Search Results: maturity with age

Right now I'm 20 and have never been on a date before, but I'm planning on spending the next 5 years on my life focusing on my long term success. So I think I'll start dating when I'm 25, but when I do start dating I only want to date women who are around 20 years old and here's why.
If I'm ever going to have kids I don't want to have them until I'm at least 30. I feel like I'll have the finances and maturity to raise a child by then, and if I'm 30 then she'll be around 25 so we don't have to worry about her fertility, and even if she doesn't want children until later, cool, at least I'm not being rushed into parenthood before I feel like I'm ready.
Also I'm a virgin and considering on waiting until marriage, and most other available women who are waiting until marriage are around that age. I feel like I'd just be happier with that relationship.

Sorry if this sounds a bit off, I tried to write this earlier with better wording but my computer spazed out and deleted the whole thing so I had to start all over.

I’ve began noticing a trend. Mentally, little girls and women in their teens and early 20’s aren’t all that different. Except older women usually have some kind of trauma by the age of 20 that if anything changes them a tiny bit.

I find this a little fascinating. I have a big family and at a time was a psychology major and worked in a child development center and actively paid attention to the psychological development of the kids in the center as my job.

It was a fascinating thing to do. And I still sometimes find myself curious and observing people in daily life as I go about my day — people watching, and being observant.

Has this been your experience as well? It’s almost as if most college girls end up with a ‘wtf world?’ Expression and demeanor sometime around the beginning of their twenties. And definitely by their 30’s where I think real maturity happens.

Anyway. Since I had the chance to ask on this site I wondered whether that was true or not in your opinion.