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Seeing this guy the last few weeks, sleeping together, felt like there was a future. Found out he was on a dating site still and talking to other women. Past two days we have been fighting non stop about. Personally for me I think if you like someone you just don't talk to others realtionship or not. Why would anyone put themselves in a poistion of many. That is just my opinion other people are obviously different.

We both agreed we were stupid not to discuss what we both wanted, we did just assume.

He really lost his temper with me and shouted that it wasn't like he was having sex with them. That I was the only person he was sleeping with and dating. For the time being he is not giving up talking to other women if we were to get serious and it started progressing then he wouldn't be even on the site or talking to anyone. He kept telling me I was overreacting and if I kept it up accusing him of sleeping with other girls I would be getting blanked. I told him goodbye after that. Then he sent me a message saying that I was a really great girl and he never set out to hurt or upset me. He was sorry for never talking about where we were going. He really didn't think after a few weeks id be upset that he was still talking to others.

Maybe because I don't talk to multiple people or date them I just can't understand it. I'm am really sad about it we were really good together. And I wasn't looking for any kind of realtionship so soon I just wanted to keep dating I just presumed there would be no others involved.

What would you have done in this situation? Should I have kept on dating him and told him in another month if we can't be in a serious relationship then that's it.

We started seeing each other getting on great. We never had the exclusive talk because maybe I thought we were just seeing each other. Anyway a friend messaged me saying she seen him on POF. I text him immediately he told me he wasn't doing anything wrong because he is single. We've been fighting for the past 8 hours over this. I just need advice.

I told him he gave me the impression of something different, and I told him I don't want to be just an option. You either like me or you don't. I don't believe in dating multiple men it doesn't mean I expect a realtionship either, just want to see how it goes. He told me he doesn't want to put all his eggs in one basket after only a few weeks. Told him never to speak to me again, he said I was overreacting. He said if it developed into something more serious then he would definitely not speak to others.

He he said he wasn't going out of his way to keep his options open just if someone messaged him he wouldn't ignore. He said he never slept with any of these girls or met up with them. He said he never set out to hurt me. I just said when I see someone they get all my attention if it doesn't work out then so be it. It just feels so sneaky to me. He said if I told him I wanted it to be serious he would have explained so I asked why he couldn't tell me. That if I wanted to speak to other men it wouldn't bother him but I honestly one person at a time is enough for me.

I told him goodbye again he replied we know each other a few weeks I seriously doubt you'd cut ties with everyone after a few weeks. If things progressed a bit then it would change.

I didn't reply and and I need help. He has really hurt my feelings I honestly thought he wasn't this type of guy. He is sleeping with me going on great dates then probably going home to text other women.