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We started seeing each other getting on great. We never had the exclusive talk because maybe I thought we were just seeing each other. Anyway a friend messaged me saying she seen him on POF. I text him immediately he told me he wasn't doing anything wrong because he is single. We've been fighting for the past 8 hours over this. I just need advice.

I told him he gave me the impression of something different, and I told him I don't want to be just an option. You either like me or you don't. I don't believe in dating multiple men it doesn't mean I expect a realtionship either, just want to see how it goes. He told me he doesn't want to put all his eggs in one basket after only a few weeks. Told him never to speak to me again, he said I was overreacting. He said if it developed into something more serious then he would definitely not speak to others.

He he said he wasn't going out of his way to keep his options open just if someone messaged him he wouldn't ignore. He said he never slept with any of these girls or met up with them. He said he never set out to hurt me. I just said when I see someone they get all my attention if it doesn't work out then so be it. It just feels so sneaky to me. He said if I told him I wanted it to be serious he would have explained so I asked why he couldn't tell me. That if I wanted to speak to other men it wouldn't bother him but I honestly one person at a time is enough for me.

I told him goodbye again he replied we know each other a few weeks I seriously doubt you'd cut ties with everyone after a few weeks. If things progressed a bit then it would change.

I didn't reply and and I need help. He has really hurt my feelings I honestly thought he wasn't this type of guy. He is sleeping with me going on great dates then probably going home to text other women.