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I went on 2 dates with a girl. We kissed on the second date. The COVID19 shutdowns happened. We have been having weekly 2 hour phone calls ever since.

She says to me, "Maybe with the nice weather, you can come over this weekend for some responsibly socially distant drinks. :) "

I kind of continue flirting with her about how we might break that and be affectionate. She says, "We might... or I might be too much. I've been told that too."

So I go on flirting and she all of a sudden says:

"It's been a long time. Maybe a video call would be good? Or if you'd be good with a social distancing bbq this weekend with my best buddy, Jason, we can see each other then. haha"

See how she shifted things from it sounded like us being together one one one to all of a sudden having some guy in the mix?

She goes on to explain,

"Jason, I've known for years. We met on tinder and the dating thing didn't work, but we became great friends. I think you'd like him. He's a very fun version of me. haha."

The whole exchange was so confusing. I tell her to get back to me about it later. But somehow I felt that it was all made up bullshit. That there was no event coming up. I knew this Jason guy existed because she had told me about him and how they had originally met on Tinder before (on the first date).

Anyway, the next day, I am planning my weekend trying to choose between which ladies I will hang out with. I ask her if things were a go. She says, "... it's not going to work Saturday. My sister asked that I babysit my niece that evening."

Am I wrong to think this whole thing was odd? Is she shit testing me? Is she just not ready for a situation that could lead to us having sex? Is she trying to friendzone me? Or is she trying to get her male friend to meet me and approve of me?

I want to be an entrepreneur one day, I was thinking about it and the thought of the living wage came to mind.
I am all for all employees having a living wage, even for McDonald's window worker, Walmart Greeters, Amazon Package Handlers, etc. Although I think smaller businesses should get a pass, but I'll make a question about that later.
I looked up the living wage in my state Michigan and here's what it says rounded to the highest dollar. $12/hr ($25,000/year) for a single adult, okay that seems reasonable, but then I look over and it says $30/hr ($63,000/year) for a single parent with 2 children and $20/hr ($42,000) per parent sharing 3 children.

Now hold on a minute. If I were an employer I don't think I should be paying an employee more just because he/she decided to irresponsible have children that they can't pay for. It wasn't me who decided to have unprotected sex and poorly time the pull out, it wasn't me who decided to have tons of casual sex with cheap condoms, and it wasn't me who decided to make babies before making sure that I can afford it, that's on you buddy.
I guess this is where welfare comes in, but the U. S. welfare system is broken, maybe I'll ask a question about that too.