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I have noticed a pattern regarding social interactions throughout my life. I was an only child for most of my younger years, through middle school and up until now, I encounter animosity with other individuals. I was bullied as a kid and dealt with catty girls in high school. I am now in my mid twenties and have my first real job, I cannot say it has improved. I never really have drama with men, it’s always women. I do not see myself as a threat, I’m very quiet. When I tried to be friendlier in high school, people picked on me. I have come to a point where I just am completely solitary and still seem to have this issue, I am now being bullied in the workplace. People have made remarks about how quiet I am, I do not greet when I leave or enter the office. I should find a middle ground where I can be introverted & still friendly to some degree but I choose not to.

For the most part, there is always 1-2 women, that try to make my life difficult in some type of environment (work/school). I know I sound like a victim here but I cannot help but come to the conclusion that I am. I go from dealing with school girls to grown women with children. I’m damned if I do and dammed if I don’t. I do not think my experience has been normal, I do not want to come across as a pushover. I refuse to be a people pleaser, I prefer to put my foot down. This has been brought to the attention of management, they’re generally passive and tend to approach from a general standpoint (try to at least sustain the issue/ not make it too obvious). It usually results in the drama gets out of control and there’s tense confrontation.

Any insight? Doesn’t sound like I’m the issue?

to me, Im not pretty, just average, slim, small boobs, quite big butt, I wore modest clothes and virgin. most women hates me with my face and my body. I don't understand that. guys giving hint to wait until I approach them. in fact I'm extremely shy. I unable to look at guy's face much and even talk to them. which result made me being single and never had any boyfriend yet. when I made some guy friends, they would try to be since they aren't single. and people around would assume that I'm dating with my male friends. this would make awkward and they started to stopped talking to me when people did this to me. I'm straight. I feel sad for being lonely. and I ever sext with some guys a few time. especially when I have problems.

at home, mom and I are completely different. when she was young, she was a wild woman. guys kept running into her. so having a daughter like made her and stressed out because I'm single. she often insult me for being single. and keep saying that I should not scream, yell, angry at my brothers. while my brothers kept being rude to me and never wanted to do chores. my parents and my siblings making me into a maid. today's when I woke up late and I asked my brother to clean the bed, my mom kept backing him up, by saying he did some chores and and studying right now. in fact he was gaming. when I told her all that, she just doesn't believe what I say and slapped me many times. she told me that I should not be rude. and insulting me while saying that no man would like me for being like this.

I'm the only daughter in this family. my aunt kept saying that my family should treat me better. but why my own family doing this to me?