good" they're doing it because they're trying to get laid or they think all women are Queens. Many forms of simping also involve throwing away your values or preferences in order to please a woman. I can understand why they're practically forced to do this with the state of modern women but the fact remains that simping is more common than not simping.

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  • Overmind

    Respect is not a commodity doled out to all sundry; it's *EARNED*. I do agree that people would serve themselves better by losing their expectations of others. The universe is a mirror & you get back what's projected so there's an odd bit of irony in that:)

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