Search Results: she was raised not to show her love

Guy 1

He admitted to being very jealous because of me and my ex, he told me that I look very dishy, he puckers his lips at me, he offered to buy me dinner once, he avoided me after I showed him a photo of my ex, he got up and walked out of the room away from me, he danced with another girl, when he saw that I was looking in the opposite direction he danced with her right infront of me, a girl tried to hug him and he said to her, "OK then". He looked over at me and he didn't hug her back

Guy 2

When I was with him, a man I know came over, I gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. As soon as I did this, he said to the other guy, "I'm jealous now". The other man asked him, "You're jealous?" and he said, "I'm jealous of you". I said to him, "You know I love ya". He said to me, "I know ya do". He leaned towards me with his lips puckered at me a bit.

Guy 3

He is a local singer. When I was with him after a show, someone asked him to sign something so I asked him, "Do you want to borrow my pen?". He said, "Yes please". Shortly after this, another girl asked him to sign something so I asked him, "Do you want a pen?" He said, "Yeah that would be great". I couldn't find my pen so a man who was with us handed him a pen. My friend thought it was me that gave him the pen. My friend handed the pen to me, he looked at me and smiled at me, I smiled back at him and we looked into each other's eyes as I held the other side of the pen. We just smiled at each other and we both looked into each other's eyes. I then realised it wasn't my pen so I said to him, "Oh no that's not my pen" but he didn't say anything. He just smiled and still looked into my eyes. I smiled back at him, I looked into his eyes again and I slowly took the pen off him. He then gave me a closed mouth smile and he raised his eyebrows at me. He then looked down at the ground and smiled and he raised his eyebrows again while looking at the ground

Which man likes me the most and why?

I am from an Asian family but we have been living in Europe for a long time. My boyfriend is european and has a slightly different culture to me. I love my boyfriend cause he makes me so happy and he has been there for me during the really hard times while my parents just ignored me. I also love my parents cause without them moving here i would have never met my boyfriend and they raised me. They do so much for me but lately we just have different opinions about everything which affects my depression too.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 years now, so he asked me to move in together with him. I honestly loved the idea especially cause we are discussing about marrying someday and would be nice to see if we are able to live together for like a few months to a year before we decide if we want to get married. I feel like it would really test our relationship cause we have been in a distance relationship for like 4 years now.

However my family isn't happy with it cause they are very worried about their reputation in the Asian community around here. My father has many friends whose children are getting married now and my parents don't even like my boyfriend cause he isn't an engineer or a doctor and he isn't Asian. They want a husband for me who can take care of me and have a high status in the community so that they can show off just like the way they did with me. They mean well in what they have been brought up with but my perspective has changed cause i am a lot more open minded and my boyfriend is a forensic scientist and currently im studying clinical psychology so i can't take time off to get married within a few years anyway.

That's why I am so confused in what to do? I really want to move in and try it out with my boyfriend but i don't want my parents to just cut me out of their lives because of this. Plus I know i can't be in the middle and have to choose one or the other some day.